Xiaohong, a friend who grew up together, has been in Shenzhen Huawei for five years. When Huawei held a campus recruitment in her school, Xiaohong had to go through five hurdles to get an internship opportunity for Huawei. Up to now, it can be said that Xiaohong has not experienced the bitter history of submitting a resume, waiting for an interview call, and submitting a resume after failure.

Xiaohong said that Huawei has many talents. She is the lowest junior college student and has no chance of promotion at all. The students who went in with her have now left Huawei. She has worked as a clerk in Huawei in recent years, and her salary has not increased much. But why didn't she quit her job and never thought about going out to make a living?

First of all, her family is the biggest factor, that is, Xiaohong's family conditions have improved in the past two or three years. Her brother is still studying, and both parents are farmers. Qian Xiaohong, who built a new house at home last year, took out a lot. In fact, it is a very glorious thing for Xiaohong to enter a big company like Huawei in rural areas. Her parents naturally don't want her to leave Huawei. After all, her salary has reached 7000 now. Don't say that a stable life will destroy people's fighting spirit, and don't say that you should go out while you are young. You have never experienced that kind of poverty and poverty. A month's salary can support the life of the whole family, and your business may lose the hope of the whole family. Hard-won life may not stand the toss. Many times, I don't want to be rich or expensive. I just want to relax and be happy, regardless of commodity prices.

In addition, because of Xiaohong's personality, she is optimistic and strong. Her wish has always been that the whole family can be healthy and live in harmony. At first, she saved money for her family. In the past two years, she has gradually considered herself and started to be generous. But the important thing is that she is happy every day. Many times she said, "I have a stable job, a family that loves me and a healthy body. What should I worry about? "

Xiaoxue University, high school classmate, major in literature. Later, she was admitted to the graduate school of Huda University and graduated two years ago. We get together once a year to talk about the past year. Now Xiaoxue works as an editor in a foreign-funded enterprise in Shanghai, with a salary of 12 1. She is satisfied with her present life. In her spare time, she just reads books, and her time is indifferent and her heart is quiet.

Xiaoxue once said that as soon as she graduated from graduate school, her classmates who studied with her in undergraduate colleges asked her to start a business together, especially to engage in training courses. At that time, she refused without hesitation. This rejection is not because Xiaoxue has no self-confidence, but just a choice of life.

In fact, Xiaoxue's family is OK. She has never had any pressure in her life. She said that she didn't like the ups and downs of life, and she didn't like being too tired. What she pursues is just to pay for the life she likes. Now that she has done it, she can slow down and live the life she wants.

Nowadays, many young people insist on fighting hard, which is a spirit worthy of encouragement, and I think it is not advisable for you to borrow money from your parents and friends when you are not sure. Some people may say that you are killing yourself by choosing a stable life. However, life is short, and how to live it is everyone's choice after all. Perhaps, as many people say, it is good to be happy every day and be happy around you.