Of course, Xiaofeng is no exception. She/Kloc-dropped out of school at the age of 0/6 to earn money for her family, build a house for her brother, marry a daughter-in-law, and go out to work with other people in the village. At that time, Xiaofeng was too young to be a waiter in a restaurant. She can earn more than 2000 yuan a month, and she can eat, so Xiaofeng sends all the money she earns home, leaving only a few tens of dollars for herself in case of emergency.
In this way, Xiaofeng sends home about 2000 yuan every month. At first she didn't feel anything, but after a long time, Xiaofeng felt a little unfair. Seeing other girls earn money and spend it on their own, she is inevitably unhappy. Later, Xiaofeng made a boyfriend at the age of 23. Their family conditions are similar, and they both go out to work. Xiaofeng just wants to make some plans for herself, and the money sent home is getting less and less.
After the money sent home decreased, Xiaofeng's parents began to call Xiaofeng and asked why Xiaofeng's money decreased. Xiaofeng told the truth. Although her parents were not happy after hearing this, Xiaofeng also sent back more than 100,000 yuan in recent years. My brother's money for building a house should be almost the same.
When Xiaofeng got married, her parents didn't give her a penny as a bride price. Instead, I asked my husband's family for a bride price of 65438+ 10,000 yuan. Xiaofeng has unspeakable suffering, and it is worth supporting with her boyfriend, taking out 65,438+10,000.
When Xiaofeng got married, the new house had been built. When Xiaofeng returned to her family, she chose a room for herself. In the first few years of marriage, Xiaofeng often went back to her family, carrying a lot of bags every time she went back. Her parents are also very polite and enthusiastic to Xiaofeng. Although Xiaofeng knew that her parents' brother loved her far more than herself, Xiaofeng didn't care. She feels that this home is the place where she was born anyway, and her parents are her relatives.
But since her brother and sister-in-law got married, Xiaofeng felt that this family had nothing to do with her.
That day, Xiaofeng came to visit them with things as usual, but as soon as she entered the door, she found that her room was occupied by her aunt. Xiaofeng was very angry and asked her mother for a theory: "Why do they want to occupy my room? Where will I live when I come back? "
Hearing Xiaofeng's question, her mother was anxious. She said, "You are a daughter and you are married now. You are no longer a member of this family. Of course, there is no place for you at home. "
Xiaofeng couldn't sit still: "Mom, you took my money to build a house, and now there is no place for me to live here? What you do is worthy of your parents? " At this time, my aunt also came out of the room, listening to the big belly to help grandma talk everywhere. She also scolded Xiaofeng with her grandmother, and Xiaofeng became more and more uncomfortable. She dragged all the luggage on the ground directly. She thought that since she had torn her face anyway, she might as well make it clear that she would break off relations with her parents' eldest brother and sister-in-law now and start a free life.
After this incident, Xiaofeng thoroughly recognized the reality, and she also understood that the concept of son preference in the village would not change easily. For this family, she is nothing more than a dying cash cow, and she decided never to return to this chilling home again.