Nine-year-old Yo-Yo is Chen Kun's spiritual pillar. He loves his son more than himself. Character determines fate. Chen Kun hopes that his son will be sunny, lively, healthy and cheerful, and will bring happiness wherever he goes. The son's personality is somewhat inconsistent with his ideal.
Chen Kun took his son's hand and walked home. He stroked Youyou's head: "Son, be lively and cheerful in the future and be a little man." My son snorted while chewing ice cream.
Chen Kun is handsome, sunny and tough. He deliberately infected his son with his personality. He and Yo-Yo sat cross-legged on the floor watching cartoons and playing Three Kingdoms Kill. He deliberately lost to his son twice from time to time, and Yo-Yo waved his fist: "Dad, I'll hit you." Chen Kun twisted his son's ear: "What a smart card, smarter than dad."
Chen Kun and his son live with their mother and stepfather. Mother Chen has the habit of taking a walk after supper. At 8 o'clock one night, before mom came home, Chen Kun came out with a flashlight: "Yo-yo, let's pick up grandma." The father and son were walking among the dense branches on the boulevard, and the light of the flashlight pulled the father and son for a short time. Yo-yo went straight to Chen Kun's arms and said, "Dad, I'm afraid." Chen Kun explained: "Yo-yo, this is a shadow. What are you afraid of? Boys should be bold. " In order to give courage to his son, Chen and Youyou sang a song together.
Self-confidence is the cornerstone of sunshine and cheerfulness, and Chen Kun specially cultivated this quality for his son. Youyou began to learn piano and Cambridge children's English at the age of 6, and her English is better than her father's. Chen Kun downloaded two English poems from the Internet, and then called his mother, stepfather and employees to the studio at home. He encouraged Youyou: "We have heard Chinese poetry recitation, but we haven't heard English, so please open your eyes." Yo-yo some hesitation. Chen Kun took the lead in applauding: "Come, we welcome Youyou to recite English poems. Son, will you give dad a face? " Yo-yo just stood up. At first, his voice was not loud. After gradually entering the state, he not only pronounces accurately, speaks clearly and fluently, but also cooperates with body language. Chen Kun was overjoyed. ...
Chen Kun's sunshine is tough and exerts a subtle influence on his son. At home, Yo-Yo is obviously courageous: at night, he dares to get up and go to the toilet alone; If there are many yo-yos. In the past, Youyou rarely communicated with adults; Now, he vividly tells the stories in comics to his grandparents and father. Sometimes he runs around upstairs and downstairs with a broom, imitating the heroes in film and television dramas and shouting "Kill". The change of son brings great happiness and relief to Chen Kun! Before going to bed, after the father and son take a shower, Chen Kun often bites his son's toe to show affection and fatherly love.
However, Youyou's personality has not changed much at school, and he keeps his distance from his classmates. He seldom raises his hand to answer questions in class. Sometimes the teacher tells him to talk, but his eyes dare not look straight. On the physical education class, a group of boys were playing football in a sweat. Yo-yo is afraid of fighting and doesn't want to participate. On one occasion, the school unified the flu vaccine. Yo-yo is afraid of pain, and evades injections on the pretext of catching a cold. After school, the head teacher checked with Chen Kun on the phone: "I don't see any signs of a yo-yo cold. Is he really unwell or lying? "
As soon as the son entered the room, Chen Kun gently explored his forehead: "Yo-yo, your forehead is not hot at all. Why did you lie? " Yo-yo self-knowledge indefensible, bowed his head. Chen Kun blurted out, "a boy is afraid of pain with an injection. What can you do in the future? A few years ago, my father had a polyp in his throat. My father didn't frown when the doctor took it out. "
The next day, Chen Kun took his son to the hospital for flu shots. The needle went into his arm. Yo-yo complained that his father lied to him. Youyou never knew who his real mother was, and his special life experience made him more sensitive to self-esteem than his peers. He asked Chen Kun, "Where is my mother? I am going to find her. " With that, he picked up his schoolbag and went out. Chen Kun stood at the door to encourage him, and his son reluctantly went back to his room.
