In CCTV's recent "Wait for Me" program, Hou Tiecheng, 65, from Baotou, Inner Mongolia, went on stage to look for 16' s lost son. Finally, the program found Hou Yaozong, but he didn't want to see his father or even let him know anything about him.

Hou Yaozong can't forgive Lao Hou because his father treated him with "cold violence" since he was a child. Due to the influence of the growing environment, Hou Tiecheng is still immersed in personal enjoyment after his adult marriage and has no sense of responsibility for his family. After the divorce, although he had custody of his son, he never shouldered the responsibility of being a father, ignoring his son's growth needs and his normal demands, which caused great harm to his son's spirit and eventually made him indifferent and completely gave up his father-son affection.