If you want a long-term relationship, being together is more than just making each other happy. The initial appearance of love is to make the other person feel happy, but after the passionate period, it is the real test for two people.
Therefore, we must first understand what is the most important thing for two people to be together. I understand the following three points, it is difficult for you to separate.
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Hu Bin and He Wanting fell in love for four years. Four years is long and short, but for girls, they have also paid precious youth.
They have just stepped into social work, ignorant and diligent. Hu Bin always works overtime until late at home, exhausted, and He Wanting takes good care of her. Every night, she waits for him to come back before going to bed.
Suddenly one night, He Wanting's best friend called her and said that she had seen Hu Bin in the bar. He Wanting's heartbeat suddenly stopped, and suddenly there was a trace of fear and anxiety. She restrained this feeling at once. She chose to believe that she felt the affection between them in the past four years, and told her tacitly that Hu Bin was not such a person.
So, when Hu Bin came back in the evening, he thought about it without saying a word. Hu Bin also complained that it was really strange that the client chose the place of negotiation in the bar this time, and the only anxiety left in his heart vanished immediately.
When two people are together, the most important thing is trust. I am most afraid of misunderstanding between them. If two people who clearly love each other are separated by a little misunderstanding, it will be their greatest regret in life.
I believe that the emotional foundation of two people is always based on mutual trust, and feelings without trust are like ruins, which will collapse in an instant.
2. Encourage each other and make progress together
Yang Shuang and Huang Yingying are two people who came all the way from college. When I first entered the university, I appreciated each other and naturally made progress together.
They agreed to get this year's scholarship together, so they went to the library together, participated in competitions and activities together, and encouraged each other along the way. After four years in college, they got a scholarship for four years together. In their senior year, they made an appointment to take the postgraduate entrance examination and were admitted to a school. Their joint efforts enabled them to do it.
At school, they took various certificates together, and when they left school, they took diving certificates and rock climbing certificates. In short, they progress together, grow together and become the best themselves and the most beautiful people in each other's eyes.
In feelings, two people just want to help each other, encourage each other and make themselves and each other better, so that when two people are together, one plus one is greater than two.
Two people can't do one thing together without each other. When two people achieve each other, they will thank each other for their efforts, and the feelings along the way will be more unforgettable and the relationship between the two people will be closer.
3. Mutual understanding and tolerance
Zhou and Wang Xu are together, and they get along well. Zhou was spoiled by his parents since he was a child, and he always felt childish. Then Wang Xu spoiled her like a big brother.
For Zhou's small temper, Wang Xu also tolerated her small temper and made her a happy girl forever. Every time Zhou quarrels and loses her temper, Wang Xu will coax her. She will never be wronged or disappointed.
Two people get along to make up for each other. No one is born perfect, and no two people are born right. Being together means that two people understand and tolerate each other, tolerate each other's temper and understand each other's shortcomings, so that the relationship will last longer.
Just like potatoes and tomatoes, they obviously don't belong to the same world, but they can become French fries and ketchup and become a perfect couple. Not everyone is born right, it depends on whether the other person is willing to turn into French fries or ketchup for you. Only by understanding each other can you become the person they need.