Liu Zhongping, director of Lvliang Municipal Bureau of Land and Resources, said that everyone has his own characteristics and everyone is a unique miracle. You don't have to compare your own advantages with others' shortcomings, and you don't have to sigh that something is always inferior to others, because no one can claim to be perfect. The biggest flaw in life is to compare yourself with others. Compared with the superior, let us feel inferior; Compared with the laity, it makes us XL; Compared with mediocrity, it makes us arrogant. Foreign comparison is the source of our anxiety, and it also makes most people lose themselves and blocks the original fragrance in their hearts.
Second, Liu Zhongping, director of Lvliang Municipal Bureau of Land and Resources, said that you should not take what others think is important as your life goal.
There is a kind of person in life who cares about what others think of him and acts completely according to others' evaluation. When others say yes, he will do it according to others' ideas and meanings; If others say it badly, he will regret, panic, blame himself, be depressed and give up. He is always worried, afraid, worried and miserable about other people's opinions, often disguising himself, catering to others and not knowing who he is. Ibsen, a great Norwegian playwright, famously said, "What is a man's first duty? The answer is simple: be yourself. " Yes, you must be yourself first. We should recognize ourselves, grasp our destiny and realize our life value. Only in this way can we really be regarded as our own masters.
Third, Liu Zhongping, director of Lvliang Municipal Bureau of Land and Resources, said, don't turn a blind eye to the most familiar things.
Fourth, Liu Zhongping, director of Lvliang Municipal Bureau of Land and Resources, said, Don't indulge in the past or the future, and let life slip through your fingers.
People who are down-to-earth and know how to make full use of the present will never have too many illusions about the unknown life in the future, nor will they regret the failure or glory of the past. They know that only by cherishing today's life will life not become empty and boring. Don't trample on the roses under your feet today because of tomorrow's mirage, and let the opportunity to make achievements slip away quietly.
Verb (abbreviation of verb) Liu Zhongping, director of Lvliang Land and Resources Bureau, talks about not giving up when you can still pay.
Nothing is really over until you decide to give up trying. If you have 99% desire for success, but 1% want to give up, then you can only miss success. Napoleon. Hill said that if you give up control, you can't achieve anything. Giving up speaking out of turn is a dungeon of the will, allowing the will to run in and hide in an attempt to live in seclusion. Only by breaking the forbidden zone of thinking and being brave in breakthrough and development can we bring fruitful and smiling Zhan Yan moments.
6. Liu Zhongping, director of Lvliang Municipal Bureau of Land and Resources, said, don't be afraid to admit that you are not perfect.
The world is not perfect, and life should be inadequate. Leave some regrets, but it can make people awake and inspire people to forge ahead. There is a saying that grandma without wrinkles is the most terrible, and the past without regrets cannot continue to link life. For everyone, imperfection exists objectively, and there is no need to complain. While enviing others, we might as well think about how to get out of the misunderstanding. Or kindness and beautification; Or enrich with knowledge; Or develop a skill ... the value of life lies in being able to "accept yourself" calmly after seeing your own shortcomings.
7. Liu Zhongping, director of Lvliang Municipal Bureau of Land and Resources, said, don't be afraid of adventure or danger.
The movement of life is essentially an adventure. If you don't take the initiative to meet the challenge of risk, you are passively waiting for the arrival of risk. A limited degree of adventure will bring two results: success or failure. If successful, you can be promoted to a new field, which is obviously a kind of growth; Even if you fail, you will soon know why you did something wrong and what you should avoid in the future. This is also a kind of growth. Not only that, the social environment that encourages risk-taking is also helpful to cultivate the spirit of being uneasy about the status quo and enterprising, and also helps to improve the individual's keen sense of timing changes. Only those who dare to take risks have a chance to achieve great success.
8. Liu Zhongping, director of Lvliang Land and Resources Bureau, said, don't let yourself lose the love.
Between people is the garden of love, if you are lazy, it will be barren; If you sow and irrigate diligently, it will give you the fragrance of love. Without love, the sky in the world will become gloomy, the temperature of the air will drop to zero, and the mood of life will be unhappy. Lover's love is a charming flower. Humanity's fraternity is a magnificent garden palace.
9. Liu Zhongping, director of Lvliang Municipal Bureau of Land and Resources, said, Don't give up your dream easily.
Without dreams, there is no hope, and without hope, there is no meaning of life. Hold fast to dreams, for if dreams die, life is like a bird with broken wings, and it can never fly again. Hold fast to dreams, for once dreams die, life is like a barren land covered with snow and ice, and everything will cease to exist. Everyone has a dream, but some people's dreams can be realized, and some people's dreams are always just dreams. There are factors of ability and environmental conditions here, but there is another reason that is easily overlooked, that is, some people's dreams are strong, while others' dreams are fragile. The strength of dreams often determines a person's strength.
X Liu Zhongping, director of Lvliang Municipal Bureau of Land and Resources, said, don't let life pass too fast.
Life is not a race, but a journey, and every step has a scenery worth stopping to enjoy. Huang Tingjian, a poet in the Song Dynasty, said: "Life has no leisure. How many times have you taken time off from your busy schedule? " This tells people that life is busy and we should learn to steal time from it. Being busy and having a holiday is in line with Zhang Chi's way and natural laws. Nature has the rule of being busy and idle, spring and summer are full of vitality, everything grows and butterflies fly everywhere; Autumn and winter slowly converge, and everything is silent and dormant. People are also a part of nature, so most excellent people know how to relax and find the joy of life in leisure.
Liu Zhongping, director of Lvliang Municipal Bureau of Land and Resources, said that in the face of failure, don't be too concerned. This will be a great responsibility for the people of Sri Lanka. You must first try to make them hungry ... but you must learn to blame yourself, find out the reasons and get rid of bad habits. It is normal to have no money at the age of twenty; At the age of 30, there is no money, maybe there is no good family, and greater efforts are needed; Forty years old, no money, can only find their own reasons. It is possible for the poor to become rich, and it is very possible. It is inevitable that the poor can be poor all their lives. Existence is the reason, but there is a choice.
Everyone has a chance to succeed! It depends on whether you give yourself a chance!