1 year, Conan was employed by a real estate company. On the day the training ended, the boss of the company also came. After making a warm speech, the boss turned and took out a stack of papers from his briefcase and asked, "Who would like to help me sort out these materials?" In fact, Conan wanted to give it a try, but when he looked around, everyone was silent. He couldn't help but hesitate again, and finally didn't dare to stand up.
The boss paused and saw that no one dared to answer, so he smiled and pointed to the development zone with many tall buildings outside the window: "Twenty years ago, it was still a wilderness. At a meeting of the management Committee, the director once asked,' Without a penny of state investment, who has the courage to stand up and develop that wasteland?' A young man hesitated for a long time and finally stood up bravely. After some efforts, today, 20 years later, it has finally become such a prosperous scene. "
Although the boss never said who the young man was, Conan subconsciously understood that the young man was the boss himself. If you miss this opportunity, you are likely to spend your life in mediocrity. Thinking of this, Conan suddenly stood up and said, "I do!" " "The boss said nothing, just smiled and nodded. In the later days, Conan found that every time the boss always assigned himself much more work than others, including some important company secrets. Soon, he was promoted. Ten years later, Conan has set up his own industrial company and made amazing achievements, and he himself has become a bright star in the business world.
This story gives us such a revelation: for us at the beginning of life, there is no shortage of opportunities for success. The key is whether we have the courage to stand up and seize the opportunity. As Goethe said, cowards sigh and meditate, and brave people lift their pure eyes to the light.
I like to meditate when I am alone.
I wonder if anyone will indulge in this kind of meditation and get all kinds of fun from it. This is an era of action first, and all thinking seems to serve actions and interests.
I've always heard people say that China is too important, but I think the ancient literati in China are very sad. In the imperial examination era, literary talent became a vassal of politics, and literary thinking often revolved around whether it could rise in official career. For officials, money and reputation, utilitarian purposes sometimes defile the sanctity of "thought"
How many China students know how to think now? Under the shackles of exam-oriented education, examination papers are piling up, and the IQ of China teenagers is getting higher and higher, but they gradually lose their desire to think. What really benefits mankind is the exploration of scientists, the emotion of artists, the muscle knowledge of politicians, the brains of businessmen and the thinking of writers. At present, our education encourages rote learning and mechanical calculation in front of desks day after day.
I like chemistry, I like the wonderful changes of molecules, and I like the miracles brought by chemistry. I think the chemical world is a paradise where my thoughts can fly freely. But the chemistry teacher told me that all I have to do is remember the list of elements, remember the chemical reactions, remember the phenomena of the reactions and the conclusions drawn from them, and do one or two "standard" and "typical" experiments in the laboratory.
The road for students in China is too single now. Pass the senior high school entrance examination and college entrance examination, get into an ideal university, get a job with a diploma, and then work as a living calculator under the boss. This is the brightest future that modern education can bring us.
We are also dissatisfied, but we have to take the same route. Finally, we are crowded together on the wooden bridge of the college entrance examination, and then we embark on the crowded road of job hunting together. Each of us is in a hurry, but I hope to have time to think freely with real feelings. This may not bring any practical benefits to my life, nor will it bring so-called great contributions to mankind, but I am happy at this moment of thinking, and I enjoy the joy of free dancing. This will let me know that I live for myself, as a person with a soul, not as a higher organism or a higher machine.
Nietzsche said that God is dead, but in fact God lives in everyone's heart. I regard thinking as God, which is my belief. People who regard material interests as God are the most pitiful, because perhaps they have pursued life, but life has not been sublimated. When the dust of life settles, not everyone can understand the reason why he pursues all his life, but thinking can purify and sublimate his soul.
When the flower turns to dust, it doesn't smell as good as before, at least it has opened and bloomed its own beauty. Thinking is like a flower soul to people, and thinking is the evidence of human existence.
I'm here, so I think, I think, so I'm here.
When I am alone, I often ask myself: What is my true nature? Is it a docile and sensible girl in the eyes of parents? A teacher who turns a deaf ear to things outside the window? Is it a depressed candidate in the eyes of classmates? No, none of these?
