As the saying goes: mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have much to do in one room. Many women don't like living with their mother-in-law after marriage. Because as we all know, as long as the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along for a long time, it will lead to a series of contradictions. Therefore, most women will choose to live independently with their husbands after marriage and try to avoid contact with their mother-in-law.

In fact, this sentence is quite absolute. There are also mothers-in-law with good feelings in this world, and of course there will be mothers-in-law with bad feelings. Only in our hearts, there are many bad feelings between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, so many women have a natural sense of defense against their mother-in-law after marriage. This is also one of the reasons for the tension between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

In fact, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law depends on men to some extent. If a man can hold on after marriage, know how to handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and know how to maintain family harmony, then the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will not be tense at all.

Unfortunately, few men will understand this truth.

Zhang Ying sometimes thinks that if the husband can handle the contradiction between himself and his mother-in-law fairly, their marriage may still be saved.

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Zhang Ying and her husband have been married for more than two years. When they first got married, they were on good terms. But everything has changed since Zhang Ying's mother-in-law moved in.

When Zhang Ying first met her husband, she found him particularly masculine. At that time, Zhang Ying was pursued by her husband, and Zhang Ying was interested in him. So in less than a month, the two men confirmed their love relationship.

Both of them are only children and live in the same city. After talking for less than a year, both sides felt that they had almost understood each other, so they put marriage on the agenda.

Their family conditions are basically the same, and both belong to the right family. After the parents met, the marriage was finalized.

So each family gave part of their money and bought a house for Zhang Ying and his wife in the city. After marriage, Zhang Ying and her husband lived happily together.

I thought married life would be sweeter, but what Zhang Ying didn't expect was that the arrival of her mother-in-law put her marriage in crisis.

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Originally, Zhang Ying didn't want to live with the old man after she got married, but her husband agreed. However, they are newly married and both are only children. They never cook or do housework on weekdays. A month later, the beautiful new house was made into a dump by two people.

The two men discussed it, or they would take their parents to live together, which would not only take care of the elderly, but also help. So, the man took his mother away from home.

As soon as her mother-in-law moved in, she expressed her dissatisfaction with Zhang Ying. Because the house is too messy, my mother-in-law mumbles while cleaning up. Zhang Ying doesn't even do housework. Did her son marry her home to support her?

Zhang Ying felt wronged and tried to refute a few words, but her husband winked at her and told her to be patient. After all, I really didn't do housework, and it is right for the old man to complain.

I thought it was over. But later, my mother-in-law made a timetable for Zhang Ying, which clearly defined what housework she should do and when to cook. What annoys Zhang Ying most is that she is the only person in the family who does housework. Mother-in-law never puts her son in.

When Zhang Ying talked to her mother-in-law, her mother-in-law plausibly said that it is not easy for women to do housework and men to make money outside. Zhang Ying is very angry. She works outside to make money. Why did she do it herself?

Two people quarreled about it.

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After that, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law began to be tense. Mother-in-law always secretly reports to her son that something is wrong with Zhang Ying. Zhang Ying's relationship with her husband is also in crisis.

Therefore, Zhang Ying and her mother-in-law quarreled. But after a long time, her husband began to take the side of her mother-in-law and criticize Zhang Ying. Zhang Ying has just quarreled with her mother-in-law and will quarrel with her husband later. Married life is a chicken flying a dog jumping.

Zhang Ying couldn't stand such a life, and she also went home to tell her parents about her grievances. However, her parents advised her to be patient every time. After all, if she gets married, she can have a good life together. Zhang Ying had to choose patience.

But something happened not long ago that made Zhang Ying very angry.

The cause of the incident was that Zhang Ying left his mobile phone at home that day. When she got home, her mother-in-law actually asked her why there was money in other bank cards.

Zhang Ying inexplicably asked. Unexpectedly, her mother-in-law took Zhang Ying's mobile phone and said, I found some bank cards in your mobile phone, which contained money. Did you steal private money behind my son's back?

Zhang Ying flew into a rage when he heard this. He roared, "Why are you peeking at my mobile phone? Do you know how to respect my privacy? "

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law had a big fight about it. When her husband came home, her mother-in-law went to tell her that Zhang Ying had scolded her.

The husband scolded Zhang Ying without asking indiscriminately. Zhang Ying was angry and shouted at him, "If your mother doesn't move away, we'll get a divorce!"

At the mention of divorce, my husband immediately dared not, but still said, "My mother just looked at your mobile phone. As for divorce? "

Zhang Ying didn't continue to pester the mother and son, so she packed her bags and went back to her family. In the meantime, her husband has been begging her to go home, but Zhang Ying made it clear that I won't go back unless your mother moves away.

Do you think a mother-in-law can just rummage through her daughter-in-law's mobile phone?