The New Year's Day of 202 1 is coming. Talking about New Year's resolutions that day, a colleague said that I hope 202 1 will be an ordinary year ... Yes, after the COVID-19 epidemic, living well has become the New Year's resolutions of more people.

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June 5438 +20201early October, we were still in Hefei. At that time, the situation in Wuhan was not taken seriously, and it was only seen in Weibo, and it was still dubious. I remember a passage I read in Weibo at that time, saying that Wu Hanyou National Institute of Scientific Virology has extraordinary scientific and technological strength, so don't worry, it is generally optimistic in the whole country. Later, after reading some related reports, I realized that Wuhan was in a state of panic, especially the front-line medical staff, who smelled danger.

65438+1October 2 1 (December 27th), our family of three drove back to Shandong from Hefei. Back home, the epidemic situation in Wuhan is getting worse and worse. Throughout the Spring Festival, I didn't go out to pay New Year's greetings or have a family reunion. It is also rare to sit in front of the TV with my parents and watch a Spring Festival Gala. It is said that the ratings of the Spring Festival Evening reached a new high that year. On October 23rd, 65438/kloc-0, Wuhan closed its doors and the whole country was in an uproar. I stayed in my hometown for a few days, 65438+ (the third day of the first month). On June 27th, we received a notice from the company that we would delay going to work. We decided to go back to Hefei as soon as possible for fear that things would change. 65438+ 10 28 (the fourth day of the first month), set off for Hefei. At this time, Wuhan's medical system was on the verge of collapse, and military medical staff went to Wuhan, and then medical staff from all over the country also rushed to Wuhan. During this period, with Kobe Bryant's unexpected death, the muddy water of Wuhan Red Cross, and Fangfang's diary, everything fell into panic and helplessness. So it started in 2020.

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The epidemic did not give people a chance to breathe. In just a few days, confirmed cases appeared in many parts of the country. So, according to the regulations, we began to be locked at home.

Get up in the morning-make breakfast-eat breakfast-make lunch-eat lunch-make dinner-eat dinner. This cycle lasted about a week. Because the community is closed, only one person is allowed in and out at a limited time, and the purchase of daily materials has become a concern. Panic looting once led to the shortage of materials in major supermarkets in Hefei. I remember snapping up flour and grabbing vegetables online at that time ... but this situation did not last long. Later, my father went to the supermarket for shopping regularly every week.

During this period, there is also a kind of material that everyone snapped up because of the epidemic-masks. Disposable medical surgical masks, N95 masks, KN95 masks ... Due to the Spring Festival holiday of workers in mask manufacturing enterprises, the supply of masks is in short supply and the price is soaring. I remember I spent 20 yuan on the Internet to buy a mask for Juzijun. Later, a store sold children's masks, and I hoarded more than 100 at one time. I haven't used them up yet.

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I heard that the epidemic situation in Wuhan is very serious. At one time, many people died because of limited medical resources and lack of timely treatment. The dean of a hospital was infected with COVID-19 and died unfortunately, but his wife was a nurse in this hospital, but she didn't see her husband for the last time ... The writer Fang Fang said that a dust of the times, falling on a person's head, is a mountain.

With the epidemic under control to a certain extent, many enterprises require employees to start working at home. Due to the delay from the normal start date for a period of time, once the project starts, it is like wave after wave, which is not only numerous but also complicated. /kloc-in February of 0/7, after I worked at home for a week, my father started working in the company. Kindergarten didn't start, so I had to take my baby to work at home, and things at work increased instead of decreasing. Take regular online exams organized by the company every day. The more anxious I am about the exam, the other baby will clamor for me to play with him. I want to do some work while he is sleeping at noon every day, but he just doesn't sleep, and then there is a serial phone call from the leader. I don't remember how many times I yelled at my baby during that time, and I collapsed and cried. I looked at the baby's frightened eyes and felt really useless. ...

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Near the end of March, I resigned from my leadership position because I really couldn't stand being with my baby. My baby can't be taken care of well, and neither can I. In April, Eva's father also resigned from the leadership position for some reasons. He worked in that unit for eight years. One day, Eva's father told me that since we both resigned, we might as well go back to our hometown and find a new job.

