The president of Coca-Cola once said: Each of us is like a clown, playing with five balls. Five balls are your work, health, family, friends and soul. Only one of these five balls is made of rubber, which will rebound when it falls, and that is work. The other four balls are all made of glass. If they fall to the ground, they will break. The following article is my personal career testimony, hoping to help you.
1, there is no unsinkable ship and no enterprise that will not go bankrupt. Everything is done by human efforts. Employees have to do three times, and leaders have to do ten times. The person in charge is a diligent person.
People still want to have more money in their pockets, so they always want to be promoted. Don't you know that this mentality of quick success and instant benefit annoys the boss, and there are always people asking for money from themselves. Which boss do you think is willing?
3. Frustration turned out to be a cornerstone of success, which can build a monument of hope, as long as you are in never back down; Sincerity is a key to communication, which can open people's closed hearts, as long as you persist.
4. Sean and Han Xin: Self-marketing is very important. You should jump ship when it's time to jump ship. Fan Zeng: Know your position. No matter how capable you are and how intimate you are with your boss, remember that you and your boss are not the same name. Fan Kuai and Xiang Zhuang: Follow the right people. The heart is a double-edged sword. When the team faces various crises and difficulties, the firmness and cooperation of employees is an important part of the overall situation.
5. Angry lectures are usually destructive, and it is inevitable to say things that you regret too late. If you can calmly express the opposite opinion, you will get unexpected results. The best time to reprimand a subordinate is not when he falls out of favor, but when he screws up. When a responsible employee does something wrong, he must know it well and feel guilty. At this time, he is most afraid of hearing the boss's reprimand again.
6. If you have just learned that a very important case has gone wrong, immediately rush to the boss's office to report the bad news, even if it's none of your business, it will make the boss question your ability to handle the crisis. Sometimes, you should tell the truth calmly and don't use words like problems or troubles. Make your boss feel that things are not unsolvable, and it sounds like you will stand on the same side with your boss.
7. It is your duty to do things well, and it is your dereliction of duty to do things badly.
8. After a day's work, apart from working hours, I only have time to spend with my colleagues at noon. If you want to eat alone, try to eat with several colleagues. Then you can understand what you don't know.
9. 1. Workstation cannot face the boss's office or the company door; 2. The station should be far away from sharp leaves or vines; There must be no beam above the station. Take a look and plan ahead!
10, happiness, there has never been a unified standard, and it has little to do with the rich and the poor, and it is not closely related to status. People who dress well are not necessarily happy; People who live on bread and water are not necessarily unhappy. A flower and a drop of water in the world may be the source of people's happiness. Happiness lies in the happiness in the heart; Happiness is in your heart, and feeling happiness is the greatest happiness.
1 1, learn to break. However, it is very difficult to deny a person's choice, especially for the decision that has invested a lot of money. If you find that your persistence will only bring more losses, you must make a decisive decision and re-plan. It's not difficult to start over, what's more, you already have experience, which will make you further in the workplace.
12, when others are running forward, you are standing still. What makes the high salary fall on your head? If you are a professional with unclear orientation, it is imperative to give yourself a clear career orientation immediately.
13, just entering the workplace, don't be impetuous, don't be arrogant, don't feel inferior, be calm, base yourself on this position, start from bit by bit, be serious and diligent, and prove your value with actions. As long as you are willing to work hard, pay, persist and endure hardships, the road to the workplace will be smoother and smoother.
14, Jianghu in the workplace, sometimes the situation will be very chaotic. Take the boss's right to give a promotion to someone who is not very convinced. If you work for this man, that's it. Who let the boss be the boss? People have this right.
15, we can often forgive those who make mistakes all the time, but we can't forgive those who make mistakes occasionally. A person who never speaks well of you, occasionally speaking well of you will make you excited; And a person who always speaks well of you will occasionally make you feel bad for a few days. Some of them are often due to our own judgment and thinking problems, but our psychology is at work. Sparse, far away is incense.
16. Look at each other at the same height. No good interpersonal relationship can make people feel free and unrestrained. If one party is constrained by the other party, or if one party needs to act according to the other party's face, it is impossible to establish a high-quality psychological relationship.
17, people must remember in the workplace: it doesn't matter how diligent you are, why diligence is the most important. It doesn't matter who you are happy with, but who is useful to you is the most important. Thinking is very important, but survival is more important than ideal.
18, one of the means to integrate into the workplace environment is to learn basic etiquette knowledge. There are rules in the workplace, and politeness alone is not enough. In every word and deed, every move must conform to the workplace norms. Instrument is a broader concept that constitutes an image, including language, expression, behavior, environment, habits and so on.
When we are busy helping others, we may forget that people will notice our inner fluctuations. Because we feel the same way about their experiences, we should not only share each other's pain, but also endure our own inner suffering. On the situation, well-meaning comfort is a gift to each other.
