Divorce means that two people go their separate ways, maybe they don't love each other, or it may be caused by various practical problems. Whatever the reason, as long as they get divorced, it means that their fate is over, and it doesn't matter anymore. Regardless of whether they still have feelings for each other, basically there will be some loneliness and unhappiness, helplessness and unwillingness after divorce. The trauma caused by a failed marriage often makes me hard to let go. Some people may no longer believe in love and even fear marriage. Although I have never been divorced, I can see people around me divorced or related scenes in film and television dramas, which are crowded with people and unwilling to think about it. There must be a period of extreme pain after divorce. From the initial discomfort to the loneliness and helplessness later, I think in the painful period, we can alleviate it through the following situations: first, cultivate some hobbies; second, go out to chat with friends, make new friends and travel. You can cultivate more hobbies. However, when we are trapped in marriage, we are sure that our time is occupied. No matter for our husband or children, a housewife will never have too much time to pay attention to herself. Besides going to work, she has to take care of her husband and children. Trivial chores at home, from laundry to cooking, basically revolve around the family. We can take this opportunity of divorce to regain our curious and optimistic self and cultivate more hobbies. You can grow flowers, learn to make coffee, do embroidery and so on. You can kill time, cultivate sentiment and increase your love for life. Why not? Besides cultivating interest, you can also chat with friends and make new friends. By cultivating your interest and doing some interesting things, you can make some like-minded good friends, and of course you can chat with old friends more. Some surveys have found that when people talk about something, it will become less and less troublesome for them. Therefore, if a person feels very painful after divorce, he might as well make an appointment with two or three confidants to talk about his inner helplessness and pain, or get drunk. I believe that with a scar, a person can get married soon. The most effective way is to travel. In a new environment, people tend to be particularly curious and refreshing. Leaving the former residence where you have lived for many years, you can see different people and things outside, and you can also adjust your marital misfortune. If you look at everything in this world again, you will find that the pain caused by your little unfortunate marriage is not worth mentioning. Therefore, many people with emotional trauma or unhappy psychology will choose to travel, because traveling abroad can not only relax our mood, but also increase our horizons and knowledge, thus diluting the grief and indignation in life.