When yo-yo sleeps at night, Chen Kun seldom lights a cigarette, and the curling smoke follows his heartbeat. Mother looked puzzled: "What's the matter with you? What difficulties did you encounter? " My mother is over 60 years old, and it is not easy to walk all the way. Chen can't bear the old man to worry about his grandson. He grinned: "Mom, it's nothing. People in the workplace sometimes stay in a daze for no reason. "
One day, it was 9 pm. Chen Kun asked his son to turn off the lights and sleep, but Yo-Yo hid under the covers and played video games. When Chen Kun went to the toilet, he vaguely heard the sound of the game. He pushed open his son's bedroom door and caught Yo-Yo red-handed. Chen Kun said: "The older I get, the less I worry about it!" After that, he forcibly grabbed the game machine from his son and locked it in the cupboard. Yo-yo sad cry, Chen Kun mercilessly scolded him.
Late at night, Chen Kun lost his temper and realized that his attitude was simple and rude. He quietly came to his son's room. The yo-yo slept soundly. The moonlight shone on his face through the window. Chen Kun clearly saw tears hanging on her son's long eyelashes. I don't know when my mother came to see him. Chen Kun said, "Mom, I shouldn't have been so angry with Youyou just now. I regret it." Mother gently comforted: "Youyou bears much more than children of the same age, so you should be more patient with him."
Later, my mother and Chen Kun recalled his childhood memories: when Chen Kun was 4 years old, her mother separated from Chen Kun's father because of her incompatible personality, but Chen's mother respected her son's nature, and instead of keeping Chen Kun at home like a chicken and duckling, she let him run wild with a group of boys. Although he grew up in a single-parent family, Chen Kun is cheerful and sunny, and has an open-minded heart ... At some point, his mother said bitterly, "You always don't let Youyou go out, and you don't let us take him out. Youyou's living space is only at school and home, which is too narrow. Can he be lively? "
It was late at night, and Chen Kun was completely sleepy. He wrote his own mental journey in his blog: for various reasons, the media has been speculating on his excellent life experience in recent years. In order to protect my son from harm, I seldom let him contact with the outside world except at school. Now I figured it out. The son has to face the reality after all. What is more important than the growth of children? Escape is not a long-term solution. From now on, I will take my son out of the house and provide him with a broader stage of life!
The next morning, Chen Kun returned the game machine to his son. Youyou said with tears: "Dad, I am lonely at home alone. The game machine is my partner. What can I do without playing games after finishing my homework? " Chen imagines the loneliness of his son being trapped at home, and he has a special taste in his heart. He patted his son on the shoulder and said, "Dad has had a bad life these years and seldom cares about your feelings. I will make your life colorful in the future. "
Shaping a son is a huge project, which requires not only wisdom and patience, but also a lot of time. In 20 12, Chen Kun only took the film flying swords of dragon gate. Originally, the crew was prepared to start work in February, but it was pushed to 10 for various reasons. In this way, Chen Kun will have enough time to wait for his son and grow up with Youyou.
Father is the most admired object of boys. Chen Kun is thin. He tries to make his appearance look strong and more like a tough guy. Plus, in "flying swords of dragon gate", Chen Kun plays two roles, and there are many action scenes, so he races against time to keep fit. Chen Kun gets up at 6 o'clock every morning to run. In order to achieve accurate martial arts movements, Chen Kun specially invited a professional martial arts coach to guide him. He practices martial arts for six hours every day, three hours in the morning and three hours in the afternoon. When he got home, his T-shirt was soaked with sweat, and taking it off in his hand was a feeling of falling.
Moreover, Chen Kun eats five egg whites every day. Once he ate until his stomach turned over. Yo-yo lovingly touched his face: "Dad, can you not eat? How uncomfortable! " Chen Kun scraped his son's nose: "Dad wants to forge himself more like a man! Yo-yo, you and I are both men. Do things with perseverance and perseverance. " After that, Chen Kun bent down his arm, and the strong biceps brachii stood out on his forearm: "Look, Dad, this muscle." Yo-yo gently press with the hand: "Dad, as hard as a stone. When I grow up, I want to build strong muscles like you. " Chen Kun held his son in his arms and gently rubbed his son's forehead with stubble: "We both want to be iron men."
Chen Kun took a group of photos of himself wearing a tight T-shirt, with his strong pectoral muscles and biceps exposed. Then he posted the photo on Youyou's bedside and listed two questions below the photo: Do you want to be a villain? Do you want to be like dad? In this way, he subtly inspired his son.
