What are you doing back in Lanzhou? Don't come back if you can get out. Lanzhou is very sad now. For love? I can understand, so can I, my boyfriend must work in Lanzhou, and my parents can accept that we must get married in Lanzhou, but I'm a little confused now, because I find my boyfriend is not happy. In fact, you can think about what difficulties you will encounter when you stay in Lanzhou, and whether you will regret your original choice after encountering difficulties. You can also have a good talk with your girlfriend and study together what to do if you encounter difficulties when you come back to work. Can it be solved well? I think it is very important for a man to be happy at work, which affects his mood very much! If everything is discussed, then if your professional employment prospects are not very good, you can try to do other jobs. Now many people don't engage in their own majors! In short, I hope your road will be easier.