Wild is my nature. In the last issue of New Weekly, I was struck by a huge photo: the editor-in-chief danced wildly with local villagers in Inner Mongolia! What is particularly eye-catching is the white general word at the bottom of the photo: remove all kinds of labels, jump and run in the wilderness, be a wild child of nature, and go wild! As soon as these words jumped into my eyes, my heart suddenly became excited, and the past suddenly came to my mind: Last New Year's Eve, perhaps Kuafu gave me courage. I rushed into the crowd and danced around the bonfire in the huge crowd, shouting my dreams in the dark, venting all my unhappiness and being myself. This is my wildness that goes deep into the bone marrow. Once triggered, it will burst into the brightest and brightest colors.
Naivety is my nature. Yes, I am 18 years old. Yes, I am an adult. But I still kept the habit of being a child: squatting on the ground to observe small insects and flowers. Some time ago, I took turns cleaning the flag altar, and the stairs next to the flag altar were also under my jurisdiction. If it is not "intimate contact", it is hard to imagine that on that cold, square cement platform, each fresh little life is "crawling". When Mrs. Dou was "away", I really squatted down to observe the little ants on the stairs as I was a child, a bit like what Acheng wrote in the book: "I squatted on the ground in Yunnan to see the little lizard, and it took a long time for its eyes to blink." Those little ants carry food selflessly, just as I look at them selflessly. Suddenly, a sly light flashed in my eyes. I viciously blocked the corner of the stairs with a mop, counting down to 3 seconds, 3, 2, 1. I couldn't wait to take off the mop, and they all hid in the deepest gap. It's cute to run away in a hurry At this time, I, like Bao and Dai, "people can't help being crazy under the lamp."
Sunshine is my true colors. I have seen many people describe themselves as "personality sunshine". Every time I see them, I always feel that they are missing something. In my opinion, only by loving the sun, nature and life wholeheartedly is the real sunshine. I read a short article written by Bi Feiyu: "My friend got lost and I asked him if he had any road signs. He said the sun was in front of his head on the left. Sure enough, I successfully found him two hours later. " Embracing the sunshine and bursting with blood, this is what I call "sunshine", not a label, but a real feeling. I am like Huang Yongyu: "I came to this world for the sun."
Wild, naive, sunny, love sunshine, love nature, love life: my true colors!
With the development of economy, there are more and more commodities on the market, people's consumption choices are more and more diversified, and their consumption level is also constantly improving. People's consumption concept is changing, and the proportion of expenditure on housing, health, education, leisure, transportation and communication, which reflects the demand for enjoyment and development, is rising rapidly. People are no longer limited to the satisfaction of basic needs such as food, clothing, housing and transportation, but pay more attention to improving the quality of life through consumption and pursuing a healthier and more civilized lifestyle.
Blind conformity is a common psychological phenomenon in consumption, which has the greatest influence on ordinary consumers. Because people's consumption behavior will always be influenced by conformity psychology and comparison psychology, and these psychology are often interrelated and affect people's consumption together. Therefore, in consumption, we should try to avoid the influence of some unhealthy consumption psychology and adhere to rational consumption based on individual actual needs.
Also try to avoid emotional consumption. Personal consumption is influenced by emotions and makes irrational consumption choices. It is often a whim, and my mind is not calm for a while. Afterwards, I found that this consumption choice was not suitable for my own needs. So when spending, we should pay attention to keep calm.
Also, we should avoid the tendency of emphasizing material consumption over spiritual consumption. Because, with the improvement of living standards, people's consumption structure is constantly changing and improving, and our choice should also be conducive to people's all-round development.
Diligence and thrift are the traditional virtues of our country and a national spirit, not a specific consumption behavior. As a spirit, it will never be out of date. China, in particular, is still in the primary stage of socialism, with a relatively low level of productivity and the pressure of population and resources. We should carry forward the fine style of thrift and hard work. From the perspective of personal ideological and moral cultivation, it is conducive to the formation of personal excellent moral character and the cultivation of sentiment, and it is a mental state that a conscientious person should have. Of course, thrift, hard work and reasonable consumption cannot be opposed. Thrift is not to curb consumption, but to say not to waste. In the process of consumption, we should buy goods from the perspective of environmental protection. With the development of economy, it has brought serious environmental pollution and serious shortage of resources. We should proceed from ourselves and maintain the harmonious development between man and nature. Doing so is not only beneficial to one's physical and mental health, but also beneficial to the sustainable development of society. With the improvement of special living standards, there should be moderate consumption, but it does not mean that it is not frugal.
