Aristotle's wife has a bad temper. After a quarrel, she was so angry that she poured a basin of water from upstairs and soaked him all over. He smiled: "I knew there would be heavy rain after the thunder." At the time of aggressive sexual relations, humor can resolve embarrassment, tolerate conflicts and win a more benign living space for yourself and others.

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British Prime Minister Wilson, in a speech, met a dissident and shouted, "Shit! Garbage! " The whole room was boiling and there was a riot. Although Wilson was flustered, he was in a hurry and said unhurriedly, "Sir, please be calm. I'll talk about your problem about environmental protection right away. " Everybody clap. On such a critical occasion, humor has become a magic weapon to turn decay into magic, turn small conflicts into big patterns, and then turn the situation around and win people's hearts.

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I once read a report that in the "9. 1 1" incident, a fireman rescued a man on the 90th floor of the World Trade Center, and then they fled together. But the floor was too high, and they were exhausted from running. Buildings collapse, electric fires run, smoke billows, heavy objects fall, and life is in danger at any time. At this time, the man ran over and handed the fireman a business card: "Dear, if we can't escape, we must keep in touch when we get to heaven." On the edge of life and death, humor has become a wonderful way to laugh at the crisis and downplay fear. In such words, a person's calmness, optimism and open-mindedness suddenly appeared before our eyes.

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Interest will not only solve troubles, but also enhance emotions. Not long ago, a single girlfriend said: money, I have it; Love is hard to tell; After all, it's just fun, and it's a good mate selection standard. In the eyes of many people, her words are too cautious. However, according to positive psychology, this is scientifically based.

MacKay mentioned: "Women always try their best to find things that can prove men's intelligence, and I believe that people who make positive reactions to the surrounding situation and make you laugh their heads off are of great wisdom." Helene Fischer, an anthropologist, said: "Interesting people can reduce all kinds of burdens brought by bad situations, thus reducing people's stress response and overcoming difficulties in interpersonal relationships." Therefore, fun will bring the positive value of survival and make the relationship between men and women more harmonious, healthy and happy.

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Facing his adult daughter, a psychologist wrote her a long letter, which said: If possible, try not to find boring people. Because boredom means closure, numbness, poverty and lack of life energy. There is no glory, only old and pale. The fun is gone, only dull. Without any accident; No surprises. Life is like a straight line with an unobstructed view. In retrospect, the rest of my life is gray and dull. Looking ahead, the past, such as dried instant noodles, all kinds of flowing plots died early. If you are bored, your heart will close and your energy will flow slowly. Interesting, the heart will open up and get more possibilities.

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Feng Gong's mother is a clever lady. She once said in an interview that it is better to leave him a rich family than a sense of humor. Humor is a truly inexhaustible treasure. Because it will really benefit you for life. And Feng Gong, his glory, his fun, his high popularity, proved this point. I believe that if one day, he no longer appears in front of the audience, humor will still bring fun, beauty and richness to his life, make it meaningful and still worth living.

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Humor is of course important, as long as you understand that humor is not funny, fun is not inferior, humor is not uncultured, and fun is not grandstanding.

It's really interesting, including too many things, such as wisdom, tolerance and curiosity. As Shakespeare said: Humor and wit are the flashes of wisdom. If a person is empty, ignores his ignorance, poverty and numbness, pursues interests superficially, and sets up various models rigidly with all kinds of jokes, it will appear shallow and glib.

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I once knew a man who was considered very interesting in a small circle. During the dinner, he had a drink with a woman and said: no flowers, no wine, no moon, no stairs. After dinner, touching his chubby belly, he said: A capable man will make others pregnant; I have no skills, I can only get pregnant.

The crowd roared. Most women present will find him humorous. However, it is said that these two sentences, which he said every time, were repeated word for word and suddenly felt very boring. Fun is not a joke, not a joke, not a routine. But the agility of life, the brightness of spirit and the depth of soul.

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Mr Huang Yongyu is my favorite elder. Life is full of troubles and great achievements. At first, I only knew that he was a painter. Later, when I saw his works, I was stunned by that kind of wisdom and aura. I thought at that time: this person must be very interesting. Sure enough. Last year, there was a long article about him, saying that he was a post-90 s performer, killing the current online celebrities. There are countless quips that make people laugh. Xiao Gan described it this way: "What floats between his rough lines is childishness, joy and boldness."

He is like an eternal urchin, always maintaining a strong thirst for knowledge. In the face of ordinary life, he always approaches and shouts: Hey-and the interest in my road has been entangled, and it will naturally appear through a sheltered hole, and he will be tacitly happy with him. Hee hee hee ... hahaha ...

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Huang Yongyu said: There are many interesting moments in life, aren't there? However, the "fun" of life can only be discovered by "interesting" people. If the soul is poor, it will be boring everywhere. And if you are a passionate person, then everything in the world will have a bright future for you.

Just like Huang Yongyu, although he is almost 90 years old, he still lives happily. Just Rainbow Xiaobo, despite all kinds of absurdity and pallor, he is still full of interest. Just like you, there are real young people. Although you live in today's fucking world, you are still trying to enrich your life through curiosity and curiosity, making this life more regretless.

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