I still remember that the tutor sounded the alarm for our group at the graduation dinner table that day. It is no longer a project to exercise your ability and study hard in the future work, but to devote 50% of your energy to life, including feelings.

The team members are all women, and the tutor is a senior female architect. I admire her temperament. During the construction period, she always forwarded us articles about female architects on WeChat. When she heard that all of us were single, and even almost all the girls in the class were single, the tutor was shocked.

You should never believe that the person who loves you is on the way.

You mustn't believe that what is yours is yours, and forget it if it isn't yours.

Finally, it is natural for us to express our feelings. We don't think we need boys. When our professional girls carry drawing boards in the rain, wear masks and cut wood with a cutting machine, and draw on the ground, boys just watch.

But who said no, he didn't even say hello to hot water when he wanted to catch a picture during menstruation. When he was in danger and fear, he was laughed at for his flustered narrative. What is this woman afraid of? When he stayed up all night and couldn't sleep all night, he really wanted someone to help him paint, which turned into thinking. After passing by, he can help himself.

The teacher smiled and answered our complaints, saying that it was different. Boys in school don't understand social life. You just need to invest 50% of your energy in architecture in the future. Women who do well in all walks of life, because that 50% have done their best. Besides, sometimes it's not that you don't need it, but that you haven't met someone who makes you tempted.

But teacher, I just don't have a favorite person now, so I think I can do it alone, and it's hard to have one more person.

Because you are not good enough to make your heart beat, improve yourself first, then your heart beat, and finally attract that person, don't chase.

? The whole table suddenly realized and looked at each other. Everything is very inspirational, but I can't start.

2. What do your friends say?

? I have a friend who lives with me now, a friend from childhood to adulthood, a typical Virgo.

Until some time ago, she told me that there was a boy with the same interests who wanted to come to Chengdu together.

I feel full of joy. Well, my friend is going to take off the bill, too. This aura is contagious. It seems that I will soon.

Until tonight, she told me that she finally told the boy that if she had known him earlier, she would have confessed, and finally the greetings on both sides of the branch from morning till night became a thing of the past.

You know, the emotional signs that a Virgo can feel may have started a love story to outsiders.

Unfortunately, in the end, I used my friends and boyfriends to help me move, and my plan to introduce boys to me from my friends and boyfriends also died.

She complained that her age and hobbies matched well. It is rare to tell me so openly that both of them have a good impression on each other.

What constellation?

Taurus.

No wonder, only you virgins can get the advantages of Taurus as a passive creature. Don't take the initiative. Call me. I didn't know the confession until I left.

Well ... in your dreams. Mine is mine after all. If it's not mine, it's not me.

3. Isn't it the same?

Shit!

No matter the architectural circle of the university, the circle of friends in life, or the circle of family brothers and sisters, why are everyone single? Don't tell me that birds of a feather flock together, because what I hear most is to let nature take its course.

People who told me to put my resume away, even people who saw typos, people who asked me to write about my internship experience, people who kept sending me different positions, and people who told me everything, just let nature take its course.

The other party said something interesting, and I didn't want to reply after reading it. In fact, I am very interested in you, but the news has been stagnant for several days. Forget it.

I don't have a girlfriend, and I am surrounded by bearded and stingy men. Come on, we are too busy to care.

I'm living well alone now. Why am I looking for someone (in fact, you can't find it if you want to)?

Yes, there is nothing wrong with it. All the above situations come from examples.

Don't say that because that person doesn't like you enough, because that person doesn't care about you, so he won't reply to you. He doesn't look at each other's problems at all. Sometimes it may just be because we are lazy.

I was so lazy that I thought once or twice that I was indifferent and the other party could continue to be enthusiastic;

I am too lazy to work and have no strength to say good night;

I'm too lazy. I don't think you should look at me outside. I am such an interesting person at heart.

I'm sorry, I only see your loveless, tired and indifferent personality. Yes, everyone around me is like this.

4. Those things in those years

? How nice the boy I introduced you to is. He is now admitted to the graduate school, and his annual salary will be @ # RMB ...................... &;

? Liu Jinger, why haven't you been in love? Aunt told you that the ultimate character of a boy is # RMB ...&; & amp……

? I don't know when my life began to be full of gossip and dog blood. I don't know what went wrong. I lost my previous situation and confidence and began to move towards a fat and ugly road.

? Those who said they would wait until they waited slowly finally faced their college classmates, and they were still together one month before the postgraduate entrance examination, and they couldn't stand it.

? It is said that there will always be people who can get better now because of a review during the postgraduate entrance examination.

? High school girls confessed to boys after self-study in the evening, and then bought a house from high school and lived together in other places.

? If every hero in this place just let nature take its course, ignoring the next sentence, or being less impulsive and more fastidious, there would be no such story as today.

? And after a state is maintained for a long time, there is no impulse and reflection. After being too rational, do we still know how to give?

? It can be said that my university thinks this state is even morbid. There is a kind of communication in human society, and it must have its significance. My friends around the university lack this feature, and they may be ambitious, but they don't want to be responsible for their feelings.

Maybe someone poked me secretly after reading it, so it is necessary to follow that trend, that is, some people practice celibacy, so it is necessary to say so.

There is no right or wrong, but the atmosphere can influence each other. I can say that before I entered this class, everyone still had feelings. As a result, I was brought up again and again by people around me, as if I had to study hard at my normal age, but I didn't learn well.

Even the eldest sister at home said that learning is much easier than falling in love.

But you dare not challenge. There are so many difficult things in life, and feelings are one of them, but you dare not try.

Yes, I dare not try. People introduced by friends will never come back after a few words. The opposite sex invited guests to dinner and excitedly refused. All the touches have become teasing between friends who are very familiar with each other, and intimacy is always a problem.

However, even a busy tutor met her husband online, and the rigorous schoolmaster never missed every holiday with his lover. Those who are beautiful also study well.

Digging into the reason, we are afraid of being responsible. I am afraid of the responsibility behind the story, because we are strict with ourselves, but only want to be strict with each other emotionally.

It is also possible that the inertia of dealing with things is subtly passed on to feelings, so we should start to change our thinking and expand our circle.