1. Being together means living together.
Yesterday, the reporter contacted Xiao Yang, who is 26 years old and is currently engaged in sales. Xiao Yang said that she and Zhou Xu had known each other for some time. At that time, because both of them were in other places and had little contact, I felt that neither of them would attach great importance to the other. Later, she often went out to eat, buy food, watch movies and travel with Zhou Xu. "At that time, Xu Zhou also gave her a car, and they often ate and went shopping together." But then both sides found the problem, and Zhou Xu broke up, saying it was to live with Xiao Yang. "She liked me from the beginning and was very kind to me. At that time, I thought that two people would be happy together for a lifetime. " Xiao Yang said that she felt that Zhou Xu couldn't give her the feeling of wanting to go on.
2. Always want more when we are together.
What is your biggest problem now? Zhou Xu: I always want more from her. I always want to buy more things for my life. Besides, I have been in love with her for a long time, and I don't know how to express it. Always want to pay more attention to me. I am very sad and want to say sorry to her. Zhou Xu: Actually, I've always wanted to ask me this question: After that, can you let me know if it was for you? I also know what I should do to make her understand me better.
It is better to learn to communicate than to quarrel with her.
Since Xu Zhou broke up with his ex-girlfriend for two weeks, he didn't communicate with her well, but used scolding or even quarreling to deal with the problem, which easily made his girlfriend feel that he didn't value her and didn't care about her. Once she has a good impression on Mr. Zhou, she will feel that Mr. Zhou doesn't love her so much. Therefore, if he wants to save this relationship, he needs to change the way he used to deal with problems. First of all, two people together for a long time will inevitably have contradictions, which requires Mr. Zhou to deal with them in time, instead of having a big fight with his girlfriend. Secondly, two people together for a long time will naturally have problems and contradictions, but as long as they communicate and solve the problems in time; Third, the two sides can solve any problems through communication. Therefore, in the face of problems and contradictions in Sino-US relations, Zhou Xu also needs to solve them in time.
Should two people cherish each other or should they break up with their present jobs?
Yuan Kun, the office of Chongqing Kunkun Psychological Counselor: Emotionally, both men and women, when breaking up, hope that the other party can really take you to heart and hope that the other party can understand what they have done. However, this relationship also has some things that are not worth cherishing, such as being too strong and traditional between the two. As Mr. Zhou said, although he felt that he had done something wrong, the fact is that he didn't change her at all. Therefore, if you want to save this relationship, you should break up. No matter what reasons the other party gives, their affairs are not for you to decide. If it is because the other party has some habits or temper that are difficult to change in life, then both sides should be considerate and tolerant of each other. You should know that it takes time and feelings for two people to get together, so that they can slowly run in.