In fact, I also found it according to this standard, and I really found it. I am a visual controller, even if I have the ability, I am afraid I will not be interested in an ugly man, so the ideal man I am looking for must have temperament and figure. In this way, no matter how old I am, it is always pleasant to look at him.
Moreover, this kind of man generally likes physical exercise, which indirectly shows that he is not a man. A diligent man will have a higher success rate and better physical fitness.
In fact, high IQ is not a perfect requirement. There are many men like this, which shows that once we enter the stage of mutual understanding, we will not have unnecessary contradictions and conflicts because of some three-view problems or IQ and EQ mismatch.
Smart people solve problems quickly, so life is more efficient.
Finally, he must love me very much. Based on the previous two points, if the other party meets the requirements. Even if I don't love him as much as he loves me, it is acceptable. As we all know, it is better to marry someone who loves you than to marry someone who loves you. Only in this way can I live happily, and my feelings for him will be cultivated slowly.
The fact is that I love him because the first two points are very consistent with each other.
I also know that no one is perfect, so I didn't say whether the ideal partner would be rich. I consider these basic points, health, personality, mood and interest. So marriage is unlikely to fail. As for the family economy, the husband and wife are United, and their profits are broken.