Shi Lanya was married twice. The first husband was director Liu Bin, and the second husband was a "sea returnee". They have a son, and after divorce, she lives with him.

In March, 2003, Shi Lanya and Li Youbin became attached to each other for filming "Landscape Map" and began to fall in love.

In 2008, Shi Lanya and Li Youbin's five-year underground love affair became public, and they got married in Haidian District Civil Affairs Bureau.