20. Don't answer the phone in the office for more than ten minutes. Encounter embarrassing phone calls, such as flirting. Trying to escape the attention of others by lowering your voice or changing your tone will only make your colleagues more suspicious and curious.
2 1, just trying to do a job, you should ask: "What is the purpose of doing this?"
22. Stand firm, be soft-hearted, try not to treat others, and take the lead to show respect. However, when reaching the finish line, being polite and persistent, being gentle and avoiding being emotional will help the negotiation succeed.
23. You often stay at home with your lover and give her a profound course in life physiology and psychology, especially when the mood is high, accompanied by a course in body structure.
24. Women in the workplace should be a combination of ladies and peppers. When you move, everyone will see your vitality and cuteness. When you are quiet, everyone will see your calm side. An image of ice and fire will widen your career path.
As a manager, if you only know that your subordinates are incompetent, then you are not worthy to be a boss at all. One of the duties of your boss is to lead and urge your subordinates to give full play to their greatest potential and successfully complete one task after another. Therefore, the correct way is to urge subordinates to serve you and force them to be more diligent and active. For example, to send documents, please clearly state your needs: "Please type three copies for me and return them to me before work. In addition, please check that there are no typos, because I want to send it immediately. If the subordinate doesn't do well, don't just encourage the other person to do his best, but tell him seriously: "This mistake can't be made again.
26. No one will make mistakes, but the attitude towards mistakes may affect your career. Only individuals dare to admit their mistakes can they stand on their own feet; Those who can recognize the right and maintain an indomitable attitude are the warriors who can break through the dangerous beach in the workplace.
27. What is happiness? Is to find someone to help you scratch, and he will scratch the most itchy place for you at once, which is called real happiness; What is trouble? That is, you don't feel itchy at first, you scratch when you have time, and then you itch. The more you scratch it, the more it itches. This is really annoying. The happiness in the field is defined by yourself, but the troubles are found by yourself.
28. People half a level higher than you are often the most dangerous, while people at the same level are natural enemies. Because people half a level higher than you will have a sense of crisis, they are afraid that you may be on an equal footing with them at any time, so they will hit you whenever they have the opportunity. No matter the top or the first level, they are all bosses, and it is extremely dangerous for them to mess with you. People at the same level are inevitable enemies. As long as your boss is not a fool, he will definitely provoke his men to fight.
29. Power can make managers do many things, but power is not everything. There is a saying that the art of leadership is a kind of wisdom, that is, the careful use and realization of power in opponents. The strength of leadership is the ability to listen to others, resolve conflicts and persuade others. Power also plays an important role. It is the ability to suppress destructive dissatisfaction, prevent people from discussing potentially destructive topics and suppress rumors. Therefore, as a manager, we should always pay attention to the distribution of rights and don't let subordinates have too much power.
30. In modern times, the process of enterprise management is no longer a simple command and execution, but a process of releasing the potential of organizations and individuals. Blanchard, a famous management scientist, said: "Today, real leadership comes from influence." Power must be won by managers themselves. It is difficult for you to command your subordinates unless they give you power. For power, managers can neither grasp all the power in their own hands, nor let their subordinates have too much power. At the same time, managers should also understand the truth that it is impossible for enterprises to grow and develop continuously by relying on power alone.
3 1, it's not too late to enter the talent market. The time schedule of the graduate job market is generally very tight. If you enter early, you can have enough time to collect information, understand the market and master the situation of participating units.
32. What he did had ulterior motives. He tried to cover it up so that people didn't know. You are well aware of his intentions. Although he can't tell you that you know them, he is always very suspicious of you. You are in a dilemma. You can neither tell him that you don't know, nor say that you will never reveal it. What about yourself? Your only way is to pretend to be ignorant as if nothing had happened.
33. Why do others earn more money than you? 1. They complete the task; 2. They have a positive attitude; 3. They are more conspicuous; 4. They are considered to have higher career potential; 5. They work harder; 6. They are in positions that have a great impact on the company's business; 7. The boss speaks highly of them; 8. They are more flexible; 9. They have better relations with colleagues and colleagues; 10. They are better at negotiation.
34, 1. Know your position, goals and superior goals. 2. Do what you can, and finish what you can. There must be multiple schemes, and choose the best one. Don't say no, there are always more methods than problems. 5. Speak with data. 6. There is a concept of input and output. 7. The result is the most important. 8. Write plans and progress every week. 9. It's important for you to communicate with the leader actively. Leaders should carry out everything they arrange. 10. Don't make the same mistake.
If your boss is really at ease with you, he doesn't need to mention you often at all. True trust is expressed through actions. When the boss is willing to work with you to do harm and struggle in the workplace, that is a sign of trust. If your boss says verbally that he is at ease with you, you should be careful instead. It is very likely that you have done something to make the boss suspect that you are unfaithful.
