When everyone says the same thing, either it becomes yes, which is irrefutable and irresistible.
This is a characteristic of human beings.
The public opinion of the group can always influence the will of the individual, and no one can avoid it.
In society, people have different forms, and some people always say that "reading is useless" and "long live stability" .....
Listen to these words. Don't trust them. If you believe them, you will be very painful.
After all, the people who said these things have not seen much of the world.
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"Reading is useless"
Every graduation season, it is said that it is difficult for graduates to find jobs.
Many people can get used to the cliche: that child graduated from junior high school and didn't go to school, and now it is tens of thousands in January. What's the use of studying? It's not that he can't find a job.
This accent is so popular that many people believe it. In many places, it is almost natural to drop out of school and work.
Such people have really seen too little of the world.
Because he doesn't know that HR of Fortune 500 companies haven't even read the resume of 985, 2 1 1.
No reading, no place to knock.
As the ancients said, Mian Shize is not good, but he is still studying.
China is a well-known family, but its descendants have made achievements. Which one is not maintained by reading?
Qian Liu once said: "Although children and grandchildren are stupid, they must study." Before he died, he left a copy of Qian's Family Instructions to encourage future generations to study angrily.
The descendants of the Qian family also lived up to expectations, and talents came forth in generations. In modern times, there are even more talented people, and Nobel Prizes, academicians and masters of Chinese studies abound.
Liang Qichao has nine children, including academicians, officers and scholars. These are inseparable from Liang Qichao's careful education and support for children's learning.
Regardless of personal achievements, people who love reading know gains and losses, know how to advance and retreat, have temperature and interest, and even if their lives are ordinary, they are self-sufficient and happy.
How to refute the tone of reading uselessness?
Some netizens said that there is no need to refute.
Because you read so many books, just to avoid such stupid things, but your own ignorant life.
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"Don't toss, stability matters."
"You say, take an examination of a civil servant. Stable work, don't work so hard. You see, you have to toss around and find yourself guilty. "
The admission rate of civil servants in China is world-famous, and tens of thousands of people compete for a position, most of which are instigated by these parents.
Under the banner of stability, they make children lose the motivation to struggle in the most important growth stage, so they do nothing and waste their life time.
Life lies in tossing.
The general trend of the world, the vast soup, those who follow it will prosper, and those who oppose it will die.
The world is changing so fast that we have to worry about whether we will be abandoned by the times, let alone stop.
Alipay and WeChat recently launched a high-speed "non-inductive" payment function. When the car passes through the toll booth, the owner does not need to pay cash or mobile phone. When the car passes by, the camera of the toll station will automatically deduct the high-speed toll from the owner's Alipay or WeChat wallet after recognizing the license plate.
In this way, the toll collectors of toll stations were abandoned by the times. They have no skills except charging, and they will pay the price for their once stability.
A rolling stone gathers no moss.
The door shaft will not be eaten by insects when it rotates frequently, and the water that flows frequently will not stink.
The same is true of life. Once it stagnates, it is waiting for death.
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"It's so annoying, day after day, boring and boring."
People who have seen the world never complain about life.
Many people complain day after day that life is monotonous, tired and nothing new.
They have been complaining, but they are unwilling to make any changes. They can't change the status quo and don't talk about it. They also infect people around them with their complaints.
There is a question in Zhihu: What is seeing the world?
One answer impressed me deeply: "I will value it, do it, enjoy the best and bear the worst." They who have seen the world will naturally exude different temperament in the crowd, gentle but powerful, humble but connotative. "
After seeing the real mountains and seas, you will naturally not be trapped in the stream mountain in front of you.
They can swim in the sea without capsizing themselves in the stream.
They have their own tastes and rhythms and will not be easily changed by the external environment. They are in no hurry and lead an orderly and colorful life.
In his early years, Mr. Zhou went to the countryside. In the extremely bad environment, he didn't complain, let alone sink. He still keeps his enthusiasm for learning, studies hard and accumulates hard. In an uncertain era, he shines brightly, illuminating his bleak prospects.
Body and mind must have one on the road.
Either study or travel, broaden your horizons and see a wider world.
After all, people with different horizons lead completely different lives.
I hope you and I can get rid of the mediocre and boring life and run our own lives in another mode.