The survey results show that teachers who are liked and loved by students have the following common characteristics: (The order is also very important)

1. Harmonious teacher-student relationship

2. Serious and responsible work attitude

3. Profound knowledge and strong education and teaching ability.

4. Humorous personality characteristics

5. Fair and just attitude (students' values)

There are three pairs of antonyms that will exist in these teachers at the same time. There seems to be a contradiction.

1. Strict and tolerant

2. Lively and calm

3. Direct and implicit

After reading the students' answers, you will naturally sum up four words: a teacher and a friend.

Why is this the result? How is the behavior of a good teacher reflected?

First, a harmonious relationship with students

Teacher-student relationship is an important interpersonal relationship. A good relationship is beneficial to both sides' physical and mental health, determines children's emotions and attitudes, and determines the effect of education and teaching activities.

The activities of teachers and students are mainly teachers' "spreading words and accepting careers". In this case, students can only "get close to the teacher" to "channel"; At the same time, students are more "close to the teacher" because they believe in the teacher's way and form a virtuous circle.

How can students get close to teachers?

Its core is teachers' love for students, which is the foundation of education. Teachers should also have the will and ability to "love all students". It is also a reflection of teachers' morality.

With the above foundation, teachers will become a natural behavior in education and teaching activities. Children can feel it naturally.

They say that his teacher: respects students, is affable and considerate, and is like friends with us. He treats people kindly, communicates harmoniously, is patient, has strong affinity, communicates well, has a good relationship with students, loves students and has a good personality. The children's wishes are full of various emotional colors, describing the unspeakable feelings between teachers and them.

2. Be serious and responsible, and work hard.

This is a good quality of teachers and an example for students to learn. Teachers' role models are more important than words and deeds. Students learn professionalism from teachers, and at the same time promote their academic and ideological progress.

They see that the teacher arrives at school earlier than them every day, and they don't give up on each student's academic performance. They see that teachers often prepare lessons at school after work and make up lessons for students free of charge.

We were rated as the most popular teacher among students. A classmate in her class is often late. The head teacher calls her immediately after getting up every morning. After half a month, this classmate has never been late again.

This is an old teacher's dedication and a good human quality. Students live in such a guided environment.

They expressed their respect for teachers: conscientious, conscientious and responsible, selfless dedication, selfless dedication and so on.

Third, profound knowledge and strong ability in all aspects.

This is also the foundation of teachers. Students in the new era have a wide range of knowledge and a strong thirst for knowledge. They are hard to be impressed by the average level of knowledge. They admire knowledgeable and thoughtful teachers. In class, a good teacher can greatly broaden students' horizons and consolidate their basic knowledge and ability.

At the same time, it can give students ideological guidance and do their ideological work well.

This is what they say about teachers: knowledgeable, crazy in lectures, clear in context and easy to understand in geography. Strict teaching, developed body nerves, too easy creatures, can do ideological work, will convince us and help us a lot.

Fourth, humor.

This is a feature that we didn't expect before the investigation. All children's favorite teachers and students think they have this feature.

Humor is the lubricant of interpersonal relationship and the factor of happiness. Humor may be particularly important under the heavy study pressure of students.

Children evaluate their teachers like this: optimistic, humorous, able to tell jokes, a little funny, enthusiastic, loud, laughing and joking. Sometimes I am super serious, but sometimes I joke like a friend.

Verb (abbreviation of verb) fairness and justice

A problem that students attach great importance to. Adolescent students have a strong sense of self and especially want to be treated like others, so they pay special attention to whether teachers are treated equally, and often confront teachers because of this. Therefore, "love all students" is the bounden duty of teachers.

They say teachers they like: treat all students equally and give everyone opportunities.

Let's interpret three pairs of contradictory words: We find that children's favorite teachers are strict and tolerant, straightforward and implicit, lively and calm. This is the requirement of standardizing teacher management and personality for children.

In the investigation, we found that teachers who are too strict in management are not popular with students; Teachers who are also too loose are not welcome. Teachers who are too straightforward are easy to hurt students, and teachers who are too implicit are easy to confuse students. At the same time, children like teachers who sing songs under what circumstances.

They like this teacher as well as their own teacher's shortcomings.

For example, Teacher Shen, who is the most popular among students, said that she loves to cry, laugh, eat and buy things (she wants to lose weight every day), but the children ignored her and told her to stop crying and feel distressed!

The children said to Mr. Cui: When it's time to be severe, anger is even more terrible, and it's stormy.

Children are also very concerned about the lives of teachers. They said to the teachers: get married early, have children early, find a boyfriend, become more and more handsome, eat less, lose weight and so on. All these show their love for the teacher.

Of course, children also list the characteristics of teachers they don't like:

Personality: changeable personality, short temper, big mood swings, stubbornness, individuality, meanness, low emotional intelligence, arrogance and naivety.

Management: too serious, lack of deterrence, simple attention to eccentric communication methods and many rules, behavior: nagging and forgetfulness.

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