I haven't seen a movie for a long time. I accidentally watched the movie Blind Mountain yesterday, and I watched it for the second time today. After reading it, I can't be calm for a long time, and my mood has been high. There seems to be a huge stone in my heart.
The film tells a story: three female college students who just graduated from Chongqing were sold to rural Shaanxi by traffickers in the name of finding jobs. Began a tragic fate.
It hurts every time I look at it. Tears for the hero Bai Xuemei. A beautiful female college student, whose family worked hard to get her to graduate from college, was sold to a poor ravine and married a 40-year-old farmer. Run away countless times, get caught, get beaten severely. Doing heavy farm work and living a life without a future. I know that a newly graduated college student should have great expectations for society and future life. She should have found a good job in the city and then found a like-minded college student to fly with me happily. But all this was ruined by traffickers. She was sexually abused and beaten by her husband. Sleeping with the store for 40 yuan. Finally, I got the help of the police, but I had to endure the torture of mother-child separation! What a disaster God has brought to Bai Xuemei!
The image of the protagonist Bai Xuemei represents thousands of abducted women in Qian Qian. They were bought into ravines by traffickers, some committed suicide by drinking pesticides, some were caught escaping and their legs were broken. Some want to go, but they already have children. For the sake of their children, they had to choose to stay and ruined their lives in the ravine. At the end of the film, Bai Xuemei is successfully rescued. But there are still so many kidnapped women who have not been rescued, and Bai Xuemei's son, whose children are innocent. When they grow up, they become children of single-parent families. Without mom's love. Even if Bai Xuemei escapes, will he meet someone better in the future? Can that man tolerate her past? If Bai Xuemei wants children, what should he do? This series of practical problems deserves our consideration.
I saw on the news yesterday that there are 7 million more men than women in China, and this number will increase year by year in the future. Such a big gender gap will lead to more rampant trafficking in women in the future. China's feudal thought was so serious that many people wanted a son to carry on the family line. The rapid development of science and technology has led to more advanced gender identification technology. Many girls were killed before they were born. You can look around. I am a teacher in a primary school. The sex ratio in our school is obvious. There was once a class with 30 students, 25 boys and only 5 girls. The same is true of urban schools. When my daughter was in kindergarten, I once went to watch her play games in a sports meeting, which was divided into male and female competitions, but the team of boys was very long and the team of girls was very short. Don't say that men and women are equal in the city, it's the same everywhere. A doctor who went to the countryside for a free clinic once told me that they went to a remote mountainous area for a free clinic. All the people who came to see the doctor in the morning were boys, and finally a girl came after work. The extent of gender imbalance can be imagined. On weekends, there are groups of boys downstairs playing skateboard, playing cards and playing top. Girls rarely see it.
Why is the price of bride price getting higher and higher when girls get married now? Take Shaanxi as an example. To marry a woman in the mountains, the bride price will cost 65,438+10,000 yuan. Not counting the money for building a house, buying furniture and catering at home. Many families have accumulated hard-earned money all their lives, and their sons were heavily in debt when they got married. Girls with slightly better rural conditions now directly say that they want to buy a house and a car in the city. Otherwise, no deal.
Searching online for the sex ratio between men and women, the results are shocking: by 2020, there will be 30 million to 40 million more men of marriageable age in China than women, which means that one in five men can't find a spouse on average, that is, tens of millions of men will become single in 20 years. For example, at the time of the census, the sex ratio of the planned second-born newborn in Qishan County of Shaanxi Province was as high as 253.5: 100. Since 200 1, there have been no girls born in the planned second child for three consecutive years in this county, including Nanyang Village, Liujiazhuang Village in Pucun Town, Lingtou Village in Feng Ming Town, Wujiayuan Village in Yongchuan Town and Xiaoying Village.
Now it is 20 13, and the problem of gender imbalance has emerged. There will be more social problems in the future: a large number of men can't find wives, which will lead to violence, prostitution, high infection rate of sexually transmitted diseases, rampant trafficking in women, high unemployment rate and reduced social stability.
As a woman, I think more about the safety of women. What would he do if the protagonist in the movie was himself and was abducted? I'm stubborn, I can't live that life, and I may have passed away long ago. Without ideal and future, I will go crazy if I stay in a closed mountain village for one day. Coupled with my husband's beating, I will despair of life and go completely to the point of no return.
I once again warn those simple and kind girls that this society is very complicated, so you should be careful how long you go out in the future, don't trust strangers easily, especially those single female travelers, and don't do such risky things again. In case of an accident on the road, it will ruin your life!
I hope our government will take precautions and find ways as soon as possible to reduce the sex ratio of the birth population and create a harmonious and happy society!
From Tianya "Flower Bud in the Wind 1978"