We talk every day, but we never seem to learn how to speak seriously. There is even a strange accent in society. "People who talk nonsense when they meet people" is generally regarded as flattery and duplicity, not a positive word. It's easy to say, as soon as the upper lip touches the lower lip, but it's not easy to say yes. Speaking properly is an art.

Modern society is no longer single-handedly fighting in the past, but stresses teamwork. Since different people work together, they will naturally talk, and chatting well becomes an advantage. In the evaluation of job resume or promotion position, we all want one thing: strong communication skills. To put it bluntly, we can talk and talk well.

I have always admired people who can talk. It means the same thing. Why do people like to listen when they talk? You get angry when you say it. For a clumsy person like me, the book Speak Well opens a door. When talking about this matter, it not only provides theoretical guidance, but also gives appropriate words to some scenes that often appear in reality. For example, how to bargain, how to strike up a conversation, how to pinch your face, and how to praise others. ...

I believe that people who have read Chipa's story are no strangers to the author of this book. Ma Weiwei, Huang Zhizhong, Zhou Xuanyi and Qiu Chen are all stars. After this program became a hit, Ma Dong and his team started a paid audio program "Speak Well" in the Himalayan region. Obviously, this book is a supplement to audio. No matter what the online comments are, as long as you can learn something useful from them, it is useful. Although the contents of the book are obviously pieced together, it can be regarded as providing a train of thought for people who can't speak.

Speech is never unilateral, but a comprehensive ability, which is the so-called five-dimensional whole system in the book. These five dimensions include communication, persuasion, negotiation, speech and debate.

The purpose of communication is equality, and the two sides can open the knot on the same plane. Persuasion focuses on "change", that is, implanting our views and positions into each other's hearts, so that the other party can think about the problem according to our presupposition and draw the conclusions we want. Debate pays more attention to "debate", that is, defending one's own position and responding to the other's doubts with reason. The core ability is to refute fallacies. The essence of negotiation is exchange, and the main exchange is that the two sides evaluate different things.

Just like the subtitle of the book: fresh and interesting speech improvement skills. This book is just a skill. But in a word, skill belongs to skill, and how to use it in life is the right way.

I hope each of us can "talk freely" and have a good talk.