Instructor: Qiu Jianwei
Harvest after watching:
1. There are more and more cases of teenagers' psychological problems, and this group should be paid attention to. For adolescent cases, it is suggested that parents should be interviewed every 3-4 times of adolescent treatment (standard, not less), in order to let parents play their parenting role, seize and tolerate children, and grow up with them.
2. For adolescent cases, psychological counselors should collect information and evaluate the child's early upbringing: how emotional the mother was when she was pregnant, how old her parents were when she gave birth, whether it was a natural delivery or caesarean section, whether there was jaundice (psychological trauma caused by separation/separation from her mother), whether breastfeeding, who took care of the child, whether it was easy to take care of the child, whether she had a history of fracture, whether she was easily allergic or sick (physical condition), and whether the child was.
3. Physically sensitive and fragile children are also psychologically sensitive and fragile.
The baby was very anxious when he was born. Wrapping the baby's body can soothe the baby's anxiety about imagining the body falling apart. Baby candle bags and baby cradles can give the baby a certain sense of security, but the greater sense of security comes from the skin care between the mother and the baby, which plays the role of the mother to curb the baby's anxiety.
5. In juvenile cases, counselors tend to take sides, unconsciously favoring children and blaming parents. The supervisor suggested that psychological counselors should always be aware of whether there is anti-empathy, return to a neutral position and empathize with their parents.
6. When the consultant makes a lot of explanation or analysis (rationality) on the case, it is easy to ignore the emotional part, and emotional value is very important in many cases.
7. One of the advantages of novice consultants over senior consultants is that novice consultants are more involved.
8. Children's problems are often influenced by family interaction patterns. In this case, the mother-infant interaction fails, and the early experience has a great influence on the child's anxiety and obsessive personality.