In September 2022, Zhang, a divorced single mother who raised her daughter alone, was sentenced to one year and three months in prison for the crime of fabricating and deliberately spreading false information.
When the news came, everyone wondered how Zhang, whose relatives and friends thought he was kind and filial, could do such a thing.
What did the compassionate single vulnerable mother do?
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The general situation is this:
Zhang and her ex-husband Li are in free love. At first, Li Jiali was firmly opposed by his parents because he was too poor. However, despite the opposition of parents and relatives, Zhang married Li and gave birth to a lovely daughter in the third year after marriage.
The first days were relatively poor, but the loving life of the couple was also happy. Li started a company of his own. Since the company grew up, business has been getting better and better, and he has become rich in his childhood. After having a daughter, Zhang resigned and became a wife at home.
As the company grows bigger and earns more and more money, Li goes home less and less on the pretext of traveling and entertaining customers.
Zhang, who is kind-hearted, thinks that it is not easy for her husband to support his family and run the company, and he doesn't think much.
On her husband's 40th birthday, Zhang was busy all day and prepared a sumptuous dinner. At the end of work, Li said that a client suddenly called and couldn't come home for my birthday.
Zhang was surprised because her husband used to spend his birthday at home no matter how busy he was at work. Zhang was about to say something when her husband hung up.
Zhang is a little depressed, but there is nothing he can do. Suddenly my husband let out a cry again, and there was no sound. Zhang listened carefully, and there was a noise inside. A husband and a woman are discussing going to a restaurant to celebrate their birthday.
Zhang suddenly understood: it turned out that her husband Li accidentally touched the button before making a cell phone call.
Zhang was so angry that he immediately called more than 20 relatives and friends and said that he had something important to go to a hotel at once.
She led more than 20 relatives and friends around the hotel and finally found her husband and a middle-aged woman having dinner in a private room.
The following story is the same as the TV series: two women wrestle together, cups and plates fall to the ground, crying, persuasion from relatives and friends, and the whole single room becomes a mess.
Li, who had a good face, lost face in front of relatives and friends and filed for divorce afterwards, but Zhang resolutely disagreed and forced him to death.
Li didn't go straight home. After two years, Zhang saw that the marriage was really irreparable and could only sign the divorce agreement.
Six months later, Li married that woman. A year later, the woman gave birth to a fat son in vain. Li was very happy and bought a luxury car for that woman.
Zhang was very angry at the news and wanted to test her ex-husband's feelings for herself and her daughter. On Friday, Zhang didn't come home on time because her daughter had to go to school. She searched for non-trace, sent a circle of friends and called the police.
It was through someone else's circle of friends that Li learned that her daughter was lost and hurried to Zhang's place, but Zhang was crying and said that he never cared about her and her daughter's life and death.
Li was very anxious and sent a message in the circle of friends and public media: as long as someone can provide clues, he will be rewarded with 6.5438+0 million yuan if he finds his daughter.
A 12-year-old girl lost in the flower season caused widespread concern, and local, local and local media actively came forward to help find it.
Six days later, the girl was found.
It turned out that Zhang found a villa in the suburbs to pick up his daughter and asked a nanny to look after him. Nanny saw an urgent search on TV, so check it immediately.
Because Zhang's behavior violated the criminal law, he was sentenced to one year and three months in prison. Zhang regretted it, but there is no regret medicine in the world, and everything is too late.
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This is a real case told by Taiwan Province Legal Channel. There are three painful lessons from this, which are worth learning:
First, a failed marriage is more harmful to children.
After Zhang divorced her ex-husband, Li gave her child 1 10,000 yuan monthly support and visited her daughter once a week. Although divorced, Li still loves his daughter very much. No matter how busy she is at work every week, she will spend a day with her daughter.
Later, after Li remarried, Zhang was forbidden to visit her daughter. Li was very angry and stopped paying the living expenses.
After her ex-husband remarried, Zhang Tiantian told her daughter that Li was an ungrateful villain and a scum. My daughter is afraid to talk about her parents in front of her classmates at school. She became introverted, quiet and unsociable, and rarely saw a smile on her face.
When Zhang sent her daughter to the suburbs, she felt that she had been abandoned by her father and now she was abandoned by her mother, which was very sad.
After the daughter was sent back, she ignored her father's warm greetings, and now both father and daughter are in pain.
In the adult world, marriage and divorce are free.
But a failed marriage is more harmful to children. Many children have a shadow in their hearts because of their parents' divorce, and some have embarked on the road. Yes, this shadow will accompany the child for life.
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Second, the management of marriage must pay attention to the way.
First of all, it must be stated that Li's infidelity in marriage is wrong and should be condemned for whatever reason.
But some of Zhang's handling methods are not appropriate. When she learned that her husband had a birthday with another woman, she called more than 20 relatives and friends to the scene to "catch the rape", which made her ex-husband lose face.
The key is that Zhang wants to die and live, and does not want to divorce. If she takes appropriate measures, maybe their marriage will not come to an end. After all, they have an emotional foundation.
She brought more than 20 relatives and friends to make a scene, which seemed to relieve her hatred, but she also completely pushed her ex-husband out.
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Third, when Zhang hates, it brings great negative effects.
In order to test her ex-husband, she did not hesitate to experiment with her daughter. As a result, my daughter was seriously injured again, which was violated by Ben.
In order to "match the plot", Zhang printed a lot of "Looking for You" and posted it everywhere. Then things got out of hand and he didn't tell the truth in time.
After the incident, the local authorities attached great importance to it and spent a lot of manpower, material resources and financial resources: more than 600 police officers were sent to visit and investigate everywhere; Various media release news to actively help find it.
Zhang's behavior wasted the public, consumed the public's love, violated the normal principle of public order and good customs, and caused serious influence.
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The root cause of Zhang's behavior is selfishness, willfulness and greed caused by the unbalanced mentality of marriage failure.
After Zhang's marriage failed, he did not correct his mentality in time. When he heard the news that his ex-husband remarried and had children, his dissatisfaction and complaints turned into anger and hatred.
First, she gave this hatred to her daughter, made her hate her ex-husband and made her unhappy.
Then, she gave this hatred and wasted a lot of public love.
There is also sympathy for single mother Zhang: divorced single women don't know the law and can understand it.
Dear friends, do you think Zhang deserves sympathy?
The above is about testing whether you have been in prison or not, and it is about the sharing of marriage. I hope this will help everyone who has watched Prison is Destiny!