With the improvement of people's living standards, living energy consumption has increased rigidly, which is a common situation in large and medium-sized cities in China. However, moderate consumption is not to reduce the people's material living standards, but to change the way of life on the basis of improving the efficiency of resource utilization and circular development, which is the inevitable ecology of future urban civilization. Rational consumption is beneficial to both individuals and society, and will promote the healthy development of individuals and the sustainable development of society.
Communication can make people's emotions harmonious, build a bridge of understanding between people and eliminate some unnecessary troubles in life. If there is a lack of communication, misunderstanding may occur. Look, this has already happened to me.
I remember when I was in the fourth grade, one day, the science final exam was very difficult. Although I made a comprehensive review in the previous stage and tried my best in the exam, the result was still very unsatisfactory-I only got 88 points. Although only 88 points, but the first in the class.
I skipped home after school and bumped into my father. Dad smiled and asked me, "What's so happy?" "I took the science exam today," I said with a smug smile. "I got 88 points!" I also pretended to be modest and said, "It's not good." Hearing this, my father's face suddenly became ugly and severely criticized: "How many times have I told you to review well and laugh all day?" . I watched TV yesterday, and I don't know how to say anything about you! "It's like a bolt from the blue, I can't stand it. I said unconvinced, "I reviewed yesterday!" "This result is good, and I rank in the class ..." Before I finished, my father scolded me: "You are still sophistry! Give me a good reflection! " I was so wronged that I didn't bother to explain to him. I ran back to my room crying and locked the door. No one was allowed in.
My mother asked me to eat in the evening, and I didn't eat either. My mother asked me what was wrong, and I didn't say anything. Mom had to ask dad, and dad explained the situation to mom. Mom scolded: "The teacher sent a message just now, and his score is already the first!" " "Dad ran to the door of the room in surprise and said to me," I'm sorry, I'm so excited, I'm afraid you won't get an A, "I'm doing it for your own good! Come out for dinner! "I just opened the door and said," Actually, I should explain it to you. " After that, we all laughed.
It seems that communication is really necessary!
Everyone needs a comfortable and beautiful living environment, but all this depends on people to create and maintain. How beautiful the quiet villages, quiet rivers and vibrant nature are! But with the destruction of the ecological environment, all this is slipping away from us quietly.
Beautiful village
Once upon a time, there was a beautiful village with many grain fields. In front of the grain field, there is a beautiful peach forest with pink flowers in full bloom, just like gorgeous rosy clouds. In front of Taolin is a large golden wheat field, which is breezy and gives off a burst of fragrance.
However, in the near future, a chemical plant will be built here, and the village will be transformed into a high-tech industrial zone. At that time, as long as the wind blows, it will be dusty. Where will those simple and kind people in the village go? Won't they become homeless by then? I will never see that beautiful peach grove again, and I will never smell that fragrance again. Instead, it will be the billowing smoke from factories, accompanied by stench and some gases harmful to human body. Really sad!
Where were you in the beautiful village in the past?
I remember going to my grandmother's house when I was a child, because there was a crystal clear river there. Every day when I pass by the river, I can't help admiring it even more, and even stop to stay. "Hua Hua", the crisp and pleasant sound of running water is so soft, it is the melody of nature and a beautiful song. Under the sunshine, the river is sparkling and dazzling, as if countless little stars are winking at me.
But not long after, grandma's family moved to a new neighbor. He poured all the sewage into the belly of the river, and no one else stopped him. And bullied the river with him. Since then, I have never been to my grandmother's house, because my favorite river no longer exists and has become a river full of white garbage and stinking. No one wants to go near it again, even the willow trees next to it are in pain. In the past, it always admired its graceful body like a dance artist, but now, it is curled up like an old man, like a broken work of art, and it can no longer be seen dancing, singing melodious songs, sparkling rivers and naughty stars blinking at me. All it sees is a dirty one.
Where were you in the beautiful river of the past?
In fact, whether it is villages, rivers, air or the environment, these are all indispensable parts of nature. They are close to each other, but will the nature we live on one day disappear?
I like green nature. Under the blue sky, the proud sun also took off its mysterious veil and showed a bright smile to people without reservation. Close your eyes and listen to the birds singing quietly until the bees come out to work and the butterflies dance. How lively the forest is at the moment and how strange people feel!
