Only when parents communicate with their children on an equal footing can they build a good family and cultivate excellent children.
Hui Hui is in Grade Two. In the eyes of his parents, he is an independent and sensible child. In the eyes of teachers and classmates, he is an excellent student, excellent in all aspects, with a good personality, love to laugh, cheerful, confident and excellent moral character. It seems to be called "other people's children."
What kind of family does such an excellent child come from? Hui Hui's parents are intellectuals. I usually like reading. Have unique ideas and methods for parenting.
They are tolerant and open-minded, understand children's demands, communicate with Hui Hui on an equal footing at ordinary times, and rarely order or force Hui Hui to do anything. They always respect their children. Only when parents communicate with their children on an equal footing can they build a good family and cultivate excellent children.
What are the benefits of equal communication between parents and children?
Respecting children's personality will make them independent and confident.
When parents and children communicate equally, children will feel respected and gradually discover their importance. Then children will gradually feel valuable. This sense of value can help children build up enough self-confidence, make them feel that they are useful people, and gradually cultivate a lot of abilities.
Hui Hui in the article is such a child. In the good education and equal communication of her parents, she gradually became self-possessed, faced herself, found her own value and became independent. She always thinks that she is as important as her parents in the family and works hard for the family as her parents in life.
They are tolerant and open-minded, understand children's demands, communicate with Hui Hui on an equal footing at ordinary times, and rarely order or force Hui Hui to do anything. They always respect their children.
Only when parents communicate with their children on an equal footing can they build a good family and cultivate excellent children.