Always proud and unwilling
How many people have been slapped by reality?
Have to bow their heads and accept their fate
Dada is a kind and docile boy. Growing up, he always felt that life was too dull without any waves. He felt unwilling. He felt that his life should not be so obscure.
When he was a child, he was the apple of his eye and was carefully cared for and grew up; At school, he is a good student in the eyes of teachers, spoiled and grown up.
His life is calm, even without setbacks, and of course, without surprises.
After graduating from high school, Dada started his life according to the trajectory arranged by his parents.
After graduating from high school, his parents arranged for him to be a soldier in the army for a stable job. Already homesick, Dada had to leave home for military service.
After two years in the army, Dada matured a little, retired home and was arranged by his parents to work in a state-owned enterprise.
That year, Dada 2 1 year-old had a stable and fairly good job. Friends and family around him envy him and feel happy for him.
After working for two or three years, Dada began to get tired of this boring life. Every day he just goes to work and sleeps. His life without passion makes Dada feel that life is meaningless.
Dada had the idea of resignation in his heart. At that time, many friends around me advised Dada that it was a pity to quit such a good job.
Dada thought: I am still young, and I don't want to see the end of my life at a glance.
Finally, after struggling and struggling, Dada secretly quit his job without telling his family and friends. This is the first time that Dada has made his own decision at his age.
24-year-old Dada quit his job that made everyone around him feel good and began to wander.
Dada originally thought that youth was capital. As long as he is young, he can spell out a world in this society. So, he left his hometown and went to a big city.
Looking at the neon-lit city, Dada feels that this is the colorful life he wants. At that time, he felt that resigning was really the right choice.
After several years of wandering and hard work, Dada was finally awakened by reality. It turns out that life in a big city is not what he imagined; A person's efforts are not as easy as he simply thinks.
His naivety was crushed by reality, and his original ambition was torn beyond recognition and bloody by ruthless society.
Whenever he gets off work alone, he walks in the brightly lit busy streets and looks at the lights of high-rise buildings. He is really tired. He is thinking: where is his home? Where is his home? Such a big city, so many houses, why doesn't one belong to him?
At the age of 28, Dada finally experienced the ups and downs of life. Only then did he understand that a stable and plain life is the ultimate pursuit of a person's life.
However, in life, you have no chance to choose again.
Now Dada finally wants to settle down, and the reality makes him have to bow his head. He didn't know until now how difficult it is to get an enviable or even enviable job.
It is one's duty to do what one can.
If Dada is allowed to return to his 2 1 year old, I think he will still make the same choice. Because everyone yearns for it when they have not experienced it.
Many people don't listen to many things, not because they are unreasonable, but because they think they will be different. They always want to try.
Don't look back until you hit your head.
Life is always like this.
No one is willing to accept their fate.
I always feel that I can conquer nature.
However, I finally realized the reality.
But I have to accept my fate.