First, Wenzhou people here basically have houses and stable jobs before they get married. And the woman can drive, furniture and other soft decorations. So the custom is this, such a marriage will make both parents feel at ease and will be more stable. Secondly, blind date is popular here in Wenzhou, which can let relatives and friends know, and let the parents of blind date men and women inquire about their personalities, and rest assured. Thirdly, Wenzhou men are basically doing business. If you do business, marrying a Wenzhou wife will be of great help to your future career, and your mother's family can also support you, which will be safer.