A person's good luck is a good accomplishment gradually cultivated over time.
Truly blessed people have these four characteristics.
1
Be grateful.
To be a man, the grace of dripping water should be rewarded with a spring, remember the love of one meter, and pay for the kindness of Mi Dou. This is a proper character of a person. It is the duty of being a man to be grateful to someone and remember them for a lifetime. Appreciate the help in trouble and the noble people who have helped us.
Someone helped you once, you should keep it in mind; When someone gives you a helping hand, you should respond sincerely.
As the old saying goes, the tree never forgets its roots, and the beauty never forgets its thanks!
Don't be ungrateful no matter how rich you are.
Someone is willing to help you out of affection, not obligation.
People who can help you when you are in trouble are even rarer.
Such goodwill should be borne in mind.
Knowing how to be grateful is a person's most important quality.
The Book of Songs says: Give me Mutao and repay it with Qiong Yao.
Appreciate others' help, even if you can't repay it in time.
In this life, the most unforgettable thing is the kindness of others.
The kindness of a meal should be given away for nothing; The grace of dripping water deserves the return of spring water.
On the road of life, only gratitude can help more people.
Be a man, you must be grateful.
In our life, moving is temporary, and gratitude is lifelong.
Owning others should be unforgettable.
The ancients said, "Those who love will return, and those who are blessed will return." If you are grateful and give others love, love and blessings will be returned.
Always be grateful, and everything in the world will always be with you.
Be grateful that everyone who appears in your life, no matter who you meet, is the person who should appear in your life, and he will definitely teach you something. It is their contribution that makes our life full of surprises and surprises.
Ma Yun once said: "The so-called belief is gratitude, and admiration is awe." Know how to be grateful, and your life will be wider and wider, and you will go further and further.
People who know how to be grateful will keep in mind those who have helped themselves.
Grateful people want to repay each other.
Such people are sentient beings and righteous, and God can know them and will not mistreat them.
Give a peach back and people will give it back to Joan.
What you seem to give up for others is actually paving the way for yourself.
Always with a grateful heart, the world will naturally become gentle, and the road of life will not be too bumpy. In this way, the road will naturally get wider and wider.
British Prime Minister Churchill accidentally fell into the water when he was a child.
When the farmer in the distance heard the cry for help, he jumped into the river and saved him.
In order to thank the peasants for saving their lives, Churchill's father came to visit with a generous gift and promised to fund the peasants' sons to receive higher education.
The farmer's son is alexander fleming.
Later, penicillin was successfully invented and used to save Churchill's lung disease during World War II.
The world is like an interacting magnetic field. Because you know how to be grateful, others will be more willing to help you and you will have more opportunities.
People who are always grateful have love in their hearts and light in their eyes, and luck will naturally take care of them often.
Everyone in this world depends on character, and every fortune given by fate is the accumulation of your good character without exception.
If you are grateful, God will take care of you and good luck will come.
2
Be kind.
Tao Te Ching: "A gentleman is thick but not thin; Actually not in China. "
It means: an upright gentleman insists on a simple and mellow way and never does anything in vain.
A kind-hearted person is born with three blessings and will have rich blessings.
Kind people bring their own kindness and noble spirit.
Throughout the ages, kind people are often blessed.
A person can be kind to others and do things with kindness, and there will be blessings in the future.
Kindness seems to be a concession, but it is actually a disguise to add luster to yourself.
During the Spring and Autumn Period, young Bao and Guan Zhong were doing business together in downtown areas. Every time they share the profits, Guan Zhong will take more.
When others saw this scene, they were very angry and reminded Bao Shu Ya. After listening, he just smiled and said, nothing. You don't know. He comes from a poor family. I have an old mother to serve, and I'm fairly rich. He should take more.
Bao's kindness is admirable. Guan Zhong lived up to his help and regarded it as a difference between life and death.
Later, with the help of Guan Zhong and Bao, he became the first undisputed overlord in the Spring and Autumn Period.
Be a man, don't play the abacus too loudly. It seems to take advantage of the petty gain, but in fact it loses the overall situation.
And kind people seem to have suffered, but in fact they have gained people's hearts.
