Ancient prose: Confucius said: a gentleman is not strong if he is not heavy, and his knowledge is not solid. Lord is faithful. A man without friends is worse than himself. It is never too late to mend.
? If a gentleman doesn't respect himself, he has no dignity. Even if he studies, he is not solid. Honesty and trustworthiness are very important. Don't make friends with people different from you. Don't be afraid to correct your mistakes.
There are several versions of the sentence "People who have no friends are not as good as themselves". Generally speaking, the following three points can be summarized: 1. The mainstream opinion represented by Zhu is that you can't make friends with people who are morally inferior to yourself, because it is harmful and useless. Qian Mu's statement has something in common with Li Zehou's statement. If you want to make friends with people who are taller than you, and help you improve your moral cultivation, you will naturally get a good friend. 3. South is the mainstream. At the beginning of making friends, choose its goodness. See the sage Si Qi, introspect when you are not wise; All friends have something to learn or learn from.
Apply what I have learned: After I learned it, I set myself a principle of making friends. I choose people who are honest, kind, sincere, don't say malicious words, don't care about everything, generous and broad-minded.
The essence of living is to be responsible for your own life and realize your self-worth. China is a human society as well as a relational society. People are interrelated and influenced by each other. When you make good friends, you will benefit from your work and life for life, and you will also make bad friends. Life is a mess.
According to psychological research, it is easy to find human mistakes. Does everyone know what they did or said wrong? Absolutely know! However, people have a problem. They clearly know that they are wrong. Second, they found many reasons to support their mistakes. The more they think about themselves, the more correct they are. They don't hesitate to defend themselves with things and people around them. Such people can easily lose friends, and even their relatives will drift away.
Ancient prose: Benevolence is beautiful, so how do you know that you choose to be heartless?
It's good to live with kind people. How can you say that you are wise if the place you choose is not with people with kindness?
Perception of life: If you are near Zhu Zhechi, you will be black; if you are near Mexico, you will meet kind people. In real life, what kind of people you are with determines what your future life will be like, even changes your growth trajectory and determines your life.
There are three things to be thankful for in life: being a teacher friend and meeting a good teacher at school. I am a leader and a friend. I met a good leader at work. You are lovers and friends. Get married and find a good partner.
These friends played a vital role in my growing up. When I was in the Conservatory of Music, I met a great class teacher and appointed me monitor. In the past three years, I personally organized and participated in many large-scale activities inside and outside the school, which gave me a lot of exercise opportunities and became the key training object of the school. Before graduation, I was assessed as a party activist.
? After work, the main leaders of Yankuang Electric Aluminum Company helped me a lot, and assigned me writing tasks to make new attempts and break through myself. During my eight years in Alcatel, I found a sense of accomplishment and value: I was promoted to a minor subject, officially joined the Party, obtained a postgraduate degree, a master's degree and a senior political engineer qualification, won the first prize in journalism and the title of top ten journalist in succession, and was also hired as a special correspondent by the national magazine China Nonferrous Metals.
Finding a good partner is the happiness of a woman's life. This is also an important reason why I can sacrifice my career, change jobs many times and support my partner without regrets. I appreciate my partner's attitude towards life: caring for the weak, helping the poor, being kind, sincere, considerate of others, daring to face difficulties and taking responsibility.
? My partner's flexible working ideas, love of learning and thinking have a great influence on me. When I can't write an article, I always ask him for advice. He always gives me some new and exciting ideas, which makes me feel very inspired. In order to better help me improve my writing, I often recommend the good books he has read, and often drag me to study and grow together with him. Before going to bed, we always get to know each other's recent situation, listen to him talk about things at work, and how he deals with and solves them, which makes my ideological level go up a step. Talking about anecdotes between friends makes me feel that the feelings between friends are established through sincerity. Listening to what he said about studying abroad opened my eyes and made me look forward to a better life.