I never dare to express my opinion to a specific person. Even if I see a beautiful woman's breakfast is unhealthy, I dare not say it directly, but I will tighten my circle of friends and explain clearly what a healthy breakfast looks like. Although I often express my views on public figures and events, I think I have maintained enough courtesy and respect for specific ordinary individuals. I also think this is the basic etiquette of friends circle.
I am a superficial person. I like beautiful clothes, like nice words, and like to kiss up to each other. Husband is at home, and we have been kissing each other's ass. The purpose of my life is to be happy without affecting my freedom.
But why do people always judge me?
Yesterday, when I saw a multiple-choice question to convince a cheating friend, I sent a circle of friends, saying that all my answers were pretending not to know. I really think this is someone else's private affair, not mine, and it won't affect our friendship. I even think cheating is human nature. Some people have great resistance, and some people don't have to accept moral judgment without resistance. Cheating doesn't cost me a dime. He only needs to explain and be responsible to his partner. I'm glad that many people have the same answers as me. Of course, many people have different answers, and I totally accept them. Views. People's infidelity does not affect my making friends with others, nor does the dispute of opinions.
But one person said I had nothing to do. I didn't reply. But I'm angry. No matter how he responds to this, it is his own face-don't you judge that I am also idle? More importantly, it's none of your business whether I'm idle or not. Why do you care about me? Who are you? Some people may say that I make a mountain out of a molehill, but this is just a reply. But I hate people judging me. If you don't agree with my point of view, I will definitely reply seriously. But when you personally evaluate me, I am angry, but sometimes I am too timid to speak directly. Hong Kong Zhen, the information displayed in the circle of friends is very limited, and you can't fully understand the complicated people behind you through the circle of friends. People often come to me to talk about their troubles. If he doesn't talk, his circle of friends gives me the feeling that he is particularly happy and harmonious, but it is not. He lives very hard and tired. Most of us show ourselves what we want. Therefore, it is not only impolite but also immoral to judge the specific people behind the circle of friends at will.
So let's just say that I don't accept anything except my personal evaluation of "Meimei". Just let me indulge in the illusion of happiness. Of course, you are always welcome to discuss the idea with me.