Hu Shi's kindness was famous in the Republic of China. He knows how to be grateful, and people trust him. Be considerate of others and get along well; Be generous to others, and people will feel relaxed in front of him.
In Beijing at that time, his family had a wedding every weekend, and people from all walks of life, even vendors, were welcome.
His friends are all over Beijing, so the most commonly used phrase at that time was "my friend Hu Shizhi". Such a good popularity is inseparable from his kindness.
Your behavior is your wealth; Everything you say and do is your blessing.
Kind people are easy to get along with.
Even when helping others, he abides by his own boundaries, puts himself in others' shoes and never offends others.
Don't embarrass others, and keep others' dignity within your power. This is kindness.
When others are in an awkward position, they watch the excitement or add fuel to the fire. Such people are much more mean and inhuman.
The loved one is back, and the blessed one is back.
What you do will eventually win the hearts of the people for you; Everything you say and do will eventually win you good luck.
Kindness will be rewarded, and life will be broad and flat.
Kindness is a kind of.
I can't bear to let others suffer, so I choose to bear the fault of others.
Put yourself in others' shoes and never give others pain you don't want to bear.
Actor Hugh was once involved in a car accident. His right eye was badly damaged, he was almost blind and his right face was almost disfigured. The accident investigation after the accident was caused by the fatigue driving of assistant Xiao Kai.
What is puzzling is that the driver was still Hugh's driver. Hugh didn't fire him after his recovery.
Hugh said afterwards, "Nobody wants such a thing. If I don't choose to forgive him, he won't forgive himself and others won't forgive him. "
It is also based on kindness that Hugh has gained more and more partners and the road of life has become wider and wider.
Be kind, be kind, be kind. Such people will receive the gift of fate sooner or later.
Be kind, do the right thing, sit up straight, live up to the sky, and bow down.
Good luck is not accumulated by wealth and status, but attracted by one's own virtue.
A person's happiness is not predestined, but cultivated by himself bit by bit.
Good people are rewarded.
Good people will be blessed.
three
Good attitude
There is a famous saying: the world is like a mirror: frown at it and it frowns at you; Smile at it, and it smiles back at you.
Good mentality, not bad luck.
A person's attitude towards life determines his happiness.
The same thing happens to different people and will have different results. Sometimes, happiness and pessimism are only between thoughts.
On this question of luck, Japanese writer Fan Fanzi made some remarks:
The way to be lucky is actually very simple: when the fortune is bad or unsatisfactory, it is actually arranged for you to learn from it. As long as you understand this truth, you will be grateful for what you have experienced. When you know that there are things tailored for you to do every day, you will be full of enthusiasm and expectation for every day.
The world is always what we see, depending on where we look at it.
Just like half a glass of water on the table, we will feel "lost" when we see the empty cup above; When you see the water below, you will feel that you still have it.
How do we look at the world? The world takes on a different look because of our views.
Su Shi's career path is extremely bumpy. In his 42-year career, one-third of his time was spent in "decentralization".
At the age of 42, he was slandered by a villain because of Wutai's poetry case, and was banished to Huangzhou by Song Shenzong.
However, instead of being depressed, he did nothing, but did everything for the benefit of the people.
He is full of interest in life, climbing mountains and writing poems near the garden, trying to find happiness in life.
This positive and optimistic attitude towards life has improved his poetry and articles and even the realm of being a man.
Later generations found that many poems that remain immortal were created by him under difficult circumstances.
If you have a good attitude in difficult times, your life will be more brilliant.
Roosevelt was robbed before he became president, and he lost a lot of money. Facing his friend's comfort, he wrote back and said, "Dear friend, thank you for comforting me. I am safe now, thanks to life. Because: first, the thief stole my things and didn't hurt my life; Second, the thief only stole some of my things, not all of them; Third, the luckiest thing is that he is the thief, not me. "
People with a good attitude will not bother to entangle some small things. Their energy is spent on meaningful things. How can people who work harder than others be unlucky?
People with a good attitude will never consume their lives by complaining. Their time is reserved for the most important people in life. How can people who know what they want be unlucky?
People with a good attitude can look at life with a more peaceful attitude, and even in the gutter, they have the courage to look up at the stars. How can people who always see opportunities in their troubles be unlucky?
