Naked resignation has a good life. A company in the job-hunting crematorium often fails to pay wages. Coupled with poor interpersonal relationship, I can't stand annual leave (ps: I can enjoy paid annual leave until the year before last), so I chose naked resignation the year before last. After I resigned, my heart relaxed a lot, and this happy mood lasted until the end of the year.

Facts have proved that naked resignation can only have fun, and impulse is the devil. Don't follow suit ...

I resigned at that time because I thought it was a good job-hunting season for a boss to hook up with a gold, three silver and four years ago. In the past, even though I was on the job, many companies often offered me positions.

But I didn't expect that after the New Year, until the end of February, not many companies took the initiative to ask me for resumes on the job search platform. Some of them are big or small, or far away from home. This led me to spend 30 yuan in a hurry to buy a resume number that I never bothered to buy before. You know, even if I didn't buy a resume before, I was far more active than my peers.

Finally, it is proved that when the market itself is not good, refreshing the resume is actually invalid. This is the first time I have encountered such a situation since graduation. It is a lie to say that I am not flustered. Instead, my husband advised me not to worry too much. I should rest at home for half a month, save my strength and wait for a better job. But I still have uncontrollable worries, even my menstruation is a few days late.

After two days of anxiety, I began to feel that I couldn't go on like this. Even if I don't have a job for the time being, I should be prepared for the opportunity that may come at any time, so I began to sort out the interview questions while reading a book. Coincidentally, at that time, I recommended a book "Your efforts should be worthy of your ambitions" on WeChat reading.

This book is an inspirational book, and the sentence that impressed me the most is "Only by insisting on doing one thing to the extreme and becoming a person with a soul can you choose a more free lifestyle." This book is especially suitable for people who are at a low ebb. Sometimes, the world collapses, and only literature is the last umbrella.

When reading this book, I think that everyone will encounter setbacks and be depressed. Just because opportunity doesn't favor you for a while doesn't mean it won't favor you all the time. The most regrettable thing is not that you never got the opportunity, but that you had to give up because you were unprepared when the opportunity came.

This is especially true for people in the workplace. The competition for the same position is so fierce. A slightly larger company recruits one person for each position, interviews at least 10, and screens at least 100 resumes. If you don't work hard, many people want this opportunity. And opportunities are never given to those who are prepared. Struggle is what people in the workplace do every day. Only making progress every day is the most stable life.

A few days ago, the thank-you part of a doctoral thesis of the Chinese Academy of Sciences became popular, commenting that he was a modern version of "Preface to Send Dongyang Ma Sheng". Indeed, how can poor children get out of the mountains without experiencing hardships unimaginable to ordinary people? How is it possible to be admitted to the Chinese Academy of Sciences and finally go to Tencent to take office?

The thank-you part of Dr. Huang's thesis

Do you still remember your dream? There is another sentence in the book that I can't calm down for a long time after reading it-"We can be polished, but we can't become what we didn't like at the beginning, and we can't forget the dream of making ourselves better."

"This may really be what a writer can write," I thought helplessly. Once upon a time, we all had dreams, but not everyone was so lucky to regard dreams as a lifelong career. Many ordinary people's jobs have nothing to do with their dreams, or even don't like them. Just like when I was a child, I liked painting and wanted to learn art. My dream is to be a maverick painter like Van Gogh. But at that time, studying art was a last resort for children with poor grades in the eyes of my parents, not a serious major.

Dreams and reality are often opposites.

Later, the university chose a major, consulted relatives, and chose a computer major with good employment. In fact, I also like this major and the career I chose later. However, it can't be called "dream" anyway.

Dreams are called dreams because they can drive you to pursue them constantly. For example, although I didn't major in fine arts at school, I took an art class at my own expense after I went to work to make money, and I used my off-duty time to complete my self-study in sketching, watercolor and gouache. Until now, I still insist on drawing one every week, for nothing else. Just because I am happy and calm when painting, I am immersed in my own world, and I feel a sense of accomplishment every time I finish painting.

van gogh

Do you remember what your childhood dream was? Let's cherish the past and look forward to the future.

Life can't be repeated. Reading is everyone's only fair chance. I often think, if I had my life over, would I do better than I do now? I don't know and no one can know the answer, because the meaning of life is uncertainty. I have lived for more than 20 years now, and I have many regrets and many things to be proud of. But what I never regret is receiving education and falling in love with reading.

Every book you read and every sentence you read actually affects one choice after another in your life.

If you can read some books before adulthood, that is, when you are a teenager, you can really avoid taking many detours.

There are many injustices in life, but literature and books are fair to everyone.