Marriage requires two people to run together. It is very important for two people to coordinate, tolerate, understand, accompany and advance together. But a woman who is too "artificial" will ruin her marriage with her own hands.
Gungun is thirty-five years old this year. He is an honest man, honest and kind, and a warm man. Everyone has a good impression on him. He is very motivated and his boss likes him very much. He and his wife Jia got married five years ago. Jia people are not bad, but mean, often lose face and have extremely low emotional intelligence.
Jia's first love was her college classmate. They have been together for several years, but this boy is very playboy. Finally, the boy left with Jia on his back. So in the end, Jia wants to find an honest man, the kind of man who treats himself wholeheartedly, and that is rolling.
Gungun and Jia got married less than a year ago, but Zhang Heng has a weakness, that is, his family is not as good as Jia's, but Jia's parents like Gungun very much. After all, he has a good personality and is considerate, so they are very optimistic about this marriage. When they got married, the woman had a house and the man had a car.
They have been married for a year, and their life is not bad. However, Jia sometimes moves out of her ex-boyfriend to crush her. Jia's best friend often advises her: "It's not appropriate for you to marry Gungun and then move out of your ex-boyfriend." But Jia didn't listen and went his own way. He is always self-centered, and when something goes wrong, he starts to scold and roll. But every time the scroll encounters this situation, it pretends not to hear it and doesn't want to make a mountain out of a molehill. It can be said that Gungun is very good at being a man.
At a friend's party dinner, Jia and Raul went together. Jia was chatting with friends, and suddenly he talked loudly about Gungun: "My husband is really poor, with no money and no background. Worse than my first love. And he doesn't look as tall as my first love. I really ... "At that time, everyone at the dinner table was looking at the two couples. Jia's good friend motioned Jia to tell her not to talk, only to find that everyone was looking at her. Rolled to one side and blushed, and the eyes almost wanted to kill her.
The two of them went home after dinner and were very unhappy. They looked at each other. When they entered the room, Raul's father-in-law went home. When the father-in-law saw that the situation was wrong, he asked clearly. As soon as the two old people heard it, they knew that their daughter had said something wrong. After scolding Jia, things calmed down.
During the Golden Week last November, Gungun and Jia planned to go to Thailand to play, and Zhang Heng helped to pack Jia's luggage. When they arrived in Thailand, they lived in a sea view room. When Jiaxi was ready to go for a walk by the sea, she found that Gungun didn't help her wear sunglasses and her favorite red dress with suspenders. Jia Xi rummaged through his suitcase, but he couldn't find it. He asked Gungun, "Do you want that skirt to help me wear sunglasses?"
Rolling puzzled: "You didn't ask me to help you, and the clothes I brought you are very practical clothes, which are very suitable for this weather in Thailand."
Jia was very angry and began to make a scene. "Why don't you care about me at all? I told you before that I would wear that skirt to take pictures at the beach. Those sunglasses match the skirt very well. You didn't bring me either! You don't care about me as much as my ex-boyfriend! " After listening to it, Rolling couldn't help it. After all, it was his own unforgettable friend. He coaxed Jia to be soft and hard, which only coaxed her to come over.
When Jiaxi was pregnant for four months, the rolling company had to work overtime recently, so she came home late every day. Gungun was afraid that he couldn't take good care of Jiaxi, so he asked his mother to come out from the countryside to help take care of Jiaxi. Three meals a day are cooked by her mother-in-law, but after all, there are still differences between rural tastes and urban tastes, and Jia Xi is very uncomfortable.
At that time, she didn't have an attack at the dinner table. When I got home, I started cooking, complaining that my mother-in-law cooked terrible food and saying that I didn't have enough to eat tonight. She wants Raul to go to the restaurant two blocks next door to help her pack raw porridge. Originally, I wanted to order takeout, but that restaurant didn't support delivery.
Gungun didn't want to go because it rained heavily that day, so he said, "Why are you so delicate?" Jia was very angry and said, "Who told your mother that cooking was so bad? What she cooks is fed to pigs, and pigs don't like it! " "Just this was heard by her mother-in-law, and she secretly hid in the quilt and cried.
In fact, the mother-in-law is very kind and takes good care of her daughter-in-law. She will let this daughter-in-law work everywhere, but it is still very uncomfortable after hearing this. The next morning, I got up and saw my mother's eyes were red and swollen. He probably knew a thing or two, but he didn't make a sound.
After a long time, I don't want to go home, because every time I go home, Jia will tell her that her mother-in-law is not good. Rolling can't stand it, and I can't bear to let my mother stay and be pointed at by Jia, so I went back. As a result, Jia couldn't stand it, and no one at home waited on her, leaving early and returning late every day. This made Jia suspicious and she began to roll with it. She always feels that someone is rolling outside, because every time Jia talks to him, rolling doesn't care.
After tracking for a while, there was still no result. Jia Gungun ran to the company and said that he was not at home all day and didn't care about himself at all, which caused many people in the company to watch. Rolling just had a meeting in the company, and all the leaders were there. At the end of the meeting, Raul came out with the leaders. She met Jia in that search. She shouted at Gungun, and when the leader saw it, he asked Gungun to finish the housework and come back to work, which made Gungun very embarrassed.
He immediately took Jia home. His face turned black and he said, "Jia, let's get a divorce. I can't stand such days any longer. I have tried my best to be nice to you, but you are still not satisfied. You still think I'm not as good as your ex-boyfriend. If you love him so much, come back to him! " Therefore, beat the child before he is born. This is good for him. After all, the child was born in an incomplete and unhappy family. "
Jia Xi looked at Gungun strangely, then Gungun said, "I'll make it up to you. I choose to go out clean and give you more money every month after the divorce. This is my promise to you. That's all I can do for you in the end. Let's get together. "
Although in the end, Jia did not agree to divorce until he received the divorce agreement. She didn't know that Raul was determined to get a divorce this time, and Jia signed an agreement. She also aborted the child, after all, she didn't want to remarry with the child.
In fact, this beautiful and happy marriage is all because the woman is too artificial and pushes the man to an unbearable level. You know, the biggest stupidity of women is to mistake "affectation" for coquetry. Jia only considers his own position, and never considers the feelings of others. In this marriage, Rolling will only keep forbearing and never try to communicate. After all, communication is the best bridge to solve problems.
Whether in love or marriage, it is very important for both men and women to have a correct view of love. Girls can't pretend to be women. Because as a man, he will pay special attention to his face, and every man has his own dignity. If a woman doesn't give her man face outside, but also makes his man make a fool of himself in public, and finally makes this man unable to step down, it is enough to prove that there is a gap between two people's feelings. That can fully explain that there is a gap between two people.
Remember that women can be spoiled, after all, spoiled women have the best life! But unreasonable coquetry is still unacceptable.