However, such a lively scene will leave us, because people will build buildings, build parking lots and cut down trees there. In this way, lovely animals have no home, and we have lost the fun of life. However, things are not as simple as imagined. The emission of automobile exhaust has caused serious air pollution. Hundreds of birds are killed in these waste gases every day, and many precious animals are on the verge of extinction. In the future, we will never see bees working and butterflies dancing, only more and more cars and fewer animals and trees.
Where are you, once beautiful nature?
Students, let's look for that beautiful village, beautiful river and beautiful nature together. Let's build a green home and a harmonious society together! ! ! ! !
I have a happy family of four: a capable father, a hardworking mother, a lively me and a lovely sister. I love my family's topic composition. Although my parents run a factory, they are not bosses. They just sit in the office and do some things like other employees. My father works very hard and is never late for work. Dad is very enthusiastic about his friends and colleagues. Dad is very diligent. When he comes home from work, he always helps his mother do some housework. Dad loves me very much. No matter what I want, as long as it is useful, he will try his best to meet my requirements, especially school supplies. He always gives me what I want. Treat your sister in the same way. But dad always likes to play jokes on his sister, making her laugh and cry every time.
Where's mom? Mom works as hard as dad. My mother is sincere and amiable, and is a typical wife and mother. My mother takes pains to clean the house every day, so that everyone in the family can live a comfortable life, but she has never said that she is bitter or tired. My mother often teaches me to study hard. Although my mother encouraged me to study hard, she never forced us to study with severe punishment. Besides taking care of our daily life and guiding us to study, my mother is also particularly concerned about our health. I often think that my mother is greater than Confucius.
What about me? Currently studying in Class 9, Grade 1, Chongya Middle School. My grades are average. I go home once a week. As soon as I get home, I will take the initiative to help my mother do some housework as much as I can after finishing my homework. I'm mom's little assistant.
As for my sister, she studies in Class 5 of Zen Primary School <1>. Her academic performance is very good. She has a lively and lovely personality. She likes reading, but sometimes she is naughty. She often talks back to her father, but sometimes she is rational.
This is my harmonious and happy home. I love my family. I love my father, mother and sister. How's it going? Envy me!
I think you must have a harmonious and happy family, too?
I love my family.
Home is a word that is warm when mentioned and fascinating when remembered. People who are destined to be a family.
Home, everyone has a home, and home is the most familiar place for everyone. Have our dearest family, the most beloved things.
Home is the earliest society that everyone comes into contact with. There are our joys and sorrows here. And everyone's mood will affect the mood of others in the family.
Home is the warmest place. Hard-working parents always struggle for a living. It ushered in the sunrise and sent away the sunset. In the morning, when you get up lazily, the breakfast carefully prepared by your mother is already on the table. When you get home at night, although your parents haven't prepared dinner because of busy things, your considerate mother will always prepare snacks and a glass of water for you.
Home is the sustenance of your soul. When you succeed, your family is really happy for you and gives you the most sincere congratulations. When you fail, your family encourages you from time to time, gives you the strength of love, and gives you the courage to walk into the door of success from the haze of failure. When you are sad and feel that there are no friends around you to talk to, you will suddenly feel that home is the only person you can talk to. The care and consideration of your family will gradually eliminate the shadow in your heart.
Home is also a school that teaches you how to adapt to society and how to be a man. Careful mother is always by your side, teaching you how to respect teachers and treat your friends and classmates at school. A strict father will always help you in your study and severely criticize you when you do something wrong carelessly. Perhaps, in the past, you would think that your mother was so nagging and your father's sternness frightened you. Then, you will feel that mom's nagging is so kind and warm; And the severity of your father makes you feel your father's infinite expectations.
Home changes as time goes by. Our parents are old, and we grow up day by day. As you get older, you will feel the deep love of your parents more and more strongly. Now that you are grown up, you should be filial to your parents who were old that day.
Home is created by parents together. People from birth to adulthood to success are inseparable from the care, education, influence and support of this family. Everyone's growth is saturated with the efforts of their parents.
Home, my favorite place, I will study hard with my parents' expectations, and I will go home with success in the future.
I love my family.
