Wu Yuhua, as a famous actress in China in 1980s and 1990s,

With the third daughter-in-law's "Jujube Flower" in the TV series "The Hedge Woman and the Dog", the fire spread all over the country.

Later, Wu Yuhua also appeared in many classic works, such as Backlight, Prosecution, Ancient Ship, Woman and the Net, Desire, Pulley and Woman and Well.

Wu Yuhua mainly appeared in rural dramas, in which all the women were poor and suffering.

In real life, her emotional path is also very bumpy.

Wu Yuhua had a failed marriage,

The ex-husband is a national first-class director Wang Jun, and they are classmates and colleagues.

Maybe you don't know much about Wang Jun, but you must have seen the film and television works he directed.

Like the fog, rain, wind and glitz in the early years, four generations live under one roof,

And in recent years, the fire's "Little Separation", "Joy", "Royal Love in Ruyi Palace" and "Xiao Min's Home" are all written by him.

After many years of marriage, the two ended up divorced because of their different views on their children.

After the divorce, Wu Yuhua formed a new family and gave birth to a son and a daughter. Wang Jun is still alone.

Looking back on their present lives, we will find that divorce is the best choice.

Wu Yuhua met Wang Jun while studying in the Performance Department of PLA Art College.

Wu Yuhua is four years older than Wang Jun,

The reason why they can be in the same class is that the university in Wu Yuhua is very hard to study.

Wu Yuhua was born in Shandong, 1959. Because of his parents' job transfer, his family moved to Zhejiang Province when he was very young.

His father Wu Shaodian was a soldier in the army in his early years, and his mother was a doctor in the hospital.

There are two brothers and one sister in this family, and Wu Yuhua is the youngest child.

Wu Yuhua, who grew up in Hangzhou, has both the freedom and boldness of Shandong women and the gentleness and agility of southern women.

Wu Yuhua was interested in acting as soon as he learned to walk and talk.

I often use TV to imitate the actions and lines of the characters in the play, and the learning method is very good.

Every time my neighbors and adults see Wu Yuhua, they will say, "Why is our rain flower so beautiful? She will be a big star when she grows up. " .

However, Wu Yuhua High School just happened to catch up with the special era of China.

After graduating from high school, Wu Yuhua was sent to the countryside of Fuyang County, Zhejiang Province, where she and the farmers went out early and returned to work every day.

But Wu Yuhua, who has a literary dream in her heart, goes to the mountains to play the violin every day after farm work.

Two years later, the college entrance examination resumed, and Wu Yuhua entered the Beijing Film Academy and the Central Academy of Drama to pursue his dream.

Both schools took part in the re-examination, but the results were not satisfactory and they were not accepted in the end.

After losing the first battle, Wu Yuhua didn't give up. She carefully prepared for a year.

1979 He was admitted to the Performance Department of PLA Art College, where he met Wang Jun from Jiangsu.

Wu Yuhua is beautiful and gentle, and Wang Jun is handsome and steady.

They are handsome and beautiful, in the same class. They are often assigned to the same group for rehearsal.

After a period of getting along, the two established a love relationship.

Although they come from the same school, there is a big gap in their grades.

In acting, Wu Yuhua is obviously superior to Wang Jun.

When I was a freshman, I played the role of Tian in the movie Homesickness at the invitation of director Hu.

However, at that time, it was clearly stipulated by the PLA Art Academy that freshmen were not allowed to go out to film, so Wu Yuhua missed this role.

After that, the director found Ren to star in Nostalgia, and Ren became a hit.

Having missed this chance to become famous, Wu Yuhua cherished the opportunity of acting in the future.

During her school days, she carefully polished her acting skills, and her good appearance and performance ability won unanimous praise from professional teachers.

Later, when she was in college, she starred in the heroine "Xia" in the movie "Backlight".

The first work she starred in was The Heroine, which shows how powerful Wu Yuhua was at that time.

Wang Junze and Wu Yuhua are just the opposite.

At school, Wang Jun barely passed the acting class.

Wang Jun also submitted resumes and auditions for the cast, but they were all rejected by the director.

This also led to Wang Jun never shooting a play, not even a bit part play.

