Men's love for women is like putting a pot of delicate flowers in a greenhouse and giving them the best and most meticulous care, but because of excessive care, the flowers will become more fragile and unable to face the wind and rain in the world.

Love should be moderate, but also pay attention to the way, so that the emotional health between men and women can develop for a long time

What the husband and wife want is the feeling that diamond cut diamond will meet talented people, instead of keeping a pet, which I will give, you will enjoy, and then live in my way.

Men's love for women is from the heart, not from their actions.

Annie baby said:? Only when people are good enough can they talk about desires, such as happiness, happiness and freedom. ?

When a woman is spoiled to the extreme by a man, she will forget what love is.

While accepting it, it is reasonable to think that men should love all their looks and tolerate their shortcomings and inaction.

However, if a woman has been unable to improve and explore her potential, and all her feathers have been covered up, what reason is there to ask a man to take care of herself all the time?

The emotional world is always evenly matched. No matter which side, if it can't change the balance of the weak side, it will make its emotional world full of crisis.

Women are bathed in the river of men's love and should not indulge themselves. They should cultivate themselves better so as to be qualified to pursue happiness and a happy marriage.

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Men care about women in everything, which shows that they love women deeply. And women will gradually lose the ability to love a person in love, passively accept and stop growing.

In the first half of his life, Luo Zijun was mercilessly abandoned by Chen. Many people say that Chen is a? Love rat? Is it a? Start with chaos and abandon it? An ungrateful person.

But objectively analyzing the problems between two people, Luo Zijun will take on more responsibilities. Luo Zijun doesn't know what Chen wants, which will make Lingling take advantage.

In fact, the first person to abandon Luo Zijun was herself. She was originally a graduate of a famous university. No matter what major she studies, she must have her own achievements in society, but she gave up all her efforts and became a full-time wife with peace of mind.

When you choose to give up on yourself, right? Tragic fate? The beginning of.

When a woman thinks that she can have a happy life with her husband's love, she only eats love? Poisonous apples? Paralyze yourself with the sweetness you ask for.

Chen loves her, so she tries to give her a better material life. At the same time, she also helped Luo Zijun's family a lot.

Luo Zijun didn't realize that these pressures fell heavily on Chen's shoulders, making him breathless.

Luo Zijun doesn't really know what her husband thinks in marriage, and he doesn't want to grow up in marriage and help her husband share some pressure.

Such a marriage is already very fragile. Even without Lingling, Chen's love for Luo Zijun will gradually wither. Lingling only accelerated the breakdown of this marriage.

03

To destroy a woman, a man just needs to be nice to her.

When a woman becomes a housewife in marriage and has no ability to work, it is equivalent to losing her ability to survive.

The second beautiful Ann is a woman with infinite possibilities. She is highly educated, intelligent and creative, and is recognized by teachers and classmates when she goes to school.

But when I entered the marriage, I gradually became a child. I didn't know how to grow up with my husband's love. Even as a mother, I didn't take up my responsibilities at all.

She is convinced of her husband's oath, thinking that if he gives her a romantic world, she can be reckless and willful, and such a life can last forever.

It was not until her husband flatly filed for divorce that she woke up from this dream.

When she was forced to accept the divorce, she took her resume to find a job and found that the blank life in recent years had made her unable to keep up with this era, even if she had? Brilliant? Yes, but it's useless now.

Once she gave up her dream, but now she wants to return to the right career track, only to find that every step is so difficult.

She thought that if she sacrificed all her children for men, she could get men's love for life.

But in the end, it is found that women who can't be independent and have no self are more likely to be abandoned.

Su Qin said: People are fickle animals, and no matter how beautiful they are, it is impossible for them to keep their love for life.

Reality is always cruel. If a woman is immersed in the mode of being loved, she will unconsciously turn herself into an enterprising and insecure woman, be more sensitive to feelings and accelerate men's boredom with herself.

04

Why is it that men are too kind to women, but marriage is easily destroyed?

Men's excessive flattery to women in marriage will make marriage unbalanced. Even love can develop better.

Women who are biased towards men will make their temper worse, feel that their status is already high, forget their true height, forget their dreams, and not think about how to better realize their value.

However, when a woman stops growing, what little love a man has left is exhausted, and she will fall to pieces from the high clouds. At this time, pleading and repentance are useless.

Therefore, the more you are loved, the less you will cherish it; The more pampered you are, the more you will lose your direction; The more resigned a woman is, the more painful and desperate she will be when a man leaves.

If pampering becomes the norm and women get used to this lifestyle, the gap between them will get bigger and bigger, and serious problems will arise in marriage.

Therefore, in marriage, we should choose a lifestyle that makes both parties comfortable, share responsibilities in marriage, and urge each other to become better and achieve each other.

The mode of getting along in marriage can witness the degree of love between husband and wife. The change of the mode of getting along is also artificial. If you love it, please love it deeply.

Written in the seventh Jin dynasty:? My only belief is that I can hold your hand all the way, and then I will see what is wrong at the end. ?

A man can spoil the woman he loves, but it is more important to tap the potential of a woman and guide her to adapt to various roles in marriage.

Men should not take on a woman's life, but should give her more space to pursue her dreams and career, and make her a more dazzling pearl.

Women should not lose themselves while enjoying love. Love is just a part of decorating their lives. Only by knowing how to plan your life can you have a bigger sky.

In marriage, besides rice, oil and salt, there are stars and the sea, and they all shed happy laughter when they go to unknown distant places with their loved ones.