I don't know when the house and marriage seem to have become an inseparable whole. It is an ironclad fact that it is difficult for a man to enter the marriage hall without a house.

It is normal for a woman to make such a request. After all, getting married means starting a family. How can you have a home without a house?

Gradually, the house became a symbol of a man's marital capital. With the development of the times, not only men are full of yearning for houses, but also many women have such plans.

Because men and women are equal, women and men go to the same school, do the same job and earn about the same, so the number of women with houses is gradually increasing.

A house is an asset for everyone, and this asset also reveals a strong self-confidence. Only when facing the house, different people have different views. Some people are happy and some people are calculating.

As a result, the woman with nothing asked a man to add his name to the real estate license without paying a penny.

However, many men can't buy a house in full. After all, house prices are so bad now that they can only choose to pay a down payment. But in this case, they don't intend to add their girlfriend's name, but ask the other party to buy furniture and appliances and decorate the house.

People often say that these two kinds of people are the best match because they both want to take advantage of each other, but the reality is that these two kinds of people never seem to meet because they also dislike each other.

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Ma Hongtao, 30, has joined the ranks of older men. Everyone wants him to get married as soon as possible, especially his parents, who are as anxious as ants in your pants, but he still feels that he has great advantages. What he said was that he had a house in the county.

He now lives in a second-tier city and works in a small company. His monthly income is around 6000 yuan. With the help of his parents, he bought a house and car.

The house is in a small county, the house price is very cheap, and the car is about 65,438+10,000, but he told everyone that he has a house and a car.

When a person is old enough to talk about marriage, he will naturally ask his relatives and friends around him to help him find someone, and Ma Hongtao is no exception. He hopes that his colleagues can help him introduce some excellent girls.

When asked about the hardware conditions, he is usually confident that he has a house and a car and deserves a girl with good conditions.

But it is clear to everyone that his condition is not a house or a car at all. After all, in most people's minds, houses in county towns are not houses, unless they are relative to people in county towns.

Some time ago, several female colleagues were talking about buying a house. Everyone's idea is simple. Now that house prices are getting higher every day, female colleagues have saved some money and want to turn it into an inherent asset, otherwise the money will depreciate one day, which is naturally not cost-effective.

Ma Hongtao made it very clear that it is wrong for a girl to buy a house, because buying a house symbolizes her special strength, so that men are afraid to marry. He advised female colleagues not to do this, lest they could not get married then.

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The female colleague didn't want to argue with him, so she didn't want to talk to him, but he kept talking there.

His ideas are very strange, for example, women are virtuous but not talented, for example, women should not be too strong, otherwise men will be afraid.

A local gay man couldn't stand the fact and said directly, "Forget it. A woman who buys a house before marriage cannot get married. This is the first time I've heard it. Who doesn't know that owning a house is equal to 20 years less struggle? " You think too much, and a woman with a house can't value you. "

This male colleague has a very good voice, because he is excellent and has a good performance. He earns over 10,000 yuan a month and has a house and a car under his name. Of course, the house is mortgaged.

After all, they live in second-tier cities, and there are literally millions of houses. Not many people can really buy a house in full.

His wife, like him, has a house in her name, but it is different in size.

His house 120 square meters, his wife's house is only 70 square meters, with a small two-bedroom apartment.

In fact, there are not a few people like them in second-tier cities. Many couples choose to buy a second home because of financial problems when they get married. He has a strong economic ability, so he bought a big house of 120 square meters.

After marriage, the wife's house is rented out, and she can receive a fixed rent every month, which can offset a large part of the mortgage.

Male colleagues bluntly said that in this era of extraordinary housing prices, owning a house is equivalent to 20 years of less struggle. Although his wife's house has a loan, it will not cause pressure on their lives, not to mention that not everyone has the money to pay the down payment.

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Looking at the whole society, there are only a handful of people who have houses in big cities.

What does a house really mean to a person? Presumably, most people are well aware that although many people in the network claim to have houses, only a few people actually have houses in big cities.

As we all know, buying a house is a very difficult thing. Some people need to consume the savings of two generations, while others need to empty eight wallets.

Young people with houses in big cities run ahead of their peers. Whether it is a man or a woman, if there are two suites in the name of the husband and wife, the future of the child will fall.

Based on this, most people want to marry a woman with a house, but not all men have such conditions.

Only a man with strong financial ability can marry a woman with a house

As the saying goes, a woman with nothing will ask a man to buy a house and a car, because everyone thinks this is the capital for marriage. If a man can't meet this condition, it will be difficult for him to enter the marriage hall.

Houses have become the driving force of many people's lives. Parents work hard to make money just to let their children have a house of their own, and they can get married and have children in the future.

But if the husband and wife have two suites, the children don't have to work as hard as others, and they are ahead of their peers because they have already prepared a house for their children.

This strong marriage is the dream result of many people, but we should understand the truth of wooden door to wooden door and Chai Men to Chai Men.

Men think that a woman with a house is difficult to marry and can't get married. In fact, it's just that her ability is not enough.

But all this comes from their fantasy, because people from different classes can't collide, and everyone can only choose the other half that is more suitable for them on the basis of matching each other.