There is a saying in the countryside that if you marry a man, you don't marry a phoenix man, and if you marry a wife, you don't marry a buddy. Many people don't know what this means. What is Phoenix Man? In fact, it is easy to understand that Phoenix Man is the son of a farmer who lived in the countryside when he was a child and was very poor. Later, he jumped out of the farm gate by his own efforts. According to the truth, this phoenix man should be the best among men. Why are girls advised not to marry them?
It turns out that Phoenix Man is good at everything except that he is not good at all, that is, there is no way to change the living habits he developed in the countryside, which makes girls feel very uncomfortable. For example, if you are in love with a girl, you can go to a nearby restaurant for a meal and a drink at noon. A meal is not expensive. Phoenix just said he would go home for dinner, and he also said he would cook for himself. For example, when walking on the road, the girl is thirsty and wants to buy a bottle of drink. Phoenix man said that drinks are unhealthy, so it is better to go home and drink boiled water. Small calculations like this abound. This is completely incompatible with the urban identity of Phoenix Men, that is, rural habits are deeply rooted in them and cannot be changed. A girl who marries such a man will really die of cowardice all her life. No matter how much money Phoenix Men earn, saving money is always the highest goal. Euphemistically, for the sake of a happy life in the future, even the present can't be maintained. Where can there be a future? Compared with the Phoenix man, Voldemort is a different kind of man. Please note that it is Voldemort, not Voldemort. If it is really Voldemort's will, then ignore him. It's just that we have a lot of help around us, brother. If you marry the sister of Help Brothers, you will have a hard time in your life. Why?
This has to start with the word "brother helper" itself. What is a "brother helper"? It's the kind of family with countless sisters and only one boy. In such a family atmosphere, the only child is naturally favored by all kinds. To some extent, the elder sister replaced the mother to protect the younger brother. In such a family, my sister almost did everything for my brother. It's easy to say when I was a child, but it's just food, clothing, housing and transportation. When the boy is older, it will be more troublesome. My sister will arrange a marriage for him, and even my brother will personally choose the blind date. After a long time, the tough image of my sister has penetrated into my brother's heart. Anyway, with the protection of my sister, my brother doesn't want to think about things. Anyone who dares to marry such a sister will be oppressed if she does. This is "marrying a wife and not helping your brother." Such a woman usually has a strong personality and likes to be out of position in everything. Others must listen to her, and if they don't listen, they will make a scene. Of course, getting married is your own business. Marrying Phoenix Man or Fudimo's sister is based on the principle of voluntariness. Think well beforehand, understand clearly, and don't regret afterwards. There is no point in getting divorced again. But some people think in turn, what happened to Phoenix Man?