Sometimes, it is not very understandable for Dabao to have a second child. He is a person who is especially loved by his parents. Why did he suddenly have a younger brother or sister? Therefore, the question is how to treat children fairly in a two-child family. Parents who don't understand may wish to take a look at the suggestions in this article. I believe it will be very helpful to you!
How do two-child families treat their children fairly?
With the opening of the policy of "two children for fairy girls", many families have joined the footsteps of having two children, and more and more families have welcomed two children, but please don't forget a problem that needs attention when you are sweet:
Two children, how to balance, how to share love, how to take care of Dabao's psychological feelings? Let's take a look with Bian Xiao!
How to treat children fairly in a two-child family only needs to do these three things.
First, treat every child equally in thought.
After the birth of the second child, many parents put their thoughts and energy on the second child. In fact, we should know that there are individual differences between children, but after all, children are their own children. How to make two bowls of water is not even an easy task! Although there are individual differences, parents must not be biased, and parents should treat every child fairly.
Second, let children feel that their parents are fair in life.
Parents should be psychologically balanced, and the balance in their hearts should be reflected in life, and children must feel it! For example, eating sugar is normal, and children should also satisfy one and reward one! Otherwise, the child will grow up and know that his ideas have not been respected by his parents, then he will feel that his parents are biased!
Third, it is the parents' concern that makes children feel themselves in life.
In fact, most of the children's self-confidence is given by their parents. Let children feel that they are the focus of their parents' eyes, then their self-esteem and self-confidence can be protected and cultivated under the premise of being concerned by their parents. Such children are happy!
Therefore, when educating children, spiritual education and behavior education are the most important! Parents should treat any child equally and fairly. Don't be cold and aloof. Children experience your parents' attitude, not a love affair!