Forgive other people's mistakes, don't hold grudges, others will certainly deal with you as you deal with them. Be lenient with your enemies, they will find their conscience and find opportunities to retaliate with death. The reason is that you didn't remember his fault and give him hope. His gratitude is in his heart, so once a person's energy and talent are brought into play, he can do great things and make great contributions to himself, others and society. Compared with Guo Jin, who didn't kill his own enemy, those who found fault with others were not stupid. In the Eastern Han Dynasty, there was a man named Su Muwei, whose father Su Qian had been a captain in Li Si. Because of the estrangement between Li Hao and Su Qian, he sentenced Su Qian to death for personal grievances. Su Muwei was only 18 years old at that time. He sent his father's coffin home and buried it in a hurry. He also hid his mother in Wudu Mountain, changed his name and surname, and used his family wealth to recruit and prepare to assassinate Li Hao. Unfortunately, it didn't happen. After a long time, Ho Lee was promoted to senior sinong.
Su Buwei and others secretly began to dig holes under the north wall of Dasinong Office. Dig at night and hide during the day. After more than a month, I finally hit the hole under Li Hao's bedroom. One day, Su Buwei and his men rushed out from under Li Hao's bed. Unfortunately, Li Hao went to the toilet, so he had to kill his youngest son and aunt, and left a letter. Li Hao was surprised when he returned to the house. He was so scared that he arranged many thorns indoors and dared not sleep at night. Su Buwei knew that Li Hao was ready and it was impossible to kill him, so he dug up the tomb of the Li family and took Li Hao's father's head to the market for public display. Hearing this, Li Hao felt like a knife, angry and hateful, but afraid to say anything. It wasn't long before he vomited blood and died.
Ho Lee killed people because of a little personal vendetta, but Su Buwei only wanted revenge in his life. Li Hao held a grudge. As a result, his wife and children were killed and his dead father was humiliated. The store finally died of anger and was laughed at by the whole world. It's really stupid
It is unforgivable to keep others' faults firmly in mind just because of a trivial matter, which can only make people see that they are narrow-minded and lack Qi Xin's cooperation.
Li Guang, a native of the Western Han Dynasty, was once a general of the Han Dynasty. On one occasion, he was put in prison because of defeat, and he should be put to death. After that, he paid a ransom to avoid death and became a common people. He lives in seclusion in Nanshan, Lantian County and hunts for a living. One night, I was drinking with others in other places, and I passed by Baling Pavilion when I came back. The keeper of Baling Pavilion was drunk and reprimanded Li Guang for parking. Li Guang's entourage said, "This is the former general Li." The warden said, "Today's generals are not allowed to walk at night, let alone the former generals." The warden stopped Li Guang from living in the pavilion and didn't let him go until dawn. Soon, Xiongnu attacked western Liaoning and killed the satrap. Later, Li Guang was appointed as the right Beiping county magistrate. Li Guang called Ba to the barracks, killed him, and then wrote an apology to the emperor, but he didn't blame him. The emperor didn't blame Li Guang, not because he didn't make a mistake, but because others stopped his behavior while performing official duties. He was so young that he held a grudge. And once in power, he retaliates against others. The emperor didn't feel guilty about him, but just wanted to use him temporarily. You can't bear resentment like this and become a general for nothing.
There is a more hateful hatred in the world, that is, Luo Zhi kills people on charges, and in order to achieve personal goals, he tries his best to frame innocent people.
During the Three Kingdoms period, there was a Zhongshulang named Lu Yi in Wu, and Sun Quan put him in charge of government documents at all levels. Therefore, Lu Yi listed the charges in words, belittled the ministers in the DPRK and rejected the innocent people. Pan Jun often worried that Lu would mess up the country, and he cried every time he said this. At that time, Lu told Sun Quan about Prime Minister Gu Yong. Sun Quan was furious and rebuked Gu Yong. Xie Tong said to Lu Yi, "If Gu Yong is dismissed, will Mrs. Pan succeed him?" Lu Yi said, "Almost." Xie Hong said, "Mrs Pan used to hate your teeth. Now that he has changed Gu Yong, I'm afraid he will attack you tomorrow. " Coco was afraid and immediately turned to save Gu Yong. Later, Pan Jun held a banquet for hundreds of officials, trying to kill Lu Yi at the banquet, so as to kill himself. Coco knew that people refused to go because they were ill. Later, the eunuch informed the emperor for Zhu Chu, the left general, because he deliberately punished him. Sun Quan just woke up and thoroughly investigated Coco's crimes. Lu Yi was finally killed.
Framing the innocent, you have not benefited yourself, and others have suffered. Therefore, people should be lenient with others, otherwise they will always harm others and will eventually harm themselves.
Li was the prime minister of Xuanzong in Tang Dynasty. He is jealous of virtuous and talented people, rejecting and suppressing those who are better than himself; He has a sinister character and is called "the snake in the mouth". If he sat alone in the crescent hall that night, someone would be killed the next day. He has been a prime minister for more than ten years and secretly killed many loyal ministers, so he made many enemies, so he was always worried about meeting assassins. When he goes out, he is protected by more than 65,438+000 guards, holding Wu Jin to clear the streets, and his predecessor can reach hundreds of steps away. Reinforce the house where you live and set up multiple walls, just like defending the enemy. After sleeping all night, he had to move to several sleeping places, and even his family didn't know where he lived.
Li really doesn't know how to tolerate jealousy, but from jealousy to hatred, from hatred to injury, from injury to hatred, so that he was scared to be restless day and night, and finally did not end well.
Indeed, the most difficult thing in the world is to repay kindness with kindness, not forgetting old scores and being lenient with others. It takes a lot of perseverance and courage to endure the harm of others. It is impossible for people who are treacherous to themselves without ambition and noble cultivation.
Han Anguo, a native of the Western Han Dynasty, worked as a doctor under Liang. Later, he committed a crime and went to prison. Tian Jia, a small official in prison, insulted him. Han Anguo said: "Will the resurgence not revive?" Tian Jia said, "If that's the case, I'll put it out with urine." It didn't take long for Liang's post of minister of internal affairs to be vacant, and the Han Dynasty sent a special envoy to serve as minister of internal affairs. Tian Jia was scared when he heard the news and ran away. Han Anguo said: "If Tian Jia doesn't come back to take office, I will destroy his family." Tian Jia offered a humble apology, and Han Anguo said with a smile, "Do people like you deserve my revenge?"
In the Tang Dynasty, Li Jifu made up for the lack of knowledge with the help of his ancestors. He is very proficient in laws and regulations, so both Li Bi and Dou Shen attach great importance to him and treat him well. At that time, Lu Zhi suspected that they were one party, so he summoned Ming Chengzu and appointed Li Jifu as the long history of Mingzhou. Later, Lu Zhi was demoted to Zhongzhou, and the Prime Minister wanted to harm Lu Zhi, so he appointed Li Jifu as the secretariat of Zhongzhou in an attempt to make him punish Lu Zhi. After Li Jifu came to power, he forgot his old grievances and became friends with Lu Zhi. What people valued at that time was Li Jifu's bearing.
Hatred is getting deeper and deeper, feuds are unbearable, and revenge is endless, which is not good for individuals and careers. It is really necessary to have a broad mind to endure hatred and return good for evil. As long as we can realize the harm of feud, I believe most people can try their best to resolve conflicts and make concerted efforts.