The greatest fortune in our life is ourselves.
four
mercy
Saint Amethyst begins with six words: "At the beginning of life, human nature is good."
Mark Twain also said: "Kindness is a universal language, which can be felt by the blind and smelled by the deaf."
We can be ordinary, but we must have a kind soul. Kindness is the noblest quality of a person and the wealth and beauty of your life.
Even if the world is full of ulterior motives, we should still insist on choosing kindness.
Because, we insist on the meaning of kindness and don't want it to bring much return.
But when everyone passes this little bit of good fire on to others, the society will be a little better and the world will become better because of everyone's little bit.
The so-called kindness means not doing earth-shattering events. But in the nuances, sympathize with other people's difficulties and resolve embarrassment. It is also a sign of kindness to leave others with proper dignity, to make themselves comfortable and to make others comfortable.
The smallest good deed is better than the greatest good thought.
Thailand has a very warm and healing advertisement.
The little boy's mother was ill and had no money to buy painkillers, so he ran to the drugstore to steal them.
I didn't expect to be found by the drugstore owner. The little boy stood there and was scolded by the drugstore owner, full of disappointment.
At this time, the owner of the restaurant next to him took the initiative to go over, paid the little boy in advance and made a vegetable soup for him to take away.
The owner of the restaurant is a kind person. He helped the little boy not out of sympathy, because he also gave food to beggars who came to beg.
Thirty years later, the restaurant owner suddenly fell to the ground and was taken to the hospital. His daughter received a medical bill as high as 800,000 pounds.
This family can't afford it The daughter hung an advertisement for selling a house and cried all night in front of her father's hospital bed.
The next morning, when my daughter woke up, she received another medical bill, and the amount shown on it became 0.
There is a small print below: "Your medical expenses were paid off 30 years ago."
The attending doctor is the little boy who is helped by the boss. In order to repay this kindness, he paid the medical expenses in advance and tried his best to treat his former benefactor.
Renyi opened the door for him and lit up his way forward.
Although this is only an advertisement, it gives us insight into the goodness of human nature.
In this story, we also see another meaning. Helping others is helping ourselves.
Easy, why be stingy.
Many unexpected things will happen in a person's life. Perhaps a small act of kindness we do unconsciously can change the fate of others, and at the same time, our own life will change.
So when we see someone in need and you can help him, please hold out your hand firmly.
After paying goodwill, it may not be rewarded immediately, but it will be compensated at a certain node.
Shakespeare said: A kind heart is gold. Therefore, kind people are precious and lovely.
Holding a kind heart forever is the greatest blessing in life.
In life, the simplest kindness is to help others. When we lend a helping hand, we plant good causes, and one day, we will reap good results.
"As you sow, you reap." Be kind to others, and others will be polite.
If you want to be loved, you must give love first; If you expect help from others, you should help others first; If you want others to be nice to you, show them your kindness first.
As the saying goes, "Come back with love, come back with happiness". Always face the bright side with good intentions, and you will have more good luck.
Some people say: "No matter how noble or low, kindness is the foundation of being a man. If you benefit others wholeheartedly, even if you don't ask for anything in return at all, the return will suddenly come. "
Your accumulated character and kindness always bring you surprises and good luck inadvertently.
Kind people are the happiest people.
Kind people will have the most happiness and happiness.
Good people bring good luck and blessings. If you do good deeds, God will give you more good luck. It is only a matter of time before you meet a noble person.
Tao Te Ching said, "Heaven has no relatives, so we often work with good people.".
God doesn't care about relatives or friends, but he often cares about kind people.
Ceng Zi once said: People are kind. Although the good news has not yet arrived, it will be a far-reaching disaster.
It is better to be kind to others than to pray to God and worship Buddha. Kindness is the best amulet.
Being a kind person in the future, warming others and yourself will also make your mental outlook more and more beautiful.
Kindness is a wonderful cycle. Your kindness in helping others will be your blessing one day.
People's blessings are all cultivated from daily behavior. It's no use asking God to worship Buddha. Only by cultivating one's self-cultivation over time can one reap one's own good fortune.