Communication between parents and children is very important. We can learn more about children's psychological problems and guide them correctly, which is of great benefit to children's physical and mental development. Parents should carefully observe and study their children, so as to solve the problem in a targeted way. When communicating with children psychologically, we must master the communication methods. Communication with children should be a two-way interactive process. If you speak and the children don't understand, then communication will be ineffective. Some parents often talk in wishful thinking, whether their children are interested or not. Over time, children learn to turn a deaf ear to their parents' words. This is because parents don't pay attention to communicating in a language that children can understand. In the process of communicating with children, we should not only consider that children can understand, but also adopt the communication methods that children like.

Make your children listen to you by preaching, ordering, forcing, etc. Children are bound to feel disgusted. Children's favorite way can be chatting, and parents integrate the truth of education in the process of chatting; It can tell stories. By telling stories, it is much better for children to understand the truth from stories than simply preaching. You can communicate during the game, because children are in a relatively excited state and are more likely to receive education from their parents. Pay attention to language when communicating with children. For example, when you ask your child not to play outside after school and to go home on time, you should say, "Mom will be worried if you don't come home on time after school!" " In this way, children will feel the concern of their parents and accept their opinions more easily. If you say, "Stop playing outside after school and go home at once!" "Children will think that you are limiting him, and it is inevitable that there will be rebellious psychology.

Listening is the premise of communication. Only by listening to children's hearts and understanding their thoughts and needs can we give them targeted care and help, and it will also make future communication easier. When a child tells you something happy, you should show sympathy. If he is praised by the teacher in kindergarten, you can praise him and say, "Oh, great, mom is very happy for you, too." When a child tells you a topic that you are not interested in, you should listen patiently to show that you care about his conversation. You can use words like "hmm", "really" and "later" to show that you are listening carefully and encourage your child to continue talking.

In communication, parents should be patient enough to help their children understand and communicate slowly. In the long run, children can become bosom friends with their parents. After all, parents and children have great differences in age, psychology and thoughts, so parents should not rush into it. They should master the art of communicating with children, be their friends and achieve real communication.