Home, the harbor of the soul, the pure land of body and mind forever. Every time I encounter setbacks in an affair, the power behind it becomes stronger and stronger. Originally thought, love without reason is pale and thin, and can't stand the test of time. Until that moment, I vaguely understood the meaning of "love" and vaguely understood that love does not need a reason.
I have always believed that maternal love is the greatest and the most unrequited love. I still believe in this. But as I grew up and matured, I said nothing about my mother's loving advice.
My mother often calls me stupid and naive. I never think about superfluous things. I don't want yesterday, I don't want tomorrow, I don't even want to think about the next second, I just want this moment. I think everyone has their own destiny. I am ridiculous, those who want to change their destiny. I smiled. Some people want to control and change their own destiny. In fact, this is just part of your destiny. Fate is a great screenwriter and director. You are just a little actor. We can only act according to his arrangement. It's just a triumph of fate.
Therefore, I never think about the future, take it one day at a time, and do a good job in the present. Don't always think about this and that. Maybe, one day there will be an earthquake or a terrorist attack, and you don't want to visit the grave occasionally. What do you think about the future? Nothing! It is better to live a good life now.
I remember that one morning I told my mother that you always forced me to lose weight, eat less meat and eat more vegetables. But it's no use, you see, now I'm slowly starting to change. Therefore, people should let nature take its course. If you are a fat man, you will never be a thin man. However, it's a pity that my mother called me depraved and said that if I lost weight earlier, I would lose weight.
I just smiled, I knew she didn't understand, didn't understand.
I'd better, as I said before, not try to change my destiny. Because you can never escape the circle set for you by fate. Just like Buick Hu Zhe and Chen Zhou, they have not overcome the fate of disability and cannot live in this society. But their fate is physical disability, but they are still physically disabled and determined.
Let nature take its course, don't think too much, just be happy for a while.
Let nature take its course and play the play arranged by the director and screenwriter.
Let nature take its course, no matter what you do, you can't escape the arrangement given to you by fate.
Let it be! ......
This is life, this is your life. ......
When I was 9 years old, my parents told us the story of wolves and told us to be honest and good children. Now that we have grown up, we have a deeper understanding of this city. But as I grow up, more and more dishonest phenomena around me confuse me, and more and more people around me are saying that honest people suffer more. However, does it hurt to be an honest person? I'm confused.
After entering junior high school, politics gradually solved this puzzle for me.
When we learn honesty, a vivid example is presented to me: Xu, a student of the middle school affiliated to Yangzhou University, accidentally scraped a BMW on the side of the road on the way to school by bike. He waited in the same place for half an hour without waiting for the owner, leaving a small note of apology and compensation. The owner was extremely moved and shocked by this and made a decision not to allow compensation; Ren Qinghe's shop was demolished, but he stayed there for several months until the last egg ticket sold was exchanged for customers. He said: "People can't lose anything on these two hard things all their lives: reputation and conscience." These examples touched countless people and me and answered my doubts.
It can be seen that honesty is the precious wealth of our life. At the same time, some people have lost their integrity and their lives.
There is a young man studying abroad. He has excellent academic performance and is also very smart. I thought I could find a good job after graduation, but I ran to several companies in a row and was rejected. When I asked the reason, I realized that his file recorded his three experiences of evading tickets by bus.
The ancients said: an upright man is open and poised, the villain is worried ... So, honesty is the basic principle of dealing with people. It can be seen that being an honest person will not suffer. We should inherit an old saying of China, "A word spoken by a gentleman is a lost cause." .
As I grow older, I feel the burden on my shoulders is getting heavier and heavier, and I seem to be moving towards an indomitable spirit. But if you don't sweep a house, how can you sweep the world? There is one thing I should sweep in front of me-garbage.
I used to give pesticides to my parents in the summer vacation. It was when I was carrying a heavy medicine bucket on my back. I deeply felt the heaviness, because it pressed not only my tender shoulders, but also my heart. This is how my mother carried this on her thin body for decades. I feel my heart is bleeding. I really can't imagine my mother dragging her tired body to cook for us after this. At that time, I just took it for granted, but what qualifications do I have to enjoy these decades of kindness?
From then on, I learned to be patient, not to embarrass my parents to buy me this and that, and to do some work for my parents. Learned what a child should do is to be filial to his parents.
My growth was watered by my parents with sweat and love. So I secretly made up my mind to show my best side to my parents.
Thanksgiving parents, love eternal life.