At present, the educational reform implemented in our country makes children pay more attention to scientific enlightenment education and all-round development of morality, intelligence, physique and beauty, and makes our children adapt to social changes more, which is beneficial in essence. But in fact, education reform generally weakens exam-oriented education and strengthens quality, such as encouraging children's creativity and holding science and technology competitions. However, various science and technology competitions quickly deteriorated, such as a sixth-grade pupil who won the third prize in the 34th National Youth Science and Technology Competition in Kunming, Yunnan, and a 6-year-old girl from Cixi/Kloc, Zhejiang. The sixth grade pupils wrote 2000 biological papers and media poems. They all seriously deviate from people's daily experience, but they all happen openly. Both children are innocent. Primary school students in grade six, who don't understand the changes in the world, can shield public opinion. 16-year-old girls are obviously ruined by their parents' ambitions.
Parents from all walks of life use their own specialties to help their children create a beautiful and false resume, which is essentially a teacher cheating. This cross-border excessive help is actually the reproduction of the capital and cultural capital behind it. Parents once won the competition for education. Now they not only want to copy and maintain the advantages they have gained, but also want to inherit and expand the advantages directly.
This kind of cross-border help from parents will shape children's mentality of getting something for nothing. In the future, children will get used to relying on their parents' help, which is not conducive to their growth.
Parents are the children's first teachers and the best teachers. Cross-border help often brings the worst demonstration to children and even disrupts their future life trajectory.