Author: heroic daughter Jane Eyre
The so-called mention, meaning is also in the heart, meaning is also concerned, meaning is also in mind. Putting down is the opposite of lifting up.
In a complex world, we are all ordinary people. It is normal to mention it, but it is mostly a wish, and sometimes even an extravagant hope. The people who can really put down their own interests, except most monks who have become monks, are people who have walked on the edge of hell, experienced great sufferings and have a thorough understanding of the gains and losses of life. Some people joke that sometimes people are stupid and are still fighting for small profits for flies before they die. What "justice is good, justice is good", all put aside. When you are old, every time there is a memorial service, you will be sent to the wall first, and your demand for material desires will double. So Confucius said long ago, "Be obedient at sixty." The word "Shun" is an achievement of non-meditation and an emotional experience when the pace of life approaches a high point. At that time, mentioning it must be like a mountain wind without a path, right?
In this world, survival is of course important, and learning the means of survival is even more important. In order to survive, everything is mentioned. Obviously, both the moral level and the ability level are requirements for themselves. Give up, give up, and you will get it. Gains and losses are always full of contradictions. At that time, Kangxi taught his son a sentence, "The key to treating the heart is self-denial." . This kind of self-restraint is precisely the discipline of self-restraint, which is strict with self-discipline, does not become lust, and does not develop the discipline of insatiable greed. Teach them from an early age that the lack of human heart is like a snake trying to swallow an elephant. In life, we often hear someone comforting others "Be open!" On the one hand, it is comfort, on the other hand, it is guidance, which is the way to let go. The burden is a burden because you refuse to unload it! In the city where I live, there is a celebrity who has millions of money and "doesn't give it to others". Finally, I kicked it away and died with the stigma of "this man is stingy". The so-called property is just a feast enjoyed by daughters (no sons), and all the fame, three years and five years, has passed.
Therefore, lifting and letting go is essentially a test of a person's ability to grasp and balance in life. And mastering this degree requires the experience of life. This is the most difficult life art class. It is by no means a question of practicing words by mouth, nor can it be manipulated by a person who forgets profit and righteousness while saying that "a gentleman loves money and takes it wisely".
Interests, feelings, marriage and fate are all the same.
Perhaps, the attitude towards lifting and letting go is very different, which has caused the world to be varied. This is also the difference between people!