36. Physical labor can vent mental pain, which is the reason why the poor are happy.
For us personally, managing our emotions means managing our own living resources. Excessive emotional reaction and irrational behavior caused by bad emotions and excessive indulgence are the root causes of workplace crisis and the black hand behind physical and mental health.
Shut your mouth and don't try to say all your thoughts.
39. In the workplace, some people are a little dull and their eyes are not bright. There is a saying in life that you should see with your eyes, which means you should know how to read and read. This ability is mainly enriched through usual accumulation. You can slowly try to observe as many unimportant places as possible, and your insight will certainly improve.
40. You should adjust your mentality and don't think that you have nothing to say with your colleagues. In the workplace, if you want to get along well with your colleagues, you must first take the initiative to integrate into everyone's ideas, pay more attention to the things that colleagues around you usually pay attention to, and lay the foundation for finding topics.
4 1, taboo, do whatever it takes. Under normal circumstances, the division of labor in the workplace is clear, and the post is not only the rice bowl for people to settle down, but also the embodiment of their own working ability. If you get your hands on other people's work enthusiastically, you will be looked down upon by others and hit a soft nail. What's more, it makes people feel resentful and lays a curse.
42. It doesn't matter if you stumble over a stone once. It is important not to trip over the same stone several times. Step on the stone that stumbles us and make it a stepping stone to our successful life!
43, 10 fatal mistake in the workplace: ① There is no hurry now, we will talk about it later; ② Try and experience some avoidable mistakes; ③ No career planning; ④ Personality assessment as career planning; ⑤ Only the direction is clear, and there is no realization path; 6. Have no opinion and rely on others; ⑦ Take things as they are and treat change negatively; 8 believe in high education; Pet-name ruby think national unit development is more secure; Attending always feel too difficult to succeed.
44. If a person loses a little money, he will not be so angry; Once self-esteem is damaged, it is not easy to make up for it. Sometimes, the other person may not mean to hurt others, but he will hurt others because of an unintentional remark. The so-called "the speaker is unintentional, the listener is intentional", thus invisibly setting up an enemy for himself. The story that King Zhongshan lost his country because of a cup of mutton soup and was saved by a pot of vegetables is a profound lesson for us.
45. If you want others to be nice to you, you must first make yourself better. If you can't even be a man yourself, then others won't have a good relationship with you. Although regular communication is a process of interacting with others, your behavior determines the success or failure of communication.
46. People need interpersonal communication, but they should also have their own independent space, and do well when they are alone. In order to be a good person, communication with people is the foundation. Prudent and independent people can not only help themselves, but also increase their influence on others.
47. The eyes are the windows of the soul, and the inner world of ordinary people can be expressed through the eyes. Because of this, we can express our concern to others with our eyes and let others get comfort from our eyes.
48. Women like beautiful things, and so does language. The more beautiful the language is, the more it can impress women, but the premise is that beautiful words should be based on sincerity, so that women can really be tempted.
49. In the workplace, don't be smarter than others and don't be more high-profile. The winner is nothing but a quick death.
50. Psychological research has found that attitude often does not determine action, but action sometimes determines attitude. People always look for various reasons and excuses for their laziness, but no one ever encourages them to take immediate action. Therefore, if you want to change your mind, you can't expect to change your mind with your mind, you must change your mind with your actions.
5 1. Recalling the days when I rented a house on the street and looked for a job in Shenzhen, I really didn't feel pressure to spend my family's money. It's just that there is no news on Haitou's resume, which really hits me too hard. More than half a year has passed, and I feel that these days have been precipitated in the years. I am very dissatisfied with my present job, so I can only entertain myself every day. Interestingly, the structure of men and women in a department can be envied, and women have really just been together for a month. hahaha.
52. In life, many things are like this. In life, many feelings are like this. There is no reason and no reason. Love is love. Like is like, no result, no result, no regret.
53. Only by choosing to be strong can you save yourself.
54. A person who can see things from other people's thoughts and understand other people's spiritual activities will never have to worry about his future.
55. I want to imagine myself as a camel in the desert, a hamster in a peanut pile, and an old cow with four stomachs!
56. Responsibility is more important than Mount Tai, and individuals are lighter than a feather. "(Anita Sanders)
57. Do you feel tired, don't want to work, don't want to study, can't wait to quit, want to leave this place and want to travel?
58. College graduates are only looking for a job, not a career, let alone a career.
I can't change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust the direction of the sail
60. If you feel that there is no progress for the time being, try to break through yourself. Job-hopping, job rotation, job change, study, smoking, drinking, dancing, swimming, etc. Do something that you haven't done before or for a long time. If you don't make stagnant water, there will be living water.