Most of them are very sultry!
Do the following, you are a good woman.
1. Tell a person how important he is
A man does not exclude doing his duty to his family and women. If he can clearly know how much his wife loves him, he will not hesitate to sacrifice everything for his family and wife. On the other hand, if a man is not sure about his family and women's feelings, or even has unnecessary worries, he will behave like a hooligan. When it comes to family and their women, men like to hear the answer like Mrs. Eisenhower: "The greatest career that life brings to women is to be a wife."
2, tolerance, truly understand the shortcomings and faults of men.
Men pay more attention to family and women than women think. They are always used to treating their families and women as safe havens and comfortable nests. So they hope that their success and failure can be completely contained here and welcome them back with open arms at any time.
3. Women must pay attention to hygiene and love cleanliness.
Although they are lazy and dirty, they can't stand a woman who doesn't wash her face or feet and is indifferent to the chaotic home. Because they think their families and their women are their real faces.
4. Give men the title of head of the family
Women always like to argue with men about the head of the family, as if the head of the family really can control something. In fact, men only ask for a birthright. How can they take the initiative to buy food and wash dishes when they are so lazy?
5. Understand the lonely side of men.
Psychologically, men are very afraid of loneliness and loneliness. Single men go out for a drink every night or sleep at friends' houses. It's not that they like drinking or being close to friends. Their real reason is fear of loneliness. Therefore, married men have every reason to believe that they should no longer feel lonely and lonely. Therefore, when men lose track of their women, or they come home late or even don't, they are as scared as naked nuns in downtown areas.
6. Don't expect a man to be the same at home.
Women often complain that a man is completely different from others at home. Why is he always so polite to outsiders, but he treats me like a tyrant? Why can't he be nice to me? Actually, women don't have to worry about this. Because politeness is always just a social need, excessive politeness is harmful to the family. When a man is very polite to a woman, it only means that he has lost his love for her or done something wrong to her.
7. Don't confront a person when he is angry.
Women can't understand the pressure and hardships that men bear in society, and this bad mood is likely to be taken home by them. So men often criticize women or lose their temper with women for no reason. When they are furious, they are not really dissatisfied with women, but just venting their depressed feelings. Men need women's understanding and acceptance most, and women need to pay a considerable unfair price.
8. Men are also jealous.
Men are no less jealous than women, and they are always desperate. Many more men died by the sword of rival duels than jealous women. If a woman really loves her man, she should try to understand the man's mentality mixed with self-esteem and vanity, and be careful of his paranoia and speculation.
9. Don't talk nonsense at home.
Wash your dirty linen at home. I can't tell what is right and wrong at home. If you add gossip from outside, men's self-esteem will definitely collapse completely. At that time, even if men were willing to reconcile, it was difficult to ride a tiger. If a woman really wants to solve the problem, the only choice is to discuss it slowly behind closed doors. Because men's housekeeping principle is: outsiders are not allowed to interfere in internal affairs.
10, don't compare your man with others.
In the eyes of men, it is a serious betrayal for women to compare their men and families with others. They can't understand the original intention and desire of women in good faith, but subjectively think that women are criticizing them and expressing their dissatisfaction. They will also be heartless. If you are not satisfied, why don't you leave at once?