In fact, we originally planned to go back to our hometown in Shandong, but it is still very difficult to really make this decision. He stayed in Hefei for 8 years and came here after graduation on 20 12. In this city far from home, we walked step by step with our own hands: in 20 14, we paid the down payment of the house with the money saved by our father (the family also supported part of it), got married in 20 15+0.9, and delivered the new house in May 20 16; 2065438+In July 2006, Mr. Orange was born; 20 17 new year's day, moved into a new house; 20 17 bought the first car with a loan, and there were joys and tears along the way.

By 2020, we have lived in our small home in Hefei for three years. There is Hefei Botanical Garden, and the nearby environment is also beautiful. My father and I like it here very much. Because the community is not big, the neighbors know each other and feel very warm. Also because of the talkative characteristics of oranges, the cleaning aunt and the security uncle in the community have become friends with him ... They suddenly said that they would leave, but they are still a little reluctant.

Considering that there are not so many employment opportunities in our town, we began to prepare for the exam. But I'm still in a hurry, because the examination within the county system is already very difficult, and not everyone can get in. Until June, her father's resume for a school received a reply, and the school asked her to prepare for an interview. So, at the end of June, during the Dragon Boat Festival, we went back to our hometown. Who would have thought that we would come back with results?

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Dad successfully passed the interview. In this knowledge-oriented era, education is still a very useful stepping stone. Then, the school asked him to report to the school in early July, and we started our hometown life.

After the work in my hometown was settled, we went back to Hefei in the summer vacation to take care of the house and hurried back. For eight years, we only bid farewell to Hefei in a circle of friends. Manager Chen never came back after he returned to his hometown (considering the epidemic situation, we didn't take him back to Hefei twice). Up to now, he still tells us from time to time that he wants to see his home and his good friends in Hefei ... every time he says this, I feel a little sad.

Compared with the fast-paced working life in Hefei, the first feeling of coming back is that it suddenly slows down. I have time to watch the blue sky and white clouds, listen to cicadas and waves, and everything is so beautiful. But there are also many maladjustments. Before, we were all busy in our own time and space and had no time to communicate. Now at school, we go out together in the morning, go back to the apartment for dinner at noon and cook together at night. The sudden increase of intersection and contradiction will follow. After Eva's father came back, it seemed that he suddenly found a sense of security, and his sedate character turned into arrogance, which I didn't like very much at that time. Later, I thought it was probably because I was so happy when I first returned to my hometown (now he has basically returned to normal mode). There is also acclimatization, which is really funny. Back home, there will be acclimatization. Summer seaside, humid climate, acne on the face; In winter, the cold wind blows hard and the skin begins to peel again. Now, we are used to it.

Most of the new working environment and new colleagues I know are kind and friendly, and of course there are some people who commit jian. In short, where there are people, there are rivers and lakes, and experience is needed. I believe that it is fundamental to do things seriously and make yourself stronger.

Mr orange has made new friends, too. He often gives his good friends some desserts made by his mother, and he often goes to his good friend's house to eat rice without shame ... all the vegetables and fruits he eats at home are grown by his grandparents themselves, which are pure natural and pollution-free. Of course, it will be worse in winter, and he can only eat some cabbage and potatoes, without so many tricks. Mr orange has reached an agreement with my grandfather. Next spring, he will open a small clearing in my grandfather's garden and grow his own vegetables. He comes back every weekend to look after his Caicai.

Speaking of Juzijun, these six months are basically free-range, releasing themselves every day. Now I am in the middle class in the kindergarten of the school. Recently, I fell madly in love with Altman, saying that he wants to be Altman and protect the earth when he grows up. Well, this dream sounds good. I haven't enrolled him in an interest class yet, but I have never stopped reading picture books every day. This has become a habit. I read them before going to bed every day. It is said that reading picture books has a large amount of literacy, which does not seem to be reflected in him. One day, I pointed to a "good" word and asked him, what is this word? He said "woman", and I said, "woman" on the left and "child" on the right. what are you reading? He said "woman" ... well, I gave up reading picture books after that. In the future, he may go to school in his father's old school in this small county, and then go his own way ... Sometimes I think that we are all ordinary people, and Eva will be ordinary people in the future.

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202 1 year has come. Is it appropriate to set up a flag or something at this time node? I want to pick up my left-behind photography, study hard and practice more; Read more books. I have seen a documentary film "But There are Books" before, and I know many amazing people. I should learn from them.

Don't worry about the past and don't be afraid of the future. 202 1, approaching the age of no doubt, is willing to be treated gently by years.

Finally, I hope 202 1 will be an ordinary year, and my family and friends around me will be safe and healthy.

65438+February 28, 2020

Yurushan