Your parents lack the minimum respect and trust for people. But you have to understand their feelings. There is nothing wrong with your boyfriend. His reaction is normal. But! He needs to distinguish that you and your parents have different attitudes, and he should also feel your parents' feelings, so he should not give you pressure. When there is a conflict between self-esteem and love, which one to choose is very telling, which is also an opportunity to get to know your boyfriend. If he is too proud to open this knot, he will probably end up unhappy. Even if we are barely together, there will always be shadows in our hearts. Might as well persuade him to be generous and find a compromise. If, as your parents said, he doesn't care about money, but is afraid that you will be cheated, then he only needs to prove his identity, origin and education. You've been talking for three years. It's time for him to visit your parents. At this time, the opportunity is good. Going to your home with him, bringing your household registration book, ID card and education certificate, and spending some time with your parents will also enhance your feelings and understanding. If you can't understand and do it, it means that your boyfriend is selfish and can't make any sacrifices for you. You should make plans.