In the last episode of TV series in the name of people, a few years ago, Mr. Chen Yanshi was sitting in front of his son's bed, and his son was hit by a car and turned into a vegetable. He said: "I often think of the scene when you were riding on my neck when I was a child, and now you are lying here." How I wish it was me lying in this bed now, and it was me who was hit by a car. I will do anything to get your life back.
Now even when I think of this episode, I can't help but burst into tears.
Indeed, parents' love for their children is the most sincere thing in the world, and so is children's love for their parents.
Arqie comes from the countryside. He grew up without a father. His mother brought him up by herself, farmed in the countryside in summer and sent Arqie to college by odd jobs in winter, so that Arqie could stay in the city to work and live after graduation, instead of being a farmer all his life like others in the village.
And every time Arqie mentioned her mother, she couldn't help mentioning her hand: "Her hand is the roughest and most stinging one I have ever seen. When I was a child, I felt very painful every time she touched my face, but after college, I missed those hands, missed every gully on them, and missed the warmth on them. "
After Arqie got married, she wanted to take her mother to live in the city, but her mother was worried that she was from the countryside, fearing that her in-laws would feel buried and lose face to her son, so she didn't come at all, saying that she was used to living in the countryside, didn't like tossing and turning, and didn't like living in the city.
So Arqie stopped insisting, thinking that life would be better in the future, and then she took her mother over. When Arqie and his wife Wu Ligang got married, they didn't own a house, but rented a house to get married. Although her family is good, she has not abandoned Zheng's poverty. She knows that Arqie is a capable person, and he will not be poor forever. All he needs is time.
And the fact also proves that Wu Li's idea is correct. With Arqie's cleverness, in just four or five years, Arqie earned 300,000 to 400,000 yuan a year and bought a new house to live in. Arqie also showed his trust in Wu Li in those days. He did not hesitate to help Wu Li's families, big or small.
Not long ago, Arqie's mother suddenly fell ill and was hospitalized. After examination, it was found to be myocardial infarction and Takayasu's arteritis. The situation is very bad. Stents are needed for myocardial infarction, but the Takayasu arteritis doctor said that there are two methods, one is hormone therapy, but the side effects are great, and the other is biological therapy, which has a good effect, but it costs a lot, adding up to almost 800 thousand.
This made Arqie suddenly feel very uneasy. The house has just been bought, and the rest of the money has been used for decoration. He can't afford 800,000 yuan. But if treated conservatively, his mother will suffer great pain and side effects, greatly shortening her life span.
So Zheng thought about it and decided to sell the house and adopt the best treatment plan.
But this house was acquired by Li Wupan for several years, and it was not only the efforts of the husband and wife over the years, but also the common property of the husband and wife, so she never agreed to sell the house in Arqie.
Arqie said to Wu Li, "The house can be earned again in the future, but my mother needs the money now to save her life. Besides, I pay most of the money in this house. I can sell it if I say it. "
However, Wu Li disagreed: "Your mother is over 60 years old, and there must be many problems after she is cured. What will you sell then, so why do you have to choose that expensive treatment plan? "
If you dare to sell the house, I will divorce you. "
Arqie knew that Wu Li just didn't want to cure his mother. In her mind, this family is always more important than her mother. This is the last thing Arqie wants to hear, so Arqie sneered: "Well, whoever pays for the house will take as much as possible, and no one will suffer. Let's divorce. I want to save my mother. "
Do you think Arqie and Wu Li did the right thing?
Some people think that Arqie is too impulsive, so he should be sensible, not to sell his house easily, and not to divorce easily.
But personally, I understand Arqie very well. In the face of parents' life and death, how can there be so much reason? As the saying goes, "when parents are there, home is there." When parents are gone, home is gone. Arqie knows that if she gets sick, it must be her mother who will do whatever it takes to save herself. So now that her mother is ill, she will save her at all costs.
Although money is very important, without it, you can continue to struggle to earn, but without people, there is nothing! So feelings can't be judged by reason!
Wu Li disagreed, only that Arqie and Wu Li were not the same person. In Wu Li's eyes, Arqie's mother has never been regarded as her own mother.
Life is alive, without the support of parents, as an infant child, I can't grow up at all, let alone have my own wife and children!
And every day of life will encounter many difficulties, but we should always weigh which is lighter and which is heavier, and don't do things that will make us regret for a lifetime.
From Wu Li's standpoint, we can know that her mother-in-law is getting old. Even if this disease is cured, other diseases will come back, and it is not cost-effective to use such an expensive treatment.
But think about it from another angle. If this patient was born to Wu Li's mother, would Wu Li still think that the treatment fee of 800,000 yuan is not worth it? Although there is no if in the world, in all fairness, there is no match, only can.
You can't be helpless, otherwise you can't save your mother. In this case, even if your mother dies, it is comfort in your mother's heart and in your own heart.
But if you can save your mother, but you can't because you don't give up the house, then you may have a bad conscience all your life.
In the children's mind, I can save my mother day by day by selling the house, and I can earn it again without a house, but I will suffer for my mother because of the house, which makes me miserable every day.
Therefore, I still support Arqie's divorce. No common goal, no common goal. Take as much money as you have after divorce, so that you can feel at ease.
Life is a once-in-a-lifetime thing for everyone, and in our hearts, parents' lives are sometimes even more important than our own, so don't make wrong choices and don't give up your parents because of money. If you give up, you will give up your heart. People who have no heart will suffer in the mud of regret for the rest of their lives.