My name is Wang Yali. I am 27 years old. My husband and I are colleagues. We all work in Beijing. At a party, I was drunk and my husband sent me home. In this way, we have more and more contacts. Slowly, my husband confessed to me and we talked about love. A year later, we got married.
My husband's family is in the countryside, my parents are engaged in small business, and the family conditions are not bad. He also has a younger brother, two years younger than him, who is unmarried, loafing around all day and has no job. This year, my mother's family caught up with the demolition and housing distribution, and was assigned two houses, one large and one small. My mother missed me and gave me a set. My mother-in-law told us that we work in Beijing anyway and won't stay at home for long. For future convenience, I wrote my father-in-law's name in the room. I didn't say anything and didn't care.
One day when I was shopping in Beijing, I happened to meet my husband's neighbors who came to Beijing to play. My neighbor said to me, "Yali, you are really a good wife. You actually listened to your mother-in-law and sold your house to your brother-in-law to pay off your debts. " When I heard this, I was at a loss. What happened? My brother-in-law was in debt and my mother-in-law sold my house. When I got home, I told my husband about it. He said he didn't know, so I discussed with my husband about going back to my hometown to make things clear, but my husband didn't go anyway, so I tried my best to persuade him to come back with me. So we went back to our hometown.
When I got home, I asked my mother-in-law directly, "Did you sell our house? Why did you sell it? Where do we live? " Mother-in-law said: "You all work in Beijing, and the house at home can't live, so I sold it to pay my brother-in-law." Brother-in-law was there. He even said confidently, "My parents' property is mine. It is natural to sell the house to pay off my debts. "When I heard these words, I was really angry. I thought my husband would stand with me and speak for me. But unexpectedly, he called me unreasonable and asked me to go back to Beijing with him. I stood there quietly and waited for a while without saying anything.
When I returned to Beijing, the more I thought about it, the more angry I became. My brother-in-law's indebted mother-in-law secretly sold my wedding room. I asked her husband for a divorce with a smile, but her mother-in-law cried. I can't afford such a family. Good people, give some advice. Am I doing this right or wrong?