At the beginning of the year, the first hit drama "My Grandma" was an instant hit.

Originally, it was a commercial war movie, but as a result, many netizens began to beat candy from Guo Qilin and Yi Song online.

Under the stage, the two released red "wedding invitations" in their respective Weibo, announcing "wedding news".

In the play, two people are also sweet:

If the wife is afraid, lie on the floor and watch her, and put her to sleep online!

My wife was framed and the new store could not be opened. Guo Qilin waved his hand and held a "knife knife" campaign on the spot, which was a flash in the pan.

And Yi Song also not melodramatic, determine their own mind, take the initiative to kiss up.

Guo Qilin went to see a "big shot" friend. Yi Song mistakenly thought that someone was going to embarrass him, so he rushed at the Prime Minister with a knife.

The scene was once very embarrassing and full of joy.

According to this plot, the ending must be happy.

While many girls in Deyun Society show their menstrual smiles, there are also some discordant comments below: there will be such a happy ending in TV dramas, and in real life, two people with economic disparity will not be happy.

There is no other reason. In the TV series, Yining, played by Guo Qilin, is a door-to-door son-in-law who married a rich family in order to pay off her debts.

Civilian origin, carrying a bag for adoption.

However, Yi Song is the only daughter of Su Jiabuzhuang in Jiangning, and finally she is favored by Buzhuang.

According to netizens, the two are typical improper households.

I never deny the importance of being suitable for marriage, but "suitable for marriage" is really just external conditions such as income and social status:

You are the head of Sujiabu Village, so he must be the only son of Wujiabu Village? Your family has a hundred acres of fertile land, and his family has at least 80 acres?

This is not a marriage, this is a deal.

Anyone who has seen this play knows that Wu, the only son of Wujiabuzhuang, is a conceited and narrow-minded villain. How can such a person be worthy of Yi Song?

The spirit can't resonate, even if it is right, it is still a feeling of fruitless ending.

In contrast, Guo Qilin and Yi Song are really suitable:

Yi Song is eccentric, and he didn't like to obey the rules since he was a child. She insisted on learning to dye cloth and doing business. In a society where men are superior to women, everyone scolds her, and only Guo Qilin supports her to make a career.

Guo Qilin is not a soft meal. He knows all kinds of business skills: he successfully used knives, express logistics and other business means to resolve the crisis again and again.

They were born in different families, but they appreciate each other and achieve each other.

In marriage, the real match of three views is the collision of souls.

Remember, when choosing a partner, you must choose a partner with the same three views. Only when two people tolerate and understand each other can you go on.

Otherwise, marriage will only face unbalanced, disorderly and even irreparable consequences.

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There is no need to be strong because the three views are different.

In 2020, the phrase "Let's climb the mountain" made many people tremble.

Zhang Dongsheng, played by Qin Hao in the TV series "Hidden Corner", was successfully promoted to another childhood nightmare in netizens' hearts because she pushed her parents-in-law off a cliff and poisoned her derailed wife.

Some netizens sympathize with him. From a teacher to a murderer, his blackening is only closely related to his improper marriage.

He was born in the countryside, and his wife is a rich girl with five suites.

Therefore, his wife and family ignored and laughed at him.

If it is really because of his family background, why did his wife resist all pressure and marry him as poor as a church mouse?

Looking at the essence through the phenomenon, the reason for their marriage failure has never been material inequality, but inequality in three views:

Zhang Dongsheng is extremely frugal in material aspects, and pursues cost performance when buying things; My wife pursues exquisiteness and never looks at the price when shopping. Two people had a quarrel about it.

Zhang Dongsheng is introverted, doesn't like socializing, and puts family first. Although he is quite talented in mathematics, he is willing to stay in the Children's Palace as a substitute teacher.

And his wife pursued a career and was already a famous local doctor at a young age.

There is a saying in Jane Eyre: "Love is a game, and we must always be evenly matched to be together for a long time. Because too strong opponents are tired, too weak opponents are boring. "

In the end, the hard-working wife looked down on her husband who was content with the status quo and chose to cheat and divorce her husband.