The status quo of "women are strong and men are weak" not only does not make feelings nervous, but cherishes each other more.

After graduating from college, Wu Yuhua and Wang Jun were assigned to the front-line drama troupe of Nanjing Military Region as actors.

Not long after working, the two joined hands to enter the marriage hall.

They had a sweet time after their marriage. Soon, Wu Yuhua discovered the difference between drama and film.

In the drama troupe, Wu Yuhua's acting skills are not well played, not to mention Wang Jun, and sometimes he may not be able to perform once a month.

With no drama to shoot, Wu Yuhua felt a sense of crisis, and Wang Jun realized that he might not be suitable for acting.

After discussion, the couple decided to go to Beijing for development.

Later, he starred in the film "Tower of Babel" directed by Cai Jiwei, and played Bai Huiru, a prosecutor who just graduated from the university, in the film "Procuratorate".

Wu Yuhua's career began, and Wang Jun found a new direction after hitting a wall again and again.

1987, Wang Jun auditioned for a TV series.

One week after the audition, Wang Jun didn't receive an invitation to film, which made Wang Jun have great doubts about his acting skills.

At that time, he thought to himself, "Since no one used me to act, the road for actors is not easy, why not change it?" .

1987, Wang Jun was admitted to the director department of the Central Academy of Drama, thinking of becoming a director in the entertainment circle after graduation.

I have to say that Wang Jun is really talented as a director.

After graduating from graduate school, Wang Jun was assigned to be the director of the General Political Opera Troupe.

As soon as he joined the league, he directed the opera "The Daughter of the Party" and won the National Cultural and Cultural Award, the first prize of the Sixth All-Army Art Show and the first prize of the director.

After winning the prize, Wang Jun became more and more self-motivated as a director.

Later, he directed the opera evening "Children in the Barracks", "Krem Joining the Army" and "Mid-Autumn Festival in the Sand Sea" and won the Mandarin Excellent New Drama Award, the first prize of the 100 Excellent Essay TV Competition, and the Excellent Director Award.

Wang Jun's career is thriving here, and Wu Yuhua is not idle there.

1989, she starred in the rural drama "Fence Woman and Dog", in which she played the third daughter-in-law Zao of Ge Jia in a remote mountain village.

With this drama, Wu Yuhua's career has reached a new height.

She became popular all over the country with the role of "Jujube Flower" in the play. During that time, "jujube flower" became synonymous with her, and people would think of "jujube flower" as long as they saw her.

With his popularity, Wu Yuhua has appeared in many classic works, such as Desire, Pulley, Woman and Well, Ancient Boat, Woman and the Net, Say Goodbye and so on.

During that time, the husband and wife focused on career development.

Wu Yuhua took back the trophies of the top ten film and television actors in China, and Wang Jun took back the trophies of outstanding directors.

They don't see each other often, but they live in harmony because of their common goals.

However, the long-term gathering of less and leaving more has led to many problems that cannot be solved in time.

It didn't take long for their marriage to turn red and finally ended in "divorce".

With the passage of time, Wu Yuhua is no longer young, and it is no longer the heroine who gradually makes her act, but some supporting roles.

The peak of Wu Yuhua's career has passed. She wants to go back to her family and live a stable family life.

But at that time, Wang Jun's career was on the rise, and he only considered his own career.

For the sake of her husband, Wu Yuhua, she is willing to spend more time with her family instead of going out for filming.

Wu Yuhua said to Wang Jun that day, "We are not young, I want to have a baby",

I don't know if Wang Jun was unhappy and said, "No, I'm not ready to be a father. I'm not going to have children. "

The two men quarreled many times over the issue of "children".

Wu Yuhua's thought is more traditional. He always thought that his life would be complete with children.

But Wang Jun is a "Dink" family. First of all, he is not ready to be a father. Second, he is unwilling to lower the quality of life of his children.

If there are contradictions between husband and wife in marriage and both sides are unwilling to compromise, this marriage will come to an end.

Wu Yuhua is also aware of this. One of them wants a family and the other a career, and they are doomed to be separated.

After the divorce, Wu Yuhua was sad and silent for a while, but the days had to go on.

Wu Yuhua adjusted his mood and got to know Mo Dafeng through the introduction of friends.

Mo Dafeng was born in Shanghai and studied at the Pratt Institute of Art in new york, USA. He is a famous painter.

In his early years, he was a professor at the PLA Art College. After resigning, he concentrated on painting.

Mo Dafeng is famous in the field of painting and has held many exhibitions abroad.

Most of his works are realistic landscape paintings, such as Sea Breeze, Dusk in Taiwan Province, Dusk in Weizley and so on.

Both of them used to be in the PLA Art College. One teaches art and the other studies acting.

Both belong to art, do they have much in common? It wasn't long before they established a relationship.

After they got married, Wu Yuhua gave birth to a son and a daughter. The birth of the child made Wu Yuhua feel that his life was complete.

After the baby was born, Wu Yuhua put more energy into the family and took care of the baby.

Of course, she is not a "full-time wife" at home. She reduced the chances of going out to film and devoted herself to the behind-the-scenes work of film and television works.

On the other hand, after the divorce, Wang Jun put all her energy into her work and only wanted to develop her career.

In 2000, Wang Jun and director Zhao Baogang jointly directed the romantic drama "Like Fog, Like Rain, Like Wind" and officially became the director of commercial TV series.

From then on, Wang Jun's career seemed to be dead.

He has directed many classic works, such as family emotional drama Four Generations Down, spy war drama The Last 99 Days, Qing Palace drama Sky, light comedy My Beautiful Life and emotional drama Meng Gang.

Wang Jun has the courage to challenge different themes and different types of film and television works, and has become more and more famous in the industry.

In 20 15, the TV series "Little Separation" was born, which set off an upsurge at that time.

When people lamented the acting skills of Huang Lei, Christina and Zifeng Zhang, Wang Jun, as a director, was also known by more people.

In the following years, Wang Jun directed many excellent TV series, such as Little Joy, Love in Ruyi Palace, Xiao Min's House and so on, and won Magnolia Award and Tian Fei Award for Best Director for many times.

The career is booming, but Wang Jun's love life is blank.

After years of divorce, he has been developing his career, and now he is still alone without a confidante.

Even on his birthday, no one was around to help him celebrate.

According to Huang Lei, once Wang Jun called him in advance and asked him if he was at home.

Knowing that Huang Lei is at home, I am going to his house for dinner.

Huang Lei's wife, Sun Li, said after hearing this: "He is so poor that no one is with him on his birthday." .

In fact, there are not a few such things. When I have no job, I live alone in a big empty house.

Eating alone, watching TV alone, sleeping alone,

There is no one around to chat and tell, and the days are monotonous and boring, which seems very lonely.

In contrast, Wu Yuhua's life is full of more sparks.

Now I mainly share my daily life. She does nothing but take selfies, practice yoga and bask in her son and daughter.

Seeing that my son and daughter have grown up, I don't need Wu Yuhua to stay with me all the time.

She has more time to do what she wants,

Wu Yuhua, who is over 60 years old, sometimes plays a favorite role. For example, a few years ago, Wu Yuhua played the role of the Empress Dowager in a young people's online drama "Double Happiness".

Of course, it is mainly to invest in TV dramas and dramas.

Seeing that the business is getting bigger and bigger, there are rumors that Wu Yuhua has invested over 100 million yuan in recent years.

No matter whether the rumor is true or not, today's Wu Yuhua has a double harvest in family business, which can be described as a winner in life.

Wu Yuhua usually does yoga to keep healthy, participates in activities with her children and travels with her husband.

As long as it is properly maintained, Wu Yuhua, 63, is not old at all.

With his former high school classmates, Wu Yuhua looks very young.

Wu Yuhua and Wang Jun have been divorced for more than 30 years.

Now it seems that Wu Yuhua, who wants a family, has a happy family, a harmonious couple, filial children and a comfortable and warm life.

Wang Jun, whose career is important, has directed many excellent works and is recognized as a good director in the industry.

One of them wants a family, the other wants a career, and they pursue different things. Separation is inevitable.

Looking back, we will find that the divorce between Wu Yuhua and Wang Jun may be the right choice.

After the divorce, everyone found their lifelong pursuit and lived the life they wanted.