In front of yo-yo, Chen Kun pays special attention to his words and deeds. He doesn't swear, he doesn't swear, his clothes and hairstyle are meticulous, and his shoes are polished. Three years ago, Chen Kun established his own Shen Dong Children's Studio with more than 65,438+00 employees. In the process of running the studio, he will encounter difficulties in financing, project negotiation and marketing from time to time, but Chen Kun is never anxious or angry in front of his son, and always keeps calm! He often educates his children: "A man should be a general, broad-minded and open-minded. Even if Mount Tai is at the top, don't bend over! "
Moreover, Chen Kun abolished the way of imprisoning his son and let him embrace the outside world at zero distance. On weekends, when his son doesn't go to school, Chen Kun invites children of similar age in the community to his home. The children piled arhats on the floor, played games with each other, and climbed trees in the garden to pick begonia fruits. The fruit of begonia on the treetops is out of reach. Yo-yo and some little guys took off their shoes and threw them at the tree ... The children had a good time, and Chen Kun was not idle. He squeezed juice for Youyou and his children, cut watermelons, distributed candy, and provided logistical support for a group of children. Yo-yo also bid farewell to the boring loneliness at home!
Yo-yo is not physically strong, and it is easy to catch a cold and cough in autumn and winter. In 20 13, under the recommendation of a friend, Chen Kun sent Youyou to attend an amateur taekwondo training class. At first, Yo-Yo was afraid of fierce confrontation and put on protective gear, but he shrank in the corner and didn't get up. Chen Kun cruelly pushed his son into the field and trained for half an hour. Yo-yo was sweating, and his arms and thighs were kicked black and blue.
At halftime, Yo-Yo lifted his training suit and showed Chen Kun his injury: "Dad, it hurts, I don't want to practice." Chen Kun looked serious: "Boys can shed blood and sweat, but they can't shed tears easily. Yo-yo, what is this injury? Look at other children, some are younger than you, shorter than you, and they don't flinch when their noses are kicked and bleeding. " The little boy has a strong self-esteem. As soon as my father compared with other children, Yo-Yo kept silent and turned into the venue to continue training.
After a period of time, the wildness and competitiveness of the yo-yo boy were aroused. He is crazy about Taekwondo, and he goes to training as soon as he has time. After forging, Youyou was thoroughly remoulded and his physique was obviously enhanced. His little arms and legs are hard and strong. Moreover, his character is tough, and his endurance and will have been greatly improved.
Adding steel to the son's character, hiking is also an essential part. On 20 14, Chen Kun organized several families to travel together. They set off from Beijing, passed through Shaanxi, Gansu and Qinghai, and arrived in Tibet. A week later, they bypassed Sichuan and arrived in Yunnan. There are several families whose children are about the same age as yo-yo. At first, the yo-yo was stiff and strange, but after getting familiar with it, he became one with the children. In the service area or at rest, Youyou climbed mountains, chased rabbits and had a good time in the wild.
When climbing Yulong Snow Mountain in Lijiang, Yunnan, more than 400 steps, like a jade belt, wound from the foot of the mountain to the top. The plateau is short of oxygen and the steps are steep, which makes you timid and stop at the steps. Chen Kun encouraged him: "This is an excellent opportunity to test a boy's character and perseverance. A boy with a strong personality is reluctant to give up. " This incentive method is really effective. Wearing a sun hat and mineral water in hand, Yo-Yo bravely climbed up against the mountain wind. In less than an hour, he climbed halfway up the mountain, and he was the first to reach the finish line among a group of children. Chen Kun gave his son a thumbs-up: "Youyou is unusual. Dad is proud of you! "
During his "Let's Go", Chen Kun saw the changes brought by walking to his son. He launched the "Power of Walking" public welfare project, calling on more parents to take their children out. During the trip, no matter how busy and tired, Chen Kun insisted on keeping a diary of his parents and children: "If there is a son at home, the father must be vigorous and resolute, and make a monument for the next generation. I shape my son, my son changes me, and my father and son grow together. We are one hundred percent pure men ... "
Created in Chen Kun, in 2020, Yo-Yo Jiang 18 years old, grew into a handsome guy with strong masculinity and excellent academic performance. Yo-yo asked his father to tell his real mother. Chen Kun said it's not time yet, and he will know later. Yo-yo is waiting for this day. In the process of adding steel to his son's personality, Chen Kun has also changed a lot. He is physically strong, his heart is stronger, and he knows how to be a strict and loving father, which invisibly broadens his career. Chen Kun shaped his son, and his son influenced Chen Kun. This is a win-win situation for both father and son!