If Zhang Dongsheng hadn't killed his wife's family, I think the best ending for a couple with different views might be "not disturbing each other".

Gillian and Lai publicly showed their love when they got married: "I have never met anyone who cares so much about me, so good."

However, after all, the wide gap brings fatigue and boredom.

He doesn't understand why a star-studded luxury wedding should be held. She can't stand spending her money on a bag, but also depends on her husband's face.

In less than a year, the two chose to divorce.

Because from the beginning, their marriage balance was tilted:

Some people are condescending because of marriage, while others are uneasy because of climbing.

Different opinions and living habits, they argued endlessly and looked at each other in disgust.

Eventually move towards separation.

I think, if Zhang Dongsheng chose direct blog at that time, instead of living by his wife, he had achieved something in his career, which was in line with his wife's three views;

If Lai Guohong can understand his wife more, respect and tolerate her living habits;

Their marriage may have another result.

In marriage, spiritual fitness is always more important than material fitness.

Life is too long, and it must be those couples who can come to the end.

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The real match is a spiritual match.

On New Year's Day, Guo Jingjing and Huo, the "fairy tale lovers", sprinkled sugar again.

On the social platform, Huo shared the videos of their husband and wife preparing for the Spring Festival: hanging red lanterns, posting blessings and posting Spring Festival couplets. They smiled and sang to welcome the arrival of the Spring Festival.

In fact, they caused a lot of criticism when they first got together.

One is a girl from a small place, and the other is the grandson of Hong Kong tycoon Henry Fok.

No one values their feelings.

But they hit those people in the face with eight years of happiness and love.

It is often said that once you enter a giant, you will be bound by rules and become a fertility machine.

However, Guo Jingjing's life in the giants is quite car-scrapping:

During the Spring Festival, the Huo family used to eat traditional foods such as rice cakes and radish cakes, but because she liked jiaozi, the whole family followed Guo Jingjing to eat jiaozi.

If you stay in Hong Kong on the second day, you must go back to Baoding to spend the New Year with your parents.

Guo Jingjing also has her own way of educating her children: running back and forth with her children in Baoding, Hong Kong, and feeling a different atmosphere for the New Year.

Even my father-in-law said respectfully: (children's education) Jingjing has the final say.

Compared with other rich daughters-in-law, her in-laws respect her and her husband loves her, Guo Jingjing is really a clean stream.

If a good marriage is the harmony of souls, then Guo Jingjing and Huo are sweet because they are suitable for each other.

Note that the "matching" here is not the competition of family financial resources, but the collision of two people's spirits and three views.

Needless to say, Huo lives in a rich and powerful family, without the idleness and unprofessional temperament of a rich and powerful constantly chauffeured family. On the contrary, he is academically gifted and young.

And Guo Jingjing is not bad.

When we first got together, someone asked me if I cared if the door was wrong. At that time, Guo Jingjing domineering responded:

"He is rich and I am the champion."

"There are many giants, and there is only one world champion."

When they first got together, Guo Jingjing and Huo made a three-chapter agreement: "Falling in love can't take up training time, can't go to the training ground to see her, and can't get married before retiring."

She has her own opinions about everything and always knows what she is doing and wants.

Even after I faded out of the championship, I never stopped learning, learning languages, learning business administration and constantly enriching myself.

She is enthusiastic about public welfare, and the Hebei epidemic broke out. The daughter of Hebei, who is far away from Hong Kong, entrusted the Foundation to donate epidemic prevention materials to Hebei for the first time.

As Guo Jingjing said: What kind of person you want to marry, you must send yourself to what height.

Although she was not born in a rich family, she made herself a "rich boy".

The best love I can think of is to help each other in the same boat, climb the peak hand in hand in prosperity, depend on each other in adversity, and hold each other's hands tightly when white-haired.

However, the couples who can really go hand in hand to the end are all in line with the three views.

If you love each other because of the five senses and get along with each other because of the three views.

Only people with the same world outlook can support each other and grow together!