After graduating from college, the students went their separate ways and started another stage of their lives.
A college classmate who hasn't contacted for two years suddenly sent me several wechat messages at 165438+ at 0: 25 last night: "Dany, please help me write a copy of the photo activity. The company is in a hurry, so I won't write. " "Please help me." "It's just a few hundred words of copywriting, which is not difficult for you."
At that time, I was busy sorting out the projects at hand in the company and was very tired. I have to get up early the next day to continue my work, and I am unable to pay attention to the requirements of this ordinary classmate.
Later, I replied, "Sorry, I'm still working overtime." I hope she understands, but I didn't expect her angry reply: "You feel great when you are red. Why don't you write one? You are easy, and your former classmates don't help. " This reply made me laugh and cry. Obviously, you asked me for something first, and I didn't finish my own business, but later it became my fault.
She is just an ordinary classmate. Usually she never contacts me. She only contacts me when something happens suddenly. It's really not difficult for me to write a copy, but it's very late. And you didn't consider each other's schedule, not even a basic polite greeting. Why should I help you? If you are too lazy to write, you can search the relevant template in the search engine and modify it into a copy that meets the needs of the company. This is your job. Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you.
A few days ago, a circle of friends sent a recruitment message and left a resume in the mailbox. Many people who lie in the circle of friends and never talk immediately come to recommend themselves.
Xiao said that he has strong working ability and hopes to get this job. I asked him to send a resume to my email. At this time, he began to be unhappy. I have praised you in your circle of friends for so long, and you are still not familiar with me? I told him that this is a recruitment for a big company, and we should go through formal channels and procedures. Besides, this is not my company. The little boy said, "I really can't write a resume. Do me a favor, say hello to the boss and bend the rules. "
I'm sorry I'm not familiar with you, but I won't help you with this.
Then a stranger sent me a resume, communicated with me politely to understand the situation, and asked one of his entrepreneurial friends to write a recommendation letter. After reading his resume, I felt good, so I recommended his resume to the recruitment company.
Look at your ability and learn manners before asking for help. Not everyone will help you. Your attitude reflects your value.
We were taught from childhood to do our own thing. But why grow up, so many people don't want to finish their own things, but also pretend to be poor and disturb other people's lives?
Maybe it's simply bothering others at no cost, but have you thought about it? Usually don't contact, contact others when necessary. Why should the other party help you? Everyone has his own life, and a friendship between gentlemen is as light as water. But the water must be clear and clean and not polluted by other things. You have your interests and I have my own principles.
Friends are not for use. Don't wait until you can use them. When friends are exhausted, the boat of friendship will capsize.
The picture comes from the Internet, and the text Xu Dan is original for you.