Don't flinch when you encounter suffering. Temporary confusion is not terrible. There are people in the world who have never been completely abandoned by fate, just some people who are bound by fate and blindfolded. Many people's lives cannot be smooth sailing, and it is inevitable that they will always encounter some bumps and setbacks of different sizes. The key is how to face the difficulties.
People who are prepared will regard ups and downs as the seasoning of life, so that they will feel that the ups and downs of life are also interesting; Strong people can regard setbacks as a kind of rare and precious wealth, so they will feel that a frustrated life also has unique and special value. In the face of confusion and helplessness, we should learn to laugh off the setbacks in life and let the complicated life illuminate our life path.
To escape confusion and helplessness, you must not be too proud, because you are not qualified and have no capital, and your face is worthless. I am too proud now, especially in the future. If you don't care about face now, you will have a lot of face in the future.
Everything starts from scratch, and the journey of life has to start from humble beginnings, doomed to bear those cold eyes and neglect from people. Don't be trapped in poverty and humbleness all your life because of Zhang Zhengui's face. Tell yourself that it is not shameful to lower your head for the time being, but it is valuable to raise your head for a long time in the future.
Confused and helpless, who do you want to help? I didn't find the right person, but I talked too much. If you repeat what you have done every day, you will only get what you have. If you are rich, you will be safe. If you don't make progress, you will be safe when you come. Another way and wisdom to observe the world when bored. The problem now is that the Internet has blocked boredom and many of its benefits, and filled up the time when you are confused and helpless.
How can you see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain? Without fragility and ups and downs, where can there be glory and pride? No matter how low-key and ordinary life, there will be wonderful. There are ups and downs in a person's life. It will not be like the rising sun forever, nor will it be miserable forever.
The ups and downs of life are repeated, which is a test for a person. Therefore, those who float on it need not be proud; Those who sink to the bottom need not be pessimistic. We should be honest and modest, optimistic and enterprising, and go forward bravely. In the face of difficulties and obstacles in real life, I am proud of the changing situation, and there is a rising sun in my heart, which is bright in both cold and warm, as clean as ever, as calm as water, with no regrets, adjusting my mentality and adapting to the environment like a duck to water!
Being healthy and happy every day is the most important thing! Be sure to pay attention to your health, all the best and all your wishes come true! Forget the troubles of being confused and helpless, strengthen your confidence and have a safe and good year!
Many people will have a helpless state, only occasionally. For example, difficulties and setbacks in work and life, failure in doing something, depression, etc., can easily lead to a state of weakness and helplessness.
But this depression and confusion will pass for a while, and everything will soon return to the established track. But if you are always at a loss and helpless, then the problem is big, and you need to analyze whether there are psychological and case problems; Whether the direction and goal of struggle are too high or deviated; Is it lack of action, thinking too much and doing too little? Is it too idle? ……
In a word, being confused and helpless is a bad state and a smog of life. Try to drive out, make yourself full of positive energy at all times, and let one meter of sunshine shine into your life forever.
The suggestions are as follows:
1, try to keep yourself busy, set a practical goal, and go on step by step. When busyness takes over life, there is no place for other bad emotions.
2. Read more books. When we immerse ourselves in a book, feel the beauty of reading, or go to see some biographies of celebrities, you will find that your confusion is simply a waste of life. You haven't moved yet, so do something. This experience is nothing, the secret of success is always to fall to 100 times, 10 1 times and get up again!
3, running, fitness. Anyone who runs regularly knows that there is a relaxation period at the beginning of running. In order to improve this state, the brain will mobilize all organs to cooperate. During this period, people will feel tired. When they overcome this stage and run 3-4 kilometers, they will feel relaxed and don't want to stop. The more comfortable, the more comfortable.
This is a process that needs to constantly overcome yourself. When you constantly overcome yourself and become a strong person in life, you will gain full confidence and vitality, and the best way is to keep running and keeping fit. A month later, you will find that you are completely different from now, full of energy and confidence. I can assure you. Let's start trying.
The following methods are also often used by me, and the effect is good, such as car washing. When I am in a bad mood, I will go to a car wash shop in the suburbs to wash my car. I'm usually a little lazy. When I got into a brand-new car a few minutes later, my bad mood seemed to be washed away and everything was fine.
Also, tidy up the room and give up properly. Don't want to go out when you are confused, stay at home, find something to do and tidy up the mess. Some clothes that haven't been worn for years have been donated. When you give up things that are occupied but useless to yourself, it's like losing a bad mood. What can make you feel better than a clean and tidy room?
Also, find a good friend to have an unscrupulous party and release the negative energy suppressed in your heart. There are many ways. In short, don't let bad emotions erode your life, and don't lie like a dead fish. You should take action to get yourself out of these lows.
What should I do if I am always confused and helpless? Any good suggestions?
First of all, let's analyze "confusion and helplessness". Confused because I can't see the direction of progress clearly, but helpless because there is no reference around me to learn from and find the right direction. Just like a person entering a foggy sea, there are clouds everywhere, no trees and no mountains. In this case, there are only two ways. One is to wait for the fog to clear, and then come a thousand miles. Second, if you walk in one direction, you will eventually find a road sign, or the fog will disperse when you walk. So "confusion and helplessness" is temporary, and things always change and develop.
Therefore, when you are confused and helpless, you might as well study quietly, exercise, improve your professional skills and wait for the opportunity. Therefore, fortunately, people who are prepared, the weak can only envy the good life of others and sigh that they are born at an untimely time.
Confused people, mostly because they have no ambition, muddle along, have no ambition and lose the goal of progress. I don't know what to do to bring them good luck. What are the consequences of turning around from time to time? My mind is full of question marks? I'm not confused.
