1, affecting children's personal positioning.

With the continuous growth of age, children will have a clear positioning of themselves, which is the basis for them to know themselves and evaluate their personal abilities. If children are subjected to verbal violence before their personal orientation is formed, they are likely to question themselves and overturn their original orientation.

For example, some children are more expressive and keen to show their abilities, which is an advantage. However, if an expression is wrong and is laughed at and ridiculed by others, then the child is likely to doubt his ability and lead to a decline in his desire to express.

2. Threatening children's mental health

The most terrible thing about verbal violence is that the place where it acts is not the body, but the mind. As the saying goes, "physical injury is easy to heal, but mental injury is difficult to heal", and psychological trauma is difficult to heal quickly.

It is worth mentioning that children's mental development is not yet fully mature and their ability to resolve negative emotions is limited. In this case, the threat of language violence to children's mental health is more obvious. Without good treatment, children's personality will become more and more pessimistic and introverted.

As mentioned earlier, in terms of language violence, the school management system is difficult to play a role, so parents should teach their children how to deal with language violence. So, when language violence appears, how should children respond?

Respond to verbal violence with verbal counterattacks.

As the saying goes, "Deal with a man as he deals with you". Since the perpetrator whitewashes the injury with "jokes", the victim can also "return the favor".

1, suppress the arrogance of the perpetrators

No matter how bullied the perpetrators are on campus, what they want is satisfaction. If the victim does not act in this process, then the perpetrator will inevitably intensify.

Therefore, parents may wish to encourage their children to fight back in the same language. After being countered, the arrogance of the perpetrator will be effectively suppressed, and it is likely that he will not dare to speak ill of the child again.

2. Stimulate the empathy of the perpetrators.

"You never know how painful it will be if the needle doesn't stick to you." The best way to make the abuser realize that his words and deeds are improper is not to reason with the abuser, but to fight back with words, so that they can feel this feeling personally, thus inspiring empathy. Only by letting the perpetrators know how hurtful these words are will they know how to restrain their behavior.

3. Solve the negative emotions of the victims.

In the face of school bullying, if the victim chooses not to act, all the negative emotions generated during the period are likely to be nowhere to be resolved, which will have a negative impact on the development of mental health. Therefore, in the face of language violence, children should fight back, so that these negative emotions can be effectively released and resolved in this process to avoid psychological burden.