The best job now may be this aunt, but her words are a bit obvious.
In fact, employers like aunts who have jobs in their eyes, talk less, don't gossip and ask less.
My dad said that finding a good aunt is more difficult than finding a husband, which is really interesting.
The aunt I invited before may be really ordinary at work, but she is not as talkative as this aunt, but "she talks too much and loses", and some words make people see her inner intentions.
Maybe she brainwashed other employers, but I can't. As a picky and framed Scorpio woman, I hate being pua.
She tried this rule on old people, but not on me.
First of all, I like comparison
On the first day, she likes to tell me that her hourly salary in her former employer's house is five yuan higher than mine, but my house is longer and she prefers to work in my house.
I buy vegetables every day. She likes to evaluate which food is good, which employer buys which food and meat is delicious, and says that the meat I buy is not delicious.
Even rice. Personally, I prefer to eat Thai fragrant rice. She told me more than once that the Wuchang rice in her neighbor's house is so delicious that people can't stop eating it.
Although I switched to the rice she suggested later, I was still a little upset because she tried to guide me to buy what she thought was good.
Second, express that you also use good products at home, and suggest that the employer give her the same type.
She vomited on my mop bucket countless times. Later, when she changed the mop cloth, she was less talkative, but she often expressed that she also used a brand of good products at home.
Moreover, she took a fancy to the medicine my mother took and my mother-in-law's pajamas and said that she would transfer money to them to buy them.
I don't like this behavior of confusing boundaries the most. I don't want to ask you dozens of dollars an hour to make friends. We're just an employment relationship. Please don't ask too much.
Third, I like to chat crazily while working.
I am a quiet person after work, so if I want to talk, I will talk to the children.
I just want to have a rest, read books, listen to music and play cards with the children when I go home.
But she might like to chat. Before, she told me that other employers are very nice and like to chat with her after work every day.
Maybe my personality is cold, and I can't think of anything to talk about except our family affairs and work exchanges.
I also told her that you don't have to tell me about my neighbor's house. I'm not interested. Please don't tell my neighbors about my family. This is the minimum professional ethics of being an aunt. Although there is nothing important for everyone, I don't like to reveal my family's whereabouts, family's behavior habits and daily life.
Fourth, you will sum up what you have done, but you will also take credit.
This is an advantage in the workplace.
Housework is always invisible, and sometimes it may be invisible to sweep the floor mat and the bottom of the sofa.
She would take the initiative to tell me, "I saw it ... it was dirty today, and I washed it very clean."
"I worked under the sofa for a long time today. It's really clean Look at it. "
"I used the detergent you bought today, and my hand was corroded. It hurts, but I still insist on finishing it. "
Of course, in this case, she just wants to be "seen", and I will be highly sure.
Compared with the aunt who didn't say anything before, it is actually a good thing to be good at expressing and communicating.
This is what the leader has been teaching me. I should learn to summarize and output when I do something, otherwise I may not see it.
We should learn this from her.
Of course, the encounter between people is one in seven billion.
I am also very grateful to every aunt who has taken care of my baby. No one is perfect, and life is eternal.
Be kind to people and things around you. These aunts are passers-by in a long life. We have fulfilled each other and have gone through these short years together.