Therefore, to eradicate confusion, we must first have a small goal and then work hard for it. When it comes true, we should celebrate it and have fun for a while, but we should not be intoxicated. In order not to be confused, we must set another goal. Stopping is a sign of confusion. Life is sublimated in pursuit, brilliant in progress and happy in happiness!
In today's era of rapid development, we often feel helpless and confused between various small goals and reality in our daily work and life, even when facing the choice of marriage and love.
The so-called ideal is full and the reality is skinny. For various reasons, we are most likely to feel helpless and confused between ideal and reality.
Such helplessness and confusion show that our goals are still unclear, our hearts are not strong enough, our determination is still lacking, and our ability can't support our ambitions.
Therefore, to get out of confusion and helplessness, we need to adjust our self-goals, forge our self-abilities, strengthen our self-confidence, maintain enough determination and belief, and not be afraid of clouds to cover our eyes. Only in this way can we have full passion and motivation, and at the crossroads of work life and love, we are not confused or helpless, and make unremitting efforts for the work life we yearn for.
Because, a good life is a struggle!
Why are you confused?
The so-called confusion means not knowing what you should do, what you want to do, what your goals and future are.
Although I don't know this, I always want to do something from my heart and tell myself what to do so that I won't be afraid all day.
Why is it so helpless?
The so-called helplessness, to put it bluntly, is that there is no help from others. In fact, what I'm thinking is: Why didn't anyone help me out of my present state?
Clear up the confusion and helplessness, then let's solve how to alleviate such emotions. Or how to get out of this dilemma.
Then let's solve the "helplessness" first.
Because after all, all the problems we encounter have to be "self-help" rather than "help others"
You may often hear that everything depends on yourself, and only you can live on your own.
However, something really happened, but it didn't work.
Why?
Because most people encounter things, he simply doesn't realize that his inner voice is that I have no ability to get out of trouble and solve problems, and I need help. Or habitually think of others to help, but never think that these things can only help themselves.
So, if you always feel helpless, tell yourself that everything depends on yourself, and no one can help yourself. If you can't do it once, do it twice. If you can't do it twice, do it ten times until this idea is engraved in your mind and becomes your own behavior habit.
When something happens to you, your first reaction is, what should I do? How can I save myself? Even if you succeed, you will never feel helpless at that time.
And then you lost it?
Now we have a confused problem.
What was the first reaction?
What can I do to save myself?
Of course you don't know what you should do, otherwise you wouldn't be confused or come here to ask this question.
However, it must be remembered that it is up to you to get out of trouble.
You are confused because you don't know what you are doing, but you want to do something. You have no goal, but you want to have one.
So there is a contradiction, and then there is your current confusion.
So how to solve it?
Remove one side first.
Since I don't know what to do now, I will accept the state that I don't know what to do now and accept the state that I have no goal.
Accept my present state from the bottom of my heart, then the shield of contradiction will already be displayed, and naturally there will be no contradiction.
What's next?
If you continue to be confused, let alone a day or two, a month or two, or even a few years, you may not be able to get out of the predicament.
So, I'm going to spend a month doing something seriously now. A month is insignificant for the next few years, right?
Do what?
Exercise yourself once a day, not too much for half an hour. Do it at a fixed time every day, run if you want, leave if you want, exercise if you want, whatever. The key is to do it every day.
Read a few pages a day, not too many, fifty pages. In addition to virtual martial arts love novels, any book published normally can be read.
Write yourself a summary of today every day. You don't have to write too much or force yourself. The key is to write as much as possible.
What do you do the rest of the time?
Do a good job now. Pay attention to my language. I am serious. It's worse than before.
What do you still have time to do?
Do whatever you want. Want to sleep, want to be in a daze, want to watch a movie, whatever.
Not long, just a month. I believe we can do it.
We'll talk in a month. I believe you won't have such troubles again.
It's done.
First of all, why should I be confused? Can't understand yourself and the world? Are you disappointed in your life or yourself?
Whatever it is, it's not as bad as hell. If you can't get over it, go to a nearby hospital to see how many patients there are and see what expressions the patients' families have.
If you can't get over it, go for a walk in the park and see the 70-year-old man. If you were asked to exchange with them, would you?
So, cherish what you have now, be grateful that you have a healthy body, do what you like when you are not old, and let it go with the wind when you are confused! The most important thing is that life goes on. How can there be a difference between rich and poor? Everyone is a lifetime, and it is most important to be happy.
Confusion is normal. Know yourself clearly, don't do things you can't bear, and confusion will gradually leave you.
When you are confused. Let yourself calm down and think about what you are confused about.
Then talk to your trusted friends, cry if you want, don't suppress yourself, say it out loud and cry, and you will be happy.
Tell all the confusion and confusion to friends, or to parents, find out the problem and solve it, and the confusion and confusion will no longer exist.
Always confused and helpless, it's time to adjust your mentality. Don't always think of one thing, change your mind, think of something simple and happy, and let go of the difficult things first.
There is a saying: you can't find a place to get it, you can get it without effort. There is another sentence: another spring is coming! Some things will naturally resolve after a long time, and time is the best medicine. Don't always immerse yourself in your helplessness, there will always be a road, and things will always be solved one day.
I don't know what experience you have, because of what confusion. . Normal people around you are getting rich silently. . Maybe you don't realize it, maybe you ignore the struggle of others. Just like dreaming, I am confused and muddle along. . Suddenly one day, you realize that others are both houses and cars, and they have been upgraded. I'm afraid I feel bad, envious and jealous. . Think back to what others were doing when they struggled to take off, even sleepwalking. . Doing what you can down-to-earth and sticking to it is the only way to succeed. I wouldn't be confused. .