In the latest media reports, Zhang Baoren, the son of Zhang Yuhuan, stressed in an exclusive interview with the media that after his father's return, his mother was indeed highly concerned by public opinion. When asked about his mother, Zhang Baoren said, "She is great" and stressed that no matter what others say about her, in his mind, she deserves all kinds of words, such as "American past".
Of course, Zhang Baoren's expression is unambiguous. When facing the media, he bluntly said: "I feel my conscience. If I am a woman, I have two children, one is three years old and the other is four years old. I must work and provide them with education. I asked myself, I really don't have this ability. " To be honest, this response is the "most grounded one" since the media public opinion focused on Song Xiaoniu.
In a sense, the media initially paid attention to Song Xiaonv, and more focused on bridging Zhang Yuhuan's "innocent return", so the "arrogant ex-wife" was quickly shaped and widely spread. However, with the continuous release of information increment, the "sequela" of excessive media opinion can't be hidden after all. In this process, Song Xiaonv just played normally, but she still couldn't escape the fate of being reviled by media public opinion.
This is a daily - happened thing. The "party" didn't do anything, just because the media public opinion said a few more words, the "party" will suffer from the capriciousness of public opinion. This dilemma is almost incurable in our time. Many times, it is not a question of how much information is increased, but when the information is not solid, media reports rashly enter the public's sight. However, as far as "onlookers" are concerned, nine times out of ten, it is the one who does not distinguish between true and false.
As a result, people have followed suit, and their emotions are like knives, cutting and cutting, just for fun. Unfortunately, the "parties" will never know what they have done wrong, and no matter how they defend themselves, the response will always be "no". Therefore, just looking at the trend of public opinion of "Song Xiaoniu" reflects the true face of current media public opinion: "I just want to do something".
To a certain extent, Zhang Baoren's evaluation of his mother should be no problem. Because, as far as Song Xiaonv is concerned, the situation at that time was "being a mother and a father". Put aside the world's righteousness for the time being. Only when the "criminal's wife" walks in the society with her two sons can we encounter great resistance. The bitterness and warmth of this may be that the label "proud ex-wife" can't be summarized at all.
I have to admit that the media's deconstruction of Song Xiaonv can only stay in the grand narrative forever, but back to the concrete reality, even if the reporter stays in the Zhangjia Courtyard for several months, he may not be able to see the real "Zhangjia". Because the "public opinion baptism" experienced by Song Xiaonv is enough to make it difficult for the "Zhang family" to speak naturally in front of the media.
In this way, the later the media reports, the more standardized it may become. However, when the interview becomes seamless, it means that the nuances of human nature are difficult to capture. Therefore, it is understandable why Song Xiaonv has never had a more touching response after experiencing the highlight moment of "I just want to hug".
In addition, the media's evaluation of Song Xiaonv, to a certain extent, has gone beyond the scope of common sense, and even a little unreasonable. Zhang Baoren's evaluation of his mother is based on his own feelings and echoes the facts with facts. As for what kind of person Song Xiaonv is, under the basic moral framework, we really shouldn't force others to do it.
You know, Song Xiaonv doesn't have to be worthy of public morality, as long as she is worthy of her own conscience. Therefore, as long as her two sons and her ex-husband Zhang Yuhuan recognize her, other people's attitudes can be ignored. Because, in the 27 years in prison, the biggest victim of the "Zhang family" is "Song Xiaonv", which should be an indisputable fact.
As Song Xiaonv said, she was forced to choose to remarry. But there are still many feminists who emphasize that she doesn't need to emphasize this process. The implication is that remarriage is a normal operation. But in fact, when discussing specific issues, we should not only consider the old and new concepts, but also understand the beauty of human nature under the corresponding concepts.
At the same time, the collapse of the "proud ex-wife" is actually a good thing, and the reconstruction of the "great mother" may be the most deserved evaluation of Song Xiaonv. Many times, in our family concept, the "staying together" between husband and wife is always regarded as the standard, which leads to the feelings of the "parties" being often ignored. The so-called moral aura is the scale defined by secular cognition.
Therefore, morality dissolves human nature, and you can't say it if you have pain. However, if we really want to save the tragedy of "Zhang Yuhuan", we must find out who is the "victim" of this tragedy. What kind of evaluation do they need? We can imagine Song Xiaonv's reaction to Zhang Yuhuan's return to China as various versions. However, looking back on the real situation of Song Xiaonv in the past 27 years, perhaps only "great motherhood" has always been strong.
Even, from the perspective of Song Xiaonv's right "worthy", she can bring up her two sons, which is already the biggest contributor to the "Zhang family". Let's go back to Song Xiaonv's evaluation system. It's better to be less open and more private. Because, only in this way can we get in touch with the right and wrong of human nature to the maximum